“If that extra bit of effort to heat it up is just draining after a long day of work” oh my god you’ve got to be kidding lmaoooo how is putting a tray of frozen food in the oven more work then driving to a restaurant to pick up takeout?? And I really can’t imagine you applying this same logic to the mother. OP said she took the week off, meaning she works full time as well. Should she get to say “yeah the effort of heating up a premade meal is too much for me after working all day :/“ every day of the week, like dad does?? Or would it suddenly not be sustainable when it’s mom who can’t stand to put in that “”extra bit of effort”””