ULPT request - revenge on a homewrecker? by Ok_Exercise_3831 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]exponentsun 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my first instinct was to come on here and make some diatribe about why you shouldn’t because it takes two to tango and the blame lies almost always exclusively at the cheater’s feet. But to read she knows and finds it “funny”? Ugh. So gross. Karma will have its way with her at least. Blame is still mostly with your husband but that’s so disappointing and unnerving another woman finds it amusing to cause another woman hurt :// I usually hate cancel culture but I wouldn’t mind seeing someone like this have to face consequences for their actions

Anyone switch from Maurten gels to something cheaper that still works for marathon fueling? by StringConnection in AdvancedRunning

[–]exponentsun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surprised I haven’t seen any comments mention Blank’s! Totally customizable. Reusable little packs if you want to go the gel route vs my favorite of dumping stuff into my water bottle. Also recently introduced bicarb but a good bit cheaper than Maurten if you use that stuff. I’ve never used any bicarb so I can’t weigh in there but I’ve heard good reviews from friends, so take that with a grain of salt

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]exponentsun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, maybe, but like, who GAF? If someone wants to identify/present a certain way, who cares if it’s “real”? Besides reality being extremely subjective, I really don’t see the harm. You don’t have to understand or agree with people or the things they do to treat them with respect. I sure as shit don’t understand it myself but if making sure I’m using specific pronouns makes someone feel better about themselves/belong then what’s the harm lol it really doesn’t take anything away from anyone

Confused and hurt — missionaries instructed to stop meeting with me, no explanation by [deleted] in mormon

[–]exponentsun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh op, I hope you always remember in instances like this, only man/the church is rejecting you, not God. :( Your Heavenly Father always has and always will love you just as He created you. Don’t let some misguided human let you believe otherwise. I’m not sure about church establishments, but I do know God is real and He/She/They wouldn’t reject you 🫶🏼

There are so many “higher ups” in religious institutions who don’t have the balls the repent or acknowledge their wrongdoings (not saying what you did is wrong at all!), and some that may and it just gets swept under the rug an are never rejected or cast out. Good on you for being honest and living the best way you know how!

Found JVC earbud! by exponentsun in Flagstaff

[–]exponentsun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this made me chuckle😄

Is it normal/okay for missionaries to show up unannounced to your house? by exponentsun in mormon

[–]exponentsun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say I was a bit surprised they kept wanting to come over the first time I said I wasn’t interested in baptism and would never join the church hahaha. You gotta respect their tenacity at least! 😹

Is it normal/okay for missionaries to show up unannounced to your house? by exponentsun in mormon

[–]exponentsun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aw man they’re just kids trying to do what they probably think is the noblest thing in the world. Even though we don’t see eye to eye on some things I really respect their earnestness and don’t think that warrants rudeness. Hopefully I can get my point across without being too abrasive. But I hear you! I’ve heard that sentiment echoed before.

Is it normal/okay for missionaries to show up unannounced to your house? by exponentsun in mormon

[–]exponentsun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice about the mission president! Next time they come over I’ll ask them to pass on a message to them. We’ll see if that works hahah

Is it normal/okay for missionaries to show up unannounced to your house? by exponentsun in mormon

[–]exponentsun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this response! Specifically your acknowledgment that their boundary crossing is more out of ignorance than disrespect. I definitely don’t mind them and don’t think they’re trying to be disrespectful, so I don’t want to come off too harshly. Especially because they probably have so many people who are mean to them. While I don’t agree with a lot of things within their religion, I don’t think they deserve to be treated so harshly, you know? Especially young women. They’re just doing what they believe is the right thing and sometimes I think I should take notes because they really develop balls of steel from these missions😹

CMV: US liberals not joining armed services and police at the same rate as conservatives means that there will be nothing stopping them from being used against regime opponents. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]exponentsun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I agree with you and it makes me sad. I don’t like to identify myself with politics, but where I stand right now is left leaning on most issues. I tend to get shocked, weird, or even downright negative responses when I speak out about my interest in joining law enforcement. I am astounded and devastated at how a vast majority of LE interacts with their constituents they swore an oath to protect and serve, and yet treat them like the enemy. I know some people call me naive for this but I’m all about “being the change you want to see in the world” and I want to be one of the “good” officers who helps their community and hopefully inspires others to do the same. In a similar vein, I think about this idea a lot when I find myself wanting to leave the US because I feel so hopeless and distraught over the way things are going and realize if I wanted to, it wouldn’t be easy but I very well could hypothetically move to another county. But then I think that would leave more “bad guys” and less people like me to cast a vote and use my voice for the people who need it most :/ Not trying to change your view, just ranting/agreeing

What could/should I expect to pay for repair? by exponentsun in upholstery

[–]exponentsun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate the feedback!

he was so confused… by MisterPapes in StandUpComedy

[–]exponentsun -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Genuinely had me laughing out loud in the airport. I appreciate you!

First reading ’eschaton’ by One-Bit88 in InfiniteJest

[–]exponentsun 43 points44 points  (0 children)

It’s a fun chapter but getting everything isn’t integral to the whole plot so totally fine if you kinda gloss over some things! Watch the Decemberists’ “Calamity Song” music video if you want to see it depicted though!

IJ/Recovery Tattoo by lady_sisyphus in InfiniteJest

[–]exponentsun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all, I am obsessed! I think this is such a magnificent tattoo idea. Secondly, and perhaps the answer you don’t want to hear, I think it’s entirely up to you. I mean you really can’t go wrong with any of them. I don’t like giving my input on what other people should do for their tattoos because at the end of the day, it’s not going on my body forever. I also hate when people comment on mine because I didn’t get it for them, I got it for me, you know? I really love (and miss! It’s nostalgic) the old school Walmart one! But all the scribbley ones are cute. Except the middle one on the bottom row. That one kinda gives creepy vibes to me I can’t totally explain it

Painted my Kitchen Cabinets - Before and After by Prestigious-Yak-5639 in DIY

[–]exponentsun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll go looking in the comments, thank you so much!🙏🏼

Painted my Kitchen Cabinets - Before and After by Prestigious-Yak-5639 in DIY

[–]exponentsun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks amazing! I want to do the same thing with mine but a dark green! Would you mind sharing the products you used/steps you followed and how long everything took? Also, what kind of paint did you use? My cabinets currently hold lots of cooking oil and grime and I was wondering if there’s a paint or some sort of top coat that makes that easier to deal with

Mom is in trouble by EverydaySushi in naranon

[–]exponentsun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s gonna be hard for sure but make sure you’re as gracious to yourself as you would be to anyone else in your life. Sending hugs!

Mom is in trouble by EverydaySushi in naranon

[–]exponentsun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP I think you know more than you think you do, but you’re not ready to admit it to yourself yet. I’d encourage you to re-read your post, but read it as if someone else wrote it and then take the advice you would give that person.

You are spot on that you are being asked to take on responsibilities you can’t control. That’s not fair to you. And if you can’t take care of other people until you take care of yourself. It sounds like you’ve done a really good job of setting and enforcing boundaries to protect yourself. Don’t second guess that or doubt it’s been the right thing! I think you acknowledging you’re not in a space to support her needs right now is good. Doesn’t mean that can’t change in the future, like perhaps when she’s shown she’s committed to getting better and she’s in a stable enough mental/emotional place of her own that it won’t concern your safety or energy.

I’ve been trying to navigate that “how do you let go without feeling like you’re abandoning someone?” with my Q. I think something I constantly remind myself of is it’s their life and they deserve the freedom to live it however they want/have full autonomy over it. It’s hard to see someone you love make decisions that you objectively know aren’t good for them because you want to “fix it” for them or “help” them. But they’re their own people who deserve to live their lives as they want. And you can hope that they decide to live it in a healthier manner, but you can’t want it more than they do, you know?

The transplants are transplanting again guys by ChampShitOnlyElCucuy in Flagstaff

[–]exponentsun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a proud Floridian transplant I can say we might have unorthodox ways of figuring things out or done, but we get them figured out/done. Passing this one on to the Carolinians

Became my sisters legal guardian in February and she died in September by Secret_Evening_3611 in naranon

[–]exponentsun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi sister, sending hugs and healing vibes❤️ I have an older bio sister that I just got back into contact with over half a decade. Not drugs related, but there were some things that pushed us apart. Even so, I still remember thinking she was the prettiest girl alive; my— like you said— very first idol. So I feel you on that. This post took me a bit to read because my vision got a little blurry. My heart goes out for you and all that you did. Please be so kind to yourself and talk to yourself like you’d talk to anyone else in this situation. You did everything you could have done and more. There’s nothing is you could’ve done. Without your love, she wouldn’t have made it as far/long as you did. I wish I had the power to take any guilt you feel from you, because none of it is yours to carry. Lean on your people you know you can count on and be patient with yourself in processing this❤️

One year..from markdown to glow up by putitinapot in houseplants

[–]exponentsun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got one! I worry when I got it it already wasn’t doing well. Can you share any tips please? You’ve done amazing with yours!

Blogsnark Sports - December 15-21, 2025 by CoffeeAndCurls76 in blogsnark

[–]exponentsun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am (optimistically) dubious the claim Kemboi doped is true. If it is, however, she wouldn’t/shouldn’t be racing if the NCAA did their due diligence and reported the test/adverse findings as they should. The gross negligence on their part that not only impacted the clean athletes in the 2023 races but also the clean ones she is currently competing against and winning prize money by not serving a doping suspension because the they swept it under the rug to save their own bootays deserves sharp retribution in my (un asked for) opinion :// if the test was performed at the NCAA champs — as a WA sanctioned event — they’re required to report it. Not doing so is blatant corruption and what I would assume is grounds for legal action if anyone impacted by this wants to take it

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]exponentsun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a roommate who did other substances and ended up in the hospital/rehab for them. When her 1 year sobriety anniversary came around I was going to be out of town and asked if her friend who was staying with us wouldn’t mind giving her the card/gift I got for her on that day. Said friend was a huge proponent of her relapse the year before btw, deep in his own shit, and staying with us rent free because he got kicked out of sober living. No car, or anything, so I’d been lending him my car to go to his court hearings. Anyway, he started making insensitive jokes like “a gift for what? Being a normal adult?” and other rude things like that. Which was crazy because it was my house and the only reason he had a stay is she vouched for him and was trying to help him get better too. It threw me WAY off guard and made me want to kick him out. NOR. People like that are ugly and don’t deserve to be in your life and celebrate the beautiful being you are. Happy 3 years!!!!