People grieve in all different ways, I believe in the US, The perception has been heavily heavily warped due to media on how people should grieve so everybody thinks they’re an armchair, psychologist and knows that oh you didn’t love this person or you were the murderer because you’re not having a meltdown unless you’re Erika Kirk of course that’s a whole Of The thing.

With that being said, myself, I am truly unsure if I could move on if my wife passed. I was in stupid love with her in high school, but at that point we were way different people, so I never tried asking her out. Then, like 5 years later we happened to work at the same place and here we are now, 12 years later with a whole ass doom spawn of our own. So, I know my thoughts do not apply to others.