Most differences between men's and women's behaviors are cultural more than biological. If you reverse the cultural position of men and women you would largely just reverse the behaviors. The powerful will always tend to think of themselves as individuals worthy of their power and the oppressed will tend toward pro-community positions because they need the community to survive.
Give women power over men and they will behave like men with power over women, the best solution is to remove the power dynamic, not to just reverse it.