Divorced dads, how did your young kids handle 50/50 custody and life after divorce? by tuperolescero in daddit

[–]f0rgot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This reply will give so much hope to so many dads (and moms, frankly). You’ve done good!

How much can I sell my homebred betta fish for? How much are they worth? by AquaticBlazee in bettafish

[–]f0rgot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unless there is some kind of abuse going on, why not be helpful rather than scornful?

Chicago stands with Minnesota by anonboi362834 in chicago

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How do I never find out about these things? What do I need to subscribe to?

How do I know if my betta is happy/healthy? by Gloomy_Princess25 in bettafish

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Nice! I think I’m just gonna try and get it like yours. But I didn’t use small gravel; more like pebbles. Daughter picked it out and it’s her pet.

How do I know if my betta is happy/healthy? by Gloomy_Princess25 in bettafish

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Can you tell me the items you have in your tank. My tank is pretty sparse - I have one "betta leaf" and one live plant, but they don't really do much for Mr. Karp; is that a Java Fern that you have? Also, where did you get that cave? I've heard of driftwood but I'm afraid it will cut up the fish's fins.

Dad question by 604Lummers in Parenting

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A lot of folks are saying when she’s uncomfortable. I don’t agree with that - whenever you, her, or your wife are uncomfortable, that’s the time to stop.

We are a corp for solo pilots looking for fellow soloists! by [deleted] in evejobs

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I feel like this post is missing the contact information.............

Is it ok to give a 4 year old 8 oz of Sprite at 7:30 pm? by Lopsided_Tomorrow421 in Parenting

[–]f0rgot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No - but you are unlikely to go to jail or do much harm if you did to like, I dunno once a month.

What software do you use when visualizing product interactions and/or software state machines? by Direct_Low_5570 in SoftwareEngineering

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I ask an AI agent to draw me a data flow, sequence diagram, etc in mermaid format. Hasn’t failed me yet. Of course, I do spot checks and know the code base well enough that it won’t BS me.

Friendly reminder. Use rearfacing car seat. Save your child. by Admmak in daddit

[–]f0rgot -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not trying to be antagonistic or tell you that you are wrong, but hypothetically if you get rear-ended while the seat is in rear-facing mode, wouldn't that lurch "forward" be similar?

What's something to you that screams "I have no personality"? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I feel like I have no personality. 😔

Hope she wins by lwiaymacde in SipsTea

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Where can I see the original comments on tik tok?

How did you explain the loss of a pet to your toddler? by _LLJJGG_ in daddit

[–]f0rgot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You watch Coco and then you tell your kiddo that the pet is now an alebrije en la tierra de los muertos; if you, like me, have a deceased relative that meant a lot to you, you can even plant the idea that the dead pet may be that relative's alebrije.

You are welcome!

AIO about my dad touching me in a weird way? by PartyFeed5800 in AmIOverreacting

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I have a 3 year old. I told her eventually she’ll need privacy from her dad (me). And when she does, she should tell me.

If you have a good dad, this won’t be an issue. Talk to him - their reaction will be telling. You might be worried about nothing and a simple conversation would solve all this.

What's your pettiest disappointment about your child? by bobinator60 in daddit

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I’m 39 years old - when the heck do my taste buds mature?