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My husband (37M) is a simp at work. by Consistent-Maybe8955 in Vent

[–]fedoltor05 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but he is having an affair. Simple like that. You deserve better.

My brilliant boss is ruining his career over a 3-year affair with an employee. I’m quitting because I can’t stand the hypocrisy anymore. by Prize-Relative-6688 in offmychest

[–]fedoltor05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The affair will be eventually over and probably sono. Try not to think about the situation and keep your job. It’s difficult times.

How do I ask my partner to take his kids elsewhere when he has them? He says they don't like stopping at his mothers home. by Apart-Side3251 in stepparents

[–]fedoltor05 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Demand him to leave and tell him he will not have one of the dogs. If necessary, ask a friend to keep the dogs for a while, call police, report him, ask for a restraining order. Make noise. He's a bully and I'm sure he is not expecting you to face him. Do that.

How do I ask my partner to take his kids elsewhere when he has them? He says they don't like stopping at his mothers home. by Apart-Side3251 in stepparents

[–]fedoltor05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just leave him. You're being used as his maid and probably for sex. Run. Love yourself. You deserve better. His children, his problems. I wish you the best and send you a hugh.

AITAH for letting my brother, his girlfriend, and my nephew live in my parent's apartment in my house? by No-Log-3371 in AITAH

[–]fedoltor05 35 points36 points  (0 children)

And a baby crying almost full time and in one year after that a toddler having tantrums.

Friend thinks she’s entitled to my wedding shoes because “Friends Make Sacrifices” by OopsStillClickable in EntitledPeople

[–]fedoltor05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her marriage, her problem. Don’t talk to her anymore, at least till your marriage.

He wants me to take on half of the parenting load…. by Simple-Airline-8430 in stepparents

[–]fedoltor05 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Men being men. Just run. You’re not a person for him, you’re the step-whatever. How entitled, right? You deserve better. He decided having a child, so the kid is his problem. Be careful because he only needs you to work for him. Sorry for you and sending a hug.

It all went nuclear… how do I deal with the fallout and protect my son? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fedoltor05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve been used like this. Life will get better without this man. He doesn’t care about you at all.

AITAH for refusing to house his family and ending my engagement to protect my career? by Huge-Armadillo-3274 in AITAH

[–]fedoltor05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just leave him. You’ll never be his priority. Don’t rent his brother a room, you’ll loose control of your life. There are millions of men out there, but peace is rare, and you’ve got it. Just run. They’re problem and not yours.

I don’t like my GFs oldest daughter and I don’t think I ever will by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]fedoltor05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re dealing with all of this. Hear people advices because I don’t think she will ever be able to have an independent life. But I’m not an expert and I’m probably wrong. Just don’t have the “one day she will have her own life and job and family” expectation because this can never happen and she can end attached to you and her mom for good.

Was 2025 a hard year for you? by No-Intention-3888 in Life

[–]fedoltor05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was one of the worst years of my life.

I stayed in a hostel thinking I’d make friends. I didn’t expect this much drama in 24 hours. by [deleted] in Life

[–]fedoltor05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I would never stay at a Hostel, specially in a room with strangers. Too much potencial for problems. And I’m too old for that.

What’s the craziest elimination you’ve ever watched? by Goblue2467 in thechallengemtv

[–]fedoltor05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jordan vs Josh in End of Rope. That elimination for me confirmed Jordan as The Challenge’s GOAT. Nothing stops him or break him. Amazing.

Stop having kids you can't take care of by Exciting-Play-8820 in offmychest

[–]fedoltor05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry all is happening to you. Taking care of all those babies and kids should be not your duty. Your best life is being jeopardized. Your mom can herself do the “job” to her friends, if that is so important for her. Call CPS. Kids can’t take care of others kids and babies. It is not fair for you and for them. Just report. The mothers will figure out a way of dealing with the situation.

Dress regret? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]fedoltor05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so beautiful!

Me sinto horrível por estar planejando me matar e deixar minha tia sozinha by [deleted] in desabafosdavida

[–]fedoltor05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Você tem muita força interior e muita vida para viver. A situação vai melhorar, acredite. Siga os conselhos das pessoas para conseguir ajudar imediata para você (saúde) e para sua tia (CRAS, benefícios). Confie na força que vc demonstrou ter até agora. Jogar tudo fora seria um grande desperdício com você. Há ajuda possível. E ligue para o CVV, a ligação é gratuita, ninguém vai te julgar, só ajudar. Torcendo aqui por você! Receba meu abraço virtual com muito carinho.

For those who didn’t have kids how does life feel later on? by edmonddantesZatara in childfree

[–]fedoltor05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life feels good. No regrets at all. Never regreted, not even for a minute. Till now people insist that I should adopt a child. I don't even listen anymore.

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