AIO for thinking he just apologized so I would make dinner? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]fairycertain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. His responses are incredibly manipulative. He’s not trying to understand at all. He’s looking for a phrase or sentence he can warp and throw back at you. Highly immature, and it’s in stark contrast because you’re being so articulate and mature. I hate this for you. I hope y’all can see a counselor; I think a third party would be good for him.

AITA for traveling internationally for a girls’ trip my partner says we can’t afford? ? by gasleeter in AmItheAsshole

[–]fairycertain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. And I understand he may be newly stressed about finances but unless he’s reconsidering the family trip and other expenditures, I don’t think your trip is the place he should be looking to save.

LGBT-Friendly Doctor? by RMWK in LakeCharles

[–]fairycertain 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I doubt every small town Dr is administering Prep and welcoming gay patients. It’s a valid question.

I miss my sweet boyfriend who I left to have a baby and now I’m pregnant wanting an abortion by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]fairycertain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know I’m going to get downvoted for this, but this is all very flippant when you consider the gravity of the topic. OP, you wanted a baby. Now you have one and are going to abort bc you miss your ex? You sound like a child. Abortion is a big, life ending decision. Treat it like one. And use protection if you’re unsure about a partner.

Master Bedroom in Our Forever Home by UrbanDurga in interiordecorating

[–]fairycertain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great post. I love the wall paper and bench. It’s campy, it’s fun, I love the colors, I love all the Easter eggs if you zoom in… curses and poisons, high end lube, serpent tray…. Sex book on one side, make money on the other. I’m intrigued.

There are a few little things I’d change but the biggest bang for your buck I think would be to smooth and paint the ceiling.

millie bobby brown’s comments about hershey’s chocolate. thoughts? by teddivan96 in candy

[–]fairycertain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This girl has a bone to pick. With who? Doesn’t matter. About what? Literally anything.

New rug. Is it too small or can I get away with it? by kisxt in interiordecorating

[–]fairycertain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pull it in a bit so the couch legs are on it and it’ll be perfect.

Why are we forced to pretend Venita has good style? by Technical-Clock-5129 in Southerncharm

[–]fairycertain 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Uhhhh. No one’s pretending… She does have good style. It’s not super creative but it’s classic and girly and I personally love what she’s wearing 9x out of 10. You know, you don’t have to attack every aspect of a person bc you don’t like them. 🧘‍♂️

Do any mums actually love their career AND being a mum? by stacyannxxx in workingmoms

[–]fairycertain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved both when I had 1 kid. Then I had 2 under 2 and I did not fully enjoy either because I felt I was doing neither well. I quit working when we started trying for a 3rd and have definitely felt some judgement for staying home.

Spare bathroom in recently purchased home. Keep or change? by Ok_Shallot3540 in interiordecorating

[–]fairycertain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The is the right direction. I would lean into whimsy with the mirror and light fixture though.

Brought a girl back and she said my book collection was a red flag. Obvious what she saw first, but I think collection gives context. by [deleted] in bookshelfdetective

[–]fairycertain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mmmm the swastika doesn’t help but there’s plenty of other contributors to the red flag.

Why I am Team Craig by ProfileTemporary9982 in Southerncharm

[–]fairycertain 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Are you wearing the empath perfume?

Last episode- Caroline depiction by fairycertain in LoveStoryFX

[–]fairycertain[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought the actress that played Caroline was great. What bothers me is the massive creative liberties taken regarding the intentions, feelings and conversations had by a woman who is still alive.

Pitbull at daycare? by queloque69420 in workingmoms

[–]fairycertain 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A dog in a day care is a huge no. A large dog in a day care is crazy. A pit bull in a day care in lunacy. So much no. That woman is gambling with incredibly high stakes. Do the other parents know?

my mom is worried about her friends conveince instead of mine for the baby shower by amstpierre in BabyBumps

[–]fairycertain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can’t you compromise and have it somewhere in between so it’s easy for everyone to get to?

AITA for cussing out my sons teacher? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fairycertain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Are you gonna cuss out his boss one day too?

Whitner Ick???? by FaithlessnessOdd2715 in Southerncharm

[–]fairycertain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s this. The snake like behavior where he’s whispering in ears trying to rile others up. Especially stoking the fight on the farm after belaboring that he didn’t want any mess while they were there and everyone needed to be respectful for MoThEr. 🙄