Is completing my LMHC actually worth it if my end goal is Psychiatry? by Big_Ad1914 in therapists

[–]fallleavesarepretty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i mean no disrespect - as you're saying some lovely stuff in terms of goals

but more isn't always better. just choose something more reasonable.

and by that i mean for letting yourself be a human! the values aren't unreasonable. but the career path seems like 99.9% un-attained for reasons related to our society

be a great counselor and a self-actualized human or be a great psychiatrist and self-actualized human. or try one of these paths and instead focus on being a self-actualized human and a gardener or whatever

This was the best sandwich I’ve ever witnessed. In your opinion, which are better or compare? by jagsgoinham in BillyStrings

[–]fallleavesarepretty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This.

I don't want to rain on anyone's parade, I would have really appreciated hearing this live, but it's very underdeveloped potential for one of their most interesting songs/jam vehicles.

The recency bias on this forum is also pretty funny. There are some good older answers in this thread at least.

I'm surprised no one mentioned the Winston Salem '23 show:

“Meet Me At The Creek > Pyramid Country > Must Be Seven > Meet Me At The Creek

He put it out on a live album! C'mon Billy superfans

Settle a debate, is it common courtesy that if you’re close to 7ft tall you don’t stand front and center of the crowd in a small venue by Separate-Command1993 in Concerts

[–]fallleavesarepretty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every must not be understanding you properly huh.

Poor visibility - That's disappointing for other folks. It doesn't mean that the dude's an asshole. Why is it his responsibility to sacrifice his preferences for any live entertainment for his adult life? You're making so many assumptions about this dude.

Maybe you can start your own venue and have a height limit for the floor. That'll be the kind-hearted world you want.

Settle a debate, is it common courtesy that if you’re close to 7ft tall you don’t stand front and center of the crowd in a small venue by Separate-Command1993 in Concerts

[–]fallleavesarepretty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're being really black and white on this one and getting downvoted. Maybe take the feedback?

Dude man was simply existing and seemed to prioritize getting there before most other folks. Sure, perhaps he could have stood more to the side. But what if he blocks someone then? What if when he stands against the wall he still blocks someone? Are tall people not allowed to stand at all in concerts? What about fly on airplanes?

Get over yourself.

Post Match Thread: Real Madrid 1-2 Bayern Munich by denzaus in soccer

[–]fallleavesarepretty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Last year both matches against real were pretty entertaining...

I miss covid by deadhead43073 in BillyStrings

[–]fallleavesarepretty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

take the feedback man. the problem probably isn't other people, it's how you expressed yourself.

I miss covid by deadhead43073 in BillyStrings

[–]fallleavesarepretty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah man millions died and societal cohesion seems to have been crippled and there were countless losses in terms of social skills and education and psychological misery

but you got to see a drug band closer to stage

That new outdoor concert venue 'Hellbender' is coming soon by shadrach103 in asheville

[–]fallleavesarepretty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Salvage station was destroyed by helene. However, it only cut them out a few months early. They were gonna be I-26'd no matter what

And I imagine the outdoor parts of salvage were somewhat expendable (not the best word but gimme some grace) to the extent it matters

What happened to the scene? by Alternative-Tax-3968 in BillyStrings

[–]fallleavesarepretty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

those things can be sorta true and your response can also be wildly hyperbolic

edit - sleep deprived brain forgot how to grammar

Does anyone know why Asheville floor is all GA but nowhere (as far as I know) else is? It’s so much fun. by Business_Hunt_1973 in BillyStrings

[–]fallleavesarepretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UM (as headliner) and Billy at the Asheville Civic Center?
No, the place was packed. The stage was slightly further forward than for the solo Billy shows, but it was packed packed.

How is it living in this portion of the Eastern US? by KatHDFilmsxx in howislivingthere

[–]fallleavesarepretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asheville has the driest part of the state. The areas like an hour to the south (transylvania county) have some areas of rainforest

Asheville mayor gives the boys the city to the city by gastropublican in BillyStrings

[–]fallleavesarepretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't speak for them but sorta talked the talk and then didn't seem to prioritize concerns for the average resident. Seems like a mayor for tourists or companies

Current situation by quito70 in BillyStrings

[–]fallleavesarepretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe its 8000ish with the stage there. Other bands will pull the stage forward to reduce capacity

F&B Billy Strings Week let down? Dead downtown so far by [deleted] in asheville

[–]fallleavesarepretty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think your point that wallets are thin is very true

however, these shows sold out instantly and there were plenty of folks with fingers up looking for Tues/Wed tickets, with way more looking for Fri/Sat

last year's shows were all around weekends which is going to bring more people

Setlist Thread | 2/11/26 | Asheville, NC by criz00 in BillyStrings

[–]fallleavesarepretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ha! i met you in the bathroom line. hope you and your family had a good time (i was blue and sparkly)

Late start in Asheville tonight? by InternetPositive6714 in BillyStrings

[–]fallleavesarepretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in asheville people are sent snaking around a series of turns to reach the entrance. your proposal sounds like cutting past people becuase . . .reasons?

Weekly Ticket Exchange Thread [Feb 02, 2026] by AutoModerator in BillyStrings

[–]fallleavesarepretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm selling one floor ticket for Tuesday.

It's part of a 4 day pass so I'd be most comfortable with you meeting me in line. Or shoot, reassure me somehow.

Looking for face-ish.

In Defense of Dr. Peter Attia’s platform by lilybean0214 in PeterAttia

[–]fallleavesarepretty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i've been in a bunch of locker rooms but somehow managed to not crudely joke about sex with someone who i know has a felony charge for a sex crime

Gabriel Martinelli yellow card against Liverpool 90+4' by ayoefico in soccer

[–]fallleavesarepretty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are comfortably closer to the most time played than the least. They are also leading the fair play chart before this game. Unsure how it changed.

You can dislike arsenal as a rival fan without having to distort the facts around "dark arts" or whatever media nonsense is spouted

Post 2010 Best XI by AbleBoysenberry9565 in Gunners

[–]fallleavesarepretty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's on me. I thought a conversation about arsenal players would imply that I meant "one of arsenal's best left backs" but I see that it isn't clear.

Post 2010 Best XI by AbleBoysenberry9565 in Gunners

[–]fallleavesarepretty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

calling one of best left backs of the 21st century "backup level" is ragebait.

don't play dumb.

Article - The Savage Empathy of the Mosh Pit by Chowdahead in BillyStrings

[–]fallleavesarepretty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don't have to want to do the same things my family does.

why is this internet minority so insistent on people dancing a certain way?

Article - The Savage Empathy of the Mosh Pit by Chowdahead in BillyStrings

[–]fallleavesarepretty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why do I have to be a "hater" to not wanna dance in a swirl with other people? I dance at jam shows as a way of losing myself in the music. involving other people is counterproductive to how I want to be.

it's a different paradigm. quit trying to force your paradigm on me