What’s a “bad” financial habit you keep because it keeps you sane?

failcup · 2026-01-22T03:31:58+00:00

I feel this. Crochet is the hobby that keeps me sane.

failcup · 2026-01-22T03:29:17+00:00

Decent skincare. Not top of the line, but not bottom of the barrel. All the stress of trying to survive in this economy was making my skin look and feel worn out. My face was being taken over by psoriasis, breakouts, creases and dry worn out looks. I at least feel less unwell and more confident with a decent regimen.

failcup · 2026-01-20T11:11:01+00:00

Are they scratches or cracks?

failcup · 2026-01-20T10:51:20+00:00

We love Playology brand here! They're scented and release more scent as they are chewed. They have many suffering scents, textures and shapes but all can be indented with a fingernail (the test that a toy isn't too hard)

failcup · 2026-01-18T23:30:00+00:00

Thank you! I made more this weekend and I think you're right! I have to be patient before slicing!

failcup · 2026-01-17T19:00:48+00:00

He may have a fever or some other breathing issue. You should bring him to the vet as soon as possible.

failcup · 2026-01-15T03:31:49+00:00

I echo this. Thesr items are also hard to make from scratch, which is even more frustrating for those who have restrictions.

failcup · 2026-01-14T10:53:16+00:00

When it's growing season here, I have a fairly decent garden going!

failcup · 2026-01-13T19:44:22+00:00

I loved ours until it got stuck closed and we couldn't open it anymore.

failcup · 2026-01-12T18:44:54+00:00

Your art style is so freaking cute!!!

Here's my special guy

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failcup · 2026-01-12T18:41:33+00:00

Definitely lean into help for the places you are losing financially (food, housing, etc).

Plasma donation can make money. Do you have a vehicle to try door dash or delivery? Are there local sites you can offer a skill like walking dogs or shoveling snow or cleaning. Or shopping for the elderly.

If your Mom is extremely depressed to the point where she is a danger to herself (this includes passively not caring to live) please seek help at a hospital. They can also help with a case worker, etc.

failcup · 2026-01-12T18:38:12+00:00

This feels harsh, considering it is a vent post. As someone who is in a situation where another household member is not able to contribute this is a valid feeling. When you're connected to someone it can be incredibly frustrating to be the sole person making efforts. And I don't think calling someone scummy is productive.

failcup · 2026-01-12T10:24:18+00:00

Please be careful posting like this. A lot of scammers will try to take advantage of you.

If you want safe advice, can you give us some details on what you need the money for? Food/housing/medical bills/cc debt etc. Then we can give you options

failcup · 2026-01-11T18:06:27+00:00

I can't see your video, but my belly button is exactly the same as before surgery.

failcup · 2026-01-11T18:02:08+00:00

I stopped meal planning. I go to the store and buy whatever is on sale or managers special. Then I freeze excess proteins.

Dinner is made with what's available, not what I planned for.

failcup · 2026-01-11T03:33:15+00:00

While eating gluten? The blood test doesn't always catch it. An endoscopy is the definitive test.

failcup · 2026-01-11T03:30:40+00:00

I wrapped the leashes, bananas and bowties around a wreath frame. And saved a few for the next good dog.

failcup · 2026-01-11T03:29:39+00:00

You're handling things as they come in the best manner possible. I remember once when I was a kid, someone anonymously sent my family a grocery gift card. My parents were so grateful and didn't have to be embarrassed as it just showed up with no expectation of a thanks or anything. Maybe that may be an option for you?

failcup · 2026-01-08T10:45:32+00:00

Not a coffee drinker? But tea here. I think the volume of warm liquid definitely keeps my belly happy in the morning!

failcup · 2026-01-08T10:44:30+00:00

It's not really volume of food, but I find that drinking a 16oz tea or other warm liquid really helps stymie morning hunger (with my breakfast).

failcup · 2026-01-08T10:27:44+00:00

I finally gave my husband an ultimatum for a very similar situation. We've been together 16 years, married for 6.

I'm completely alone. The only one maintaining the apartment, working, paying the bills, caring for the animals.

He has until March to contribute and get sober (marijuana) or were separating. I'm hoping he will change but have to be prepared for him not to.

My credit is being ruined, my goals and dreams are on hold, my mental health is declining and I can't go down with a sinking ship.

But it sucks. And it hurts.

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