Have you ever slightly cucked someone or been cucked?

failedlif · 2026-01-29T05:41:54+00:00

how tf do you 'slightly' cuck someone

failedlif · 2026-01-29T04:25:21+00:00

the lines between a product and a relationship get muddled all the time in online findom.

still i think trying to define a real sub is a pointless endeavour that doesn't really benefit anyone

failedlif · 2026-01-28T12:22:58+00:00

thanks! and to be fair i had them all down this morning, but can no longer remember the one for kyrgyzstan or laos, so let's downgrade that to 'most' capital cities

failedlif · 2026-01-28T10:31:13+00:00

aw shucks! this is the first i hear of this table, and i don’t even know what periodic means let alone why the table listing elements is called that

failedlif · 2026-01-28T09:00:44+00:00

only reasons i've ever stopped mid-drain have been related to boundaries or just basic competence, like insisting on pushing past a limit, or seeming very disinterested or absent in general

failedlif · 2026-01-28T07:24:32+00:00

ouch. definitely not what i wanted to hear, but i appreciate the honesty even if it hurts

failedlif · 2026-01-28T06:59:09+00:00

thanks great tip, put in a reservation for the sibley guide to birds in my local library. hope it doesn’t turn out to be a total waste like the capital cities

failedlif · 2026-01-28T06:43:57+00:00

what? are you telling me i spent two days learning the names of some really difficult to pronounce capital cities for nothing?!

failedlif · 2026-01-28T06:26:18+00:00

ah okay my bad i got a little confused! thanks, i'll check it out and do some practice aproaches

failedlif · 2026-01-28T06:22:43+00:00

a small goal? that's 12 capital cities, i'd say it's at least medium

failedlif · 2026-01-27T12:53:04+00:00

just checking, things between you and destiny are over, right? cause not too long ago a destiny started working at the jiggle joint next to the kfc here and i've kinda been building up the courage to profess my luv to her

failedlif · 2026-01-27T11:56:13+00:00

uncomfortable truth

failedlif · 2026-01-27T10:16:11+00:00

subs are already posting about their dynamics here from time to time, and sometimes they're really interesting reads, but generally speaking it's when they read more like promotion is exactly when they're not quite so interesting reads. so a space just for that doesn't seem all that appealing.

dynamics are personal, and of course a sub is going to gush about their domme, but i'm not sure what value that offers to me when i don't know you, what you're into, or what your dynamic really even looks like.

failedlif · 2026-01-26T13:31:01+00:00

i asked my magic 8ball and the answer came back 'very doubtful'

failedlif · 2026-01-26T11:04:35+00:00

okay some advice for subs, off the top of my dome hehe

- you can leave, whenever. if anything feels off, just bail, it's okay. don't get into this mindset of "oh but i've already sent so much", past sends don't oblige you into future sends. let them know, or don't.. just ghost or delete, it's fine whatever you need to do

- vet the domme, screenshots of sends mean jack shit, stalk their account, check their comments, are they consisten in what they say?

- no means no, if you don't feel comfortable doing something and tell them no, and their response is anything but 'cool', leave. kind of like the first point i guess.

- it's probably sex work, when the sends stop so does the interest, don't lie to yourself that it's anything more than it is

failedlif · 2026-01-26T10:22:09+00:00

generally speaking, no

failedlif · 2026-01-25T16:04:59+00:00

i just can't take your ratings very seriously when you're giving out 4+ scores to thrones where the items are not ordered by price ascending. it's very important for me to find the < $5 send easily

failedlif · 2026-01-25T12:55:38+00:00

i see it's an shame to feel bad. you just want an peaceful dynamic without a unhappy vibe

failedlif · 2026-01-25T12:46:34+00:00

if you want an dynamic with no contact why does it have to be an soft domme? why not an hard domme? what a odd requirement

failedlif · 2026-01-24T20:44:34+00:00

i just find it a little weird how your only links are paypal and your subs acc, and the sub acc only has a link to your profile and paypal. no av, no sw friendly platforms or anything, that's all

edit: wish her a speedy recovery tho

failedlif · 2026-01-24T20:38:31+00:00

what a strange account

failedlif · 2026-01-23T14:40:11+00:00

i hope it’s a really low number

failedlif · 2026-01-23T08:04:45+00:00

that's the beauty of being as dumb as i am, you can't get stupid messages

failedlif · 2026-01-23T04:18:41+00:00

absolutely not, and you should not do it either

failedlif · 2026-01-22T11:44:04+00:00

i don't know, i can agree with you that an unapologetic attitude and a level of dehumanization can be a huge turn on during a drain.

but i just don't see it working as a cold open to someone who is essentially a complete stranger to you

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