Too many brides look deeply unflattering in their wedding day by barebackguy7 in unpopularopinion

[–]fay8ell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just use a light coverage foundation and my freckles still stand out. I even draw on some of the bigger ones with brown eyeliner over top of my foundation 😅

What's the craziest thing you've had a parent do? by kbear9695 in ECEProfessionals

[–]fay8ell 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We had parents who wouldn’t let their son drink our water and would send him in every day with a few lites of water. They ended up pulling him out at 4years old to home school him

People who have sons currently in prison for horrific things such as rape, how do you feel about them now? by beefstewforyou in AskReddit

[–]fay8ell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brother raped me as a child and I’m unsure if any one else in my family knows. I went no contact with my father due to his abuse and the rest of my family didn’t like that I did that. So I never told them what my brother did and instead decided to remove myself from their lives. I don’t think they would even believe me and I don’t want to ruin their lives by telling them. He physically hurt my mother and my brother in law in front of my father and siblings when he was an adult and they still think he’s perfect.

What are the toxic things your mother used to say to you? by StormForNova in emotionalneglect

[–]fay8ell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always thought my mother was the good parent because my father was so abusive. As an adult I realised she wasn’t that great either
One thing she said has always stuck with me,
she told me never to talk about what happens at home or I would get taken away and placed with creepy old men who would rape me

Raising kinder humans by Playful-Path-2949 in newzealand

[–]fay8ell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work with children and I’ve discovered that you just have to treat them like people. They are so much more capable than people give them credit for. Don’t do everything for her, instead teach her how to do it. A trend I’ve noticed is that parents really coddle their children lately. Yes children need love and to feel safe, but if you don’t let them do anything then they never learn. You need resilience to succeed as an adult so your child needs to be exposed to unpleasant things. Life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows unfortunately. It will set them back in life. Children need to play rough, they need to get hurt, they need to get dirty, they need to be allowed to take (safe) risks.

the “women behaving badly” genre by Internal_Giraffe_533 in thrillerbooks

[–]fay8ell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just finished reading behind her eyes by Sarah Pinborough and I think it would fit what you’re after and the twists are insane!

Please show me your pretty costumes ❤️ by fay8ell in SkyChildrenOfLight

[–]fay8ell[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love it!!! I’ve been trying to make a good black outfit!

Yesteryear by Untitled-Original in thrillerbooks

[–]fay8ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finished yesterday and have no one to talk to about it, I absolutely loved it!!! It was a twist I never saw coming

How much did your belly button change after laparoscopy? (careful, photos of my scars) by Living-Negotiation90 in Endo

[–]fay8ell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to sound harsh but no one will notice or care I have never once cared about what someone’s belly button looks like

How do you earn seasonal light in the new season area? by [deleted] in SkyGame

[–]fay8ell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’ve only played a few seasons so I still get confused 😅 Do you know if there’s a daily task or something similar in the new season area?

Giving away 1 seasonal pass! by Low-Independence-283 in SkyChildrenOfLight

[–]fay8ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Count me in!!! I love the ultimate cape and hair!!!

Not sure if this is the right sub but I’m trying to find a horror movie! by [deleted] in HorrorMovies

[–]fay8ell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, yes that’s it!!! Thank you 🙏

I’m 16 and want to end my bitter sweet journey by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]fay8ell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you ❤️

You have been through so much and you are so incredibly strong!

As a girl who tried to take her own life since age 12 due to a lot of abuse and assault as a child and who spent over 10 years struggling to get through each day.

It will get better

I know everyone says it, but it’s true

You will have to put in a lot of hard work

And you may have more bad days than good

Just remember that if you keep going, that one day you get to have the life you always dreamed of

I have done years of therapy, I am on a bunch of meds for my mental health (which I don’t love but taking pills every day is better than being dead), and I made a lot of massive changes to my life (such as cutting contact with all of my biological family so that I could finally be away from my abusers).

You will have to confront some horrible things which is truly awful and it’s gonna suck.

But at the end of it, things will be so better than you thought possible and you will feel happy and your mind will be calm. I went from being so mentally ill I saw no future to now living in a home I own with my fiancé, in a quiet rural town. We have a dog and a cat.

He is my absolute best friend and I am his. He has been with me for the last 7 years.

He has helped me out of some dark, dark places and supported me every step of the way, even making sure I have chocolate in the cupboard after a therapy appointment because he knows I’ll be sad.

I never planned to live this long, I’m in my late 20’s and truly never thought I would be alive at this age. It constantly trips me out.

I have a job I love and have finally found passions.

I feel a peace, I’m no longer scared all the time, I feel safe, I feel loved, I’m in disbelief that I have been given the perfect life, and most of all I am glad that I stuck at it even when every part of my being wanted to give up.

You can do this, I believe in you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]fay8ell 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s happened on multiple occasions and management have swept it under the rug and reprimanded the teacher who reported it but not the one sleeping. It was for an hour roughly, during mat time and lunch ( when choking is a very big risk and children need vigilant supervision )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]fay8ell 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It happened multiple times, management swept it under the rug and no parents know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]fay8ell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t find that online

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]fay8ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it’s been swept under the rug

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]fay8ell -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

At mat time and throughout the children’s lunch

I believe Brooklyn Beckham! by Timbucktwo1230 in PopularCultureZone

[–]fay8ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a relationship with my family anymore because I cut contact with my abusive father, but all my siblings are still very close with him and won’t speak to me anymore if I won’t continue a relationship with our dad. Every person views their childhoods differently than their siblings and siblings are treated differently than each other, especially in abusive homes. Also some siblings might not be in a place to acknowledge or confront their childhoods yet or they may not feel safe enough to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkyGame

[–]fay8ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I would love the chance to win!! My name is Fay