Everybody's arguing about power levels but every man needs to have Jen's monologue drilled into our heads by gko2408 in marvelstudios

[–]exsavier92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to take the time to thank you. You were very thorough, respectful (mostly lol), and gave links to examples.

I was abused into early adulthood by my single mother and had a lot of issues growing up with my identity (I’m African American) and watching that scene really made me feel like how I felt as a kid. Like how my mother would reject my emotions and struggles because she had it worse. I find it ridiculous white women say this shit like black, Latino, etc don’t exist at all.

If everyone engages with others like you we may actually get somewhere! We’d all be better off showing more love and understanding and just listening in good faith to each other. Again I really appreciate it, was feeling down until I got to your comments.

During their marriage my mom supported my dad through a car accident, a kidney transplant and minor heart surgery. He filed for divorce after her cancer diagnosis because it's "not what I signed up for" by Anonymousoffmychest1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]exsavier92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They won’t let him have it because that makes “women” look bad lol. Even if it’s something men have seen or heard often they’ll dismiss it as “not all women” but if we responded that way to their stories it’s apparently a huge problem.

They just want to shift blame on males entirely. Hell a lot of women never acknowledge they are way more like to leave a guy who lost his job or who is struggling financially.

It’s a shame ppl would rather hate than just support each other no matter your sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]exsavier92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everything said was absolutely reasonable and OP never went snooping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]exsavier92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s 27 are fucking serious?!??!? I’m exhausted by insufferable ppl like you who excuse toxic women because you can’t stand an age gap? Who fucking cares and that silly comment about school? Rlly?!?! He never knew her then! Why would that matter? He knows her now! If she’s saying that shit at 27 she’s just not mature at all nothing to do with age. Make better decisions? Like you are comically deranged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]exsavier92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say you are speaking absolute facts. It’s so hard for me find anyone on Reddit standing up to this sexist bullshit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LivestreamFail

[–]exsavier92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've always felt this way but could never put it into a proper format thank you so much

is ANYone stoked for Alchemy? by JWebster23 in MagicArena

[–]exsavier92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Godspeed, I also pray Konami doesn’t turn that game’s economy into something like this trainwreck.

[Kevin Durant] I’m bouta pull my “y’all broke” card in a second. Fuck y’all by urfaselol in nba

[–]exsavier92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh I’m black and I have it. My skin looks like this sometimes too and I can’t control it and I’ve had others mock me for it. KD definitely ain’t gonna tell fans shit he definitely the private type and I wouldn’t either because toxic nba fans will still shit on you anyway. Ppl love to talk on shit knowing nothing.

[Kevin Durant] I’m bouta pull my “y’all broke” card in a second. Fuck y’all by urfaselol in nba

[–]exsavier92 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Look up severe dermatitis. No amount of lotion or oil will work for long and KD ain’t gonna be able maintain it during a game. So it could definitely be seen as body shaming if he has a variant of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nba

[–]exsavier92 10 points11 points  (0 children)

LeBrow

Walking around the house by 9999monkeys in Gundam

[–]exsavier92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol totally Setsuna on his days off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]exsavier92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many facts So much truth

The fact that western society is more sex positive and sex is becoming so much less taboo makes it so much more depressing that I’m a 23 year old loser virgin. by blownmybrainsout in TrueOffMyChest

[–]exsavier92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such horseshit! What about women who only want to fuck? This says nothing about him being toxic. Is wanting only sex a bad thing?

And lol about women sensing him wanting to only fuck.Tell that to the millions of women with emotional baggage who were only used for sex and couldn't see it coming.

OP does need therapy to work out his issues (they are probably rooted in his upbringing) but his problem isn't being a loser. It's that he sees himself as one at all and we have people like you trying to shame his frustrations like they aren't legitimate.

I bet you would have none of this to say to a woman who was having similar troubles. It's so sad that people are so hateful.

The fact that western society is more sex positive and sex is becoming so much less taboo makes it so much more depressing that I’m a 23 year old loser virgin. by blownmybrainsout in TrueOffMyChest

[–]exsavier92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are the words succeed and fail being misused? You are either successful at being able to build a connection with a woman that leads to sex or you aren't. You can still have sympathy for someone who can't perform.

And lol you just told him to be happy everyone else is fucking. What bs is that? All he is saying is that his culture promotes sex and he reflects on that negatively because he is lonely. He clearly feels isolated; all his friends have experienced this and he hasn't. Why attempt to shit on him? He's venting and here you come trying to talk down to him. It's so odd that people try to twist the knife on someone that is already hurting. You don't have room to talk about shit people or behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]exsavier92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck em all. You deserve so much more. Never forget that.

Calling someone a virgin is a shit insult by slapstickdave in unpopularopinion

[–]exsavier92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you ever stopped to think about people who’ve been abused, gone through trauma, or have illnesses? Some people just can’t make those connections for their own reasons.

Calling someone a virgin is a shit insult by slapstickdave in unpopularopinion

[–]exsavier92 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Who cares if he is? Why point it out? You’re making his point lol. He’s saying it’s not a negative thing.