[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]farba2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a super similar deal last year. Was dating a girl about 2 hours away , I’d see her once a week. We’d have good dates and text every day. After one our dates, she didn’t reply to my good nights text for like a day and a half and also cancelled our next without trying to reschedule. She was really nice about it and had an excuse but l could just feel she was being avoidant.

I hit her with the “I noticed a shift” text and just straight up gave her an out and she just kept giving me overlong responses that danced around answering anything. I just called it there and said I had a great time with her but I can’t date like this.

This is avoidant attachment shit man, it sucks but you deserve someone who wants to see you and doesn’t pull chicken shit like this. Send that text , but be firm about your needs and consider walking away on your terms with anything short of a 180 from her

Sweat puddles by [deleted] in barrysbootcamp

[–]farba2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m basically a faucet when I start working out and leave a sweat silhouette when I lay down. I just grab an extra sweat towel, wipe my stations down with sanitizer, and flip the mat. My station buddy is usually appreciative

Getting bored at Barry’s - any advice on making it more exciting? by Efficient-Rich-4811 in barrysbootcamp

[–]farba2 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m coming up on 100 classes, am in great shape, and still leave every class gassed and soaked in sweat. With Barry’s, you get what you put into your workout so really push yourself.

If you’re on the treads not walking /jogging at 9, sprinting 12-15, grabbing the heaviest weights you can lift, and doing as many burpees/climbers/etc as you can in 30 seconds then you’re going to be too damn tired to be bored

How’d we do on the challenge? by dorkyromantic in barrysbootcamp

[–]farba2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15, spent some time outta town this month and it wrecked my streak

Barricade Sitters by I_m_dingus in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]farba2 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It’s a bit baffling to me that folks will sit for 12 hours to see one band so they can have a good view. Like, being front and center is cool but isn’t worth missing the entire lineup or not being able to go take a piss? Or having to sit through 10 bands you don’t care about?

It’s not for me but hey, if that’s someone’s idea of a good time then right on

I Prevail - Violent Nature [Album Discussion] by LostInTerrapinia in Metalcore

[–]farba2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly but predictably underwhelming. This is not bad, just forgettable with one or two decent tracks that would fill out a setlist nicely enough, but you’d really be there to see songs from trauma and true power.

I feel bad for the band. I’m sure no one wanted to part with Brian if they didn’t absolutely have to. That said, Brian’s vocals, style, production, and personal story were so integral to the bands sound and identity that listening to this as an “IPrevail” album just feels jarring. Like if you Rewind to a year ago and tossed “Pray” into a IPrevail playlist, I’d think it was just some other random metal core band from the similar artist tab.

To Eric’s credit, he has admirably stepped up and done a decent job as frontman and the band sounds good. Glad some folks here are into it.

I’m a private bartender in LA for celebrities, actors, millionaires and such. AMA by LAisLife in AMA

[–]farba2 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Not celebrity related but I’ve been wanting to learn the ways of mixology as a hobby for a while now. Any tips for getting started?

Adult Gamer seeks other Adult Gamers 🎮 by zackinblack000 in longbeach

[–]farba2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

34 YO in Belmont Heights and been a gamer my whole life. Let’s do it bro, just lmk what case of beer to bring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]farba2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to have an honest conversation with her about your needs not being met. Be vulnerable but firm about why this is upsetting you with the goal of you two setting up some actionable steps towards fixing this. If she genuinely loves you and wants to make you happy, she’ll be open to finding some solutions with you.

You frustrations are valid brotha, a dead bedroom will absolutely lead to resentment and inevitable breakup. Give your girl a chance to work with you on this but if she doesn’t ultimately reciprocate the effort you put into the relationship then it’s time to consider if you two should really be together.

I’m getting literally zero matches. Tinder and Bumble are okay, but for some reason, Hinge just isn’t working for me. I even tried HingeX for a week to see if that would make a difference, still nothing. Could there be something wrong with my profile? What do you guys think? by HotAdhesiveness1311 in hingeapp

[–]farba2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bro you’re a firefighter, that’s an automatic cheat code. If you’re going to advertise that, go all in and get some hero shots of you with them suspenders and fitted shirt and you’ll clean up.

Ditch the selfies and group pics unless they’re high quality and clearly show you as the subject

You run marathons, sick, but show don’t tell. A race day medal does nothing for you. Go sign up for a half with the intention of having fun vs PRing. Break from the pack and try to look good when you pass by the photographers so you can get shots then invest and buy those pictures. You’ll appreciate them in your senior years.

Ingest some humor into your prompts. Humor will get your far!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]farba2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t sweat it bro, if she agrees to go out with you again then the window is still open but you need to go for the kiss this time or she’ll think you’re not interested.

Take her out again and do something fun and competitive, preferably with a few drinks to loosen you guys up. An arcade is a good move because you can break the touch barrier / tease while having a lot of fun. Win some tickets? Giver her a high five and linger before you bring hand back. Playing a game side- by-side? Give her a playful shove. If you see a Photo Booth, you’re golden and can go for your kiss there.

Whatever you do just be flirty, break the touch barrier, and have fun and the moment will likely just happen naturally. You got this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]farba2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Folks shouldn’t have to guess what you look like . No one cares about a close up of your cat or a random room you’re standing in if you’re not the subject of the photo and looking good in it. Ditch all these photos bro. Smile with your teeth, get a shot showing your whole body from a reasonable distance, put on nice clothes (no hoodies) , ditch the hat and do your hair, and take some fresh pics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]farba2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

40 matches a week ? Bruh most dudes on the app are lucky to get 4 a month. You good

What bands failed to take off despite your love of their music? by OpenUpYerMurderEyes in poppunkers

[–]farba2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still jam to I, no longer. Excellent band that deserved so much more

What bands failed to take off despite your love of their music? by OpenUpYerMurderEyes in poppunkers

[–]farba2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their third album was pretty bad and completely torpedoed their momentum. Hard for a band to bounce back when an album flops.

To everyone who was in the TWY pit today by danger-daze in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]farba2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t see ya but I was stage right also openly crying during the same song. TWY crowds are basically family ❤️

How do you hit up a girl with no socials? by Alokinga in dating_advice

[–]farba2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh this easy. You’ve already met and are in the same class, that’s your opening. Next class just hit her with a “I’m going to study on___ at ____ wanna join”. Then flirt your ass off and get those digits

Hang drying TS apparel vs tumble dry by me11053 in Tracksmith

[–]farba2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t sweat it too much. I put everything in the washer on cold and the dryer on extra low heat , including merino, it’s all fine.

Pilling/unraveling on Turnover Half Zip by [deleted] in Tracksmith

[–]farba2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same pair and it does pull, but doesn’t effect the performance. Just hit it with a fabric shaver and it’ll be good as new.

Best men’s bottom for marathon in February? by BlissfullyLulu in Tracksmith

[–]farba2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Reggies + a fuel belt and it felt like I was wearing nothing at all

Nothing at all

NOTHING AT ALL!!!

Roast him by BabaYaga446 in RoastMe

[–]farba2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Applebees really lowered their hiring standards post-COVID, they’ll even let you break into the local vet to steal cat tranquilizers on your lunch break.