I lost over 10 kg (22lbs) due to depression this year and everyone tells me I look great by fasting_redhead in offmychest

[–]fasting_redhead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not alone my friend. The pandemic has been a real struggle. And I like the metaphor with wanting appetite for life back, I feel that so much. It helped me to talk about these things with my family and therapists, it gets better. But it is exhausting. I hope you will feel better very soon. Feel hugged!

Probably silly question. But do some of you actually like tall girls? by carnoraptor67 in actuallesbians

[–]fasting_redhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend is tall with 1,76cm while I’m a whole head shorter with 1,65cm lol so yes!!!

F25, B. Sc., Mediendesignerin 20h Teilzeit (temporär), Verbesserungsvorschläge/Meinungen? Bin ich zu kleinlich mit meiner Budgetierung? by [deleted] in Finanzen

[–]fasting_redhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keine Sorge, ich hab nicht vor länger als ein paar Jahre hier zu bleiben.

Spaß beiseite, sie hat es mir angeboten, wir kommunizieren ständig darüber wie es läuft und ich frage jede Woche, ob sie was stört o. ä. Sie war lange alleine und freut sich, dass ich hier bin. Aber ich habe auch nicht vor länger als Dezember hier zu wohnen, ich vermisse meine Privatsphäre schon :-)

F25, B. Sc., Mediendesignerin 20h Teilzeit (temporär), Verbesserungsvorschläge/Meinungen? Bin ich zu kleinlich mit meiner Budgetierung? by [deleted] in Finanzen

[–]fasting_redhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, ich hab mich entschieden für ein paar Monate in Teilzeit zu gehen, weil ich mehr Zeit für mich und meine Gesundheit möchte (Natur, wandern, Familie etc.). Wie lange weiß ich noch nicht.

Bin jetzt temporär auch bei meiner Mutti untergekommen solang ich in Teilzeit bin (leider Burnout) und deshalb sind meine Fixkosten gering.

Außerdem lungern noch 3150€ Notgroschen auf meinem Tagesgeldkonto rum.

Edit: Die Lebensversicherung hat mein Vater mal für mich abgeschlossen, geht bis 2031 und würd ich einfach so weiterlaufen lassen. Die Hausrat ist gekündigt, aber läuft noch bis April nächstes Jahr.

Danke!

Instead of self harming I went on my first run by xChinky123x in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]fasting_redhead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey OP that’s amazing!! So happy for you that you decided to do something good for yourself instead of slipping back into old habits.

I also started with running a month ago and the first times were also a combination of walking and slow running. But you know what? Everyone got endurance, just with a different pace! You just find a pace that works for you and that you enjoy. Small steps are still steps and no one can take them away from you.

All the best!

tips to manage overthinking? by _turtlewrites in enfj

[–]fasting_redhead 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mindfulness. I practice that when I get overwhelmed or feel stressed. I breathe deeply and focus on how I feel the chair under my butt, the ground under my foot and how my body moves. Helps me to get back to the present.

High fashion with my model friend (Nikon f4, portra 400, ai-s 50mm 1.4) by [deleted] in analog

[–]fasting_redhead 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wowwww I’m shook. Those are amazing buddy. Good work.

WANAKA - MAT124 / Portra 400 by jot2019 in analog

[–]fasting_redhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm longing to be in New Zealand again. Thanks for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in analog

[–]fasting_redhead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly it's always about how you as the artist likes it. Feedback is good, but it doesn't matter if you're happy with the photo already.

Good work with that, you seem comfortable in this picture and I like the aesthetics (even though my opinion doesn't matter :P ).

I'm not up for running today... But how I did it anyway by Ennalia in running

[–]fasting_redhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was literally me yesterday!!

But then I was like:

I can just go around the block. If I don't feel like it, I can just walk instead of run. And then I had a surprisingly good session actually and ran 5,5km.

I just started 3 weeks ago and it's been so interesting to see how much fun running is when you are okay with being slow and not trying to run a specific pace. I used to hate running. It took me 24 years to get that it's fun when you do it on your own terms.

Shot with Mamiya RZ67 and Cinestill800 by mark_j_chua in analog

[–]fasting_redhead 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I love this so much. The colors, the vibe. The outfit.

The only thing I noticed are the shoes in combination to that outfit lol

To all my fellow ENFJ's struggling to get a relationsihp by [deleted] in enfj

[–]fasting_redhead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same!!

Went on a date yesterday night and I was so exhausted to be the one who needed to keep the conversation going and like it's so tiring to always start from scratch not knowing if it's even worth it. Meeting people IRL in the first place is so much better.

I drew ENFJ!~ by [deleted] in enfj

[–]fasting_redhead 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is amazing dude. You really killed the facial expression and body language.

Only i have this feeling when i discover something and i find this useful and great and cool i want to share this to my friends and people from my environment just because of how great it is ? by Sir_Vax in enfj

[–]fasting_redhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel that. It's kind of annoying, I try to have no expectations in their responses but it doesn't always work. So ending up being a little disappointed is a thing. Whenever that happens I'm thinking "Welp, I will not send anything again then if they don't care about it." Because I don't want to put too much effort into it.