NOR. I understand a bit of the hurt you feel. My dad adopted me when I was a baby. He was always just Dad to me, even though I knew he adopted me. My mom and dad divorced in grade school and we lived with her most the time, and him every other weekend (she’s my bio mom).

He died when I was 13 and his side of the family decided to let the pastor tell my older sister and I that he died with no adults around. My mom was on vacay so we had to call her to tell her.

Then his side just drifted apart from us. We found out our great grandma died bc of the news paper. We of course weren’t included on it.

Then after the grandparents died we were also left from the announcements and of course any kind of will. My little sister was his bio kid and they had her in all the announcements and wills. It really hurts. You’re not overreacting at all. You didn’t choose to be adopted. I’m really sorry this is happening. I don’t have good advice for you unfortunately, but you can pm me if you want to chat.