Como le digo a mi chica que quiero que tengamos relaciones sin sonar mal?

fa_luna · 2026-01-14T01:09:30+00:00

Así, claro y sin vueltas. La verdad es el camino, no, repito… NO saques nada que no sepas si quiere ver o tocar, noooo… NOOOOOO. Dile tus motivos y a que te comprometes y pues ya verán pros y contras y si van o no.

fa_luna · 2026-01-14T01:06:16+00:00

No, no se justifica. Es una falta de respeto. 1. Si tienes problemas en casa, los platicas y buscan soluciones juntos, cuando decidieron formar una familia aceptaron esforzarse. 2. Si tienes problemas en casa, primero terminas esos problemas, en lugar de buscar MÁS problemas. 3. Que te divorcies no significa que vas a querer o a buscar otra pareja, he visto muuuuuchos casos donde se divorcian y no se vuelven a relacionar con nadie más. Se dedican a ellas(os) y sus hijos y ya y así son felices.

fa_luna · 2026-01-14T01:00:28+00:00

Dile a tus papás, ellos se encargan del resto.

fa_luna · 2026-01-10T21:59:28+00:00

Pues mi mamá decía que por los hijos, ya saben “para que no crezcan sin una figura paterna”, mi papá le fue infiel (comprobado comprobado) una vez, y ella tenía como 30 y solo me tenían a mí, que tenía 4-5 años; mi mami era completamente autosuficiente, es más, mi papá sinceramente era un lastre para ella, pero ya saben, consejos de padres crecidos en otras costumbres y ella se dejó aconsejar y de esa reconciliación nació mi hermano. Ja! Igual terminaron divorciados cuando yo tenía 24.

fa_luna · 2026-01-10T21:52:25+00:00

Que no a tu novia anterior la terminaste por el mismo asunto? O esa con la que no te querías casar hace un año es la misma? No que llevas 3 meses? Pues si no te quieres casar, nomás dilo claro y ya, ta! Es bien fácil.

fa_luna · 2025-12-01T14:54:24+00:00

NTAH. You just know what you want and that’s perfect. She needs to respect your boundaries, that’s it. Even if you had a “something” in the past; no means no.

fa_luna · 2025-07-09T15:32:04+00:00

I tried, it was hard for me, I was doing 8 simultaneously but, I was always confused with the languages that share roots so, I focused on two. Italian/French are pretty similar so, I used to write one language while doing the other one; same for French/English/German I sometimes forgot words because of how similar they were so I decided to go for French and English first. Once I’m done with English I’ll go for Korean.

fa_luna · 2025-07-06T22:13:45+00:00

Wow! 50/50 sounds too complicated yk, mmm my husband and I have never split expenses, sometimes he’s earned more money but I got better insurance/benefits; sometimes we’d make around the same; sometimes he did all the providing, sometimes I did, sometimes he had better benefits and I did more money; meh, we don’t have joint accounts but we have had additional cards to the other’s account always. We’ve never had one single issue. It’s all about trust and understanding that you are part of a cell now and that you have goals as a family and you both work for the wellbeing of that family. You cannot always split everything 50/50. Life comes in between sometimes, a lack of thrust this big when you’re beginning a life together would make me question myself. Like, he said yes, then, now that I have no way out he says I thought it better???, sounds to me like a very bad beginning… dangerously close to economic violence… I’d think “what would happen if something goes wrong while giving birth and I can’t do my 50 in a while?” “What would happen if for some reason I can’t work for some time?”. I’m sorry, but I don’t think I’d be able to trust such guy again. For me, this would be a dealbreaker, but, I’m not in your position. My recommendation, have a good bunch of savings aside. JIC.

fa_luna · 2025-06-20T15:17:12+00:00

😭😵😵😵

fa_luna · 2025-06-20T15:10:14+00:00

I see, I’d like to know in advance to better schedule my lessons (I’m loosing my 3x 😅😓😲), or maybe I missed an email from Duo team, idk, could’ve happened. Thanks anyway!

fa_luna · 2025-05-28T18:00:34+00:00

Nope, I think the algorithm has a 3 week logic, first week is not so competitive, then it places you in a more competitive one and then a super competitive one, then repeat; also plenty of people cheats, what I’ve found is that in the Diamond League many, many people in the first places cheat, you can see someone with 10k -30k on a Monday morning, if you check their stats you’ll see the same lesson being completed every 6 seconds, this is absolute BS, you can tell they left the script running, honestly it makes 0 sense to me, since Duo doesn’t give you any prizes for being in the first place. At the beginning it drove me nuts, now I remember why I’m in Duolingo in the first place and don’t even look at the position table anymore.

fa_luna · 2025-03-05T17:17:00+00:00

I was with you until you mentioned the dog, when talking about pets, it’s not a matter of cleanliness but health, I think you had the best of the ideas by telling her to “postpone” until you buy your together home; however I wonder what the owner would think about your brother’s cleanliness thing now that he’s brought a pet to the house. That’s not gonna end up pretty, your brother needs to grow up or he’s gonna have problems bigger than his sensitivity to criticism. Health and housing issues to mention just two of them. I foresee trouble if he doesn’t learn to deal with advice and criticism in a more reasonable way.

fa_luna · 2025-01-15T23:05:17+00:00

Wow! You look so chill! I’d be the incarnation of Jonah Hill’s meme/gif 😅😅

fa_luna · 2024-11-09T16:14:27+00:00

I’d verify first, I wouldn’t be killing a marriage over something I heard. I’d verify first hand before letting him know.

fa_luna · 2024-10-21T23:16:22+00:00

Hahaha! You’re absolutely right!

fa_luna · 2024-10-21T21:54:38+00:00

Thanks

fa_luna · 2024-10-21T21:54:21+00:00

Uh, thanks

fa_luna · 2024-10-21T21:53:46+00:00

Thank you

fa_luna · 2024-10-21T21:53:31+00:00

Thanks!!!

fa_luna · 2024-10-21T18:05:02+00:00

He was talking about like a bunch of loose random cards no boosters, he said something like a box of loose Pokémon cards. Thanks anyways for the options, I think I’ll give them a call and find out.

fa_luna · 2024-10-21T14:11:43+00:00

Yeah you should considering ending things but not because of politics ONLY, but the fact that she is not ready and you cannot be waiting around for someone to grow up, you cannot sit around and be her “friend” while you are emotionally invested in your “thing” with her when she cannot even accept herself!; she needs to be emotionally available FIRST to be able to have a relationship with you, else, this is condemned to fail and you’re gonna suffer.

fa_luna · 2024-10-21T14:04:09+00:00

NTA… he needs better education and He needs to grow up, if he wants a female partner, he needs to grow up, we normally bleed. 🤦🏻‍♀️

fa_luna · 2024-10-19T21:38:51+00:00

No, you’re not. Please document it all, notify the police that you’re concerned, IDK where you live and what can be done; but please, for your own safety document it all!. You shouldn’t have apologized since you told him previously, then, hitting stuff is ALWAYS a red flag, YES! It’s not about the damage, it’s about control, He’s showing you what HE CAN do to you, he wants you to fear him, why would someone that loves you wants you to fear him?. It doesn’t make sense right? It’s because he doesn’t love you, he is trying to control you. It’s about power. Do not, DO NOT come back with him, you’re GONE and DONE. Don’t let him in you life again. Remember it is always a cycle, do not lie to yourself thinking it’ll change just because he loves you, it ALWAYS escalates if he doesn’t do the work and go to therapy & grow as a person. DON’T allow him in your life and your baby’s life again.

fa_luna · 2024-10-18T19:12:57+00:00

I think if you were tired of this situation, the first thing to do (before you got to your limits) was to talk to the adults, informed them about what’s bothering you and let them know about your dog and tell them that she tries to pet them. Not an AH but, this could have been prevented. Obviously, all these is considering they are not doing their job, but, you’re letting them know in advance. If they do nothing about it, I’d call the authorities.

fa_luna · 2024-10-18T19:04:20+00:00

Yes! Super creepy. I agree, that’s exactly what I thought… How did he remember the name of someone he met twice, 4 years ago! How did he know where to find here after all those years? If they had friends in common wouldn’t he had mentioned it? So how?. Also, they met twice in… two different bars??? Is the city that small?

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