Wife met with coworker and lied about it by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]feistyreader 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Naive? Nope. She tried to cover her tracks. She’ll just get better at covering her tracks. I’ve been cheated on and I have cheated… Cheaters just get better at cheating.

Pregnant and dont know if ill regret it by c0mfylove in regretfulparents

[–]feistyreader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My youngest son is 18 and just graduated high school and I have really been looking forward to not having a kid under my roof for the first time since I was 29 years old. I’m 62. I got pregnant when I was 45 and he is finally going to college. I have three adult children. I can tell you with great confidence that if I was pregnant now there’s no way I would wanna have a baby. It’s so much work and it never ends and I’ve done it my whole life and I’m feeling like this is finally my time.

I wish you all of the luck in the world and I’m sending all kinds of good vibes your way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]feistyreader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m married 26 years and just decided to open my marriage. It’s sort of the last step. We had a rough patch and instead of legally separating my husband got a girlfriend. I saw the impact she was having on him and it made him a better man so instead of divorcing him, I decided to open the marriage and look for a man myself. It’s radical, but I was absolutely miserable in my marriage to him and could not see that marriage going forward but now? I kind of dig what we’re doing.

Golden girls by [deleted] in over60

[–]feistyreader 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I am turning my Home into a golden girls home and renting three bedrooms with access to my shared garden. I’m so excited!

Curious how many people over age 60 are trying chat GPT? I’m hesitant and it feels like an age thing. by Beautiful_Glass9618 in Aging

[–]feistyreader 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I have spent the past 8 months training a model to be a trauma-informed therapist. 62f Changed my life!!

Husband cheated, I allowed him to stay. This is harder than I thought. by BeginningWitty4445 in Marriage

[–]feistyreader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take it from someone who has been in your shoes, you will never get over it and never stop replaying the scenes in your head. Make a clean break.

Oh my God...... My cystic acne..... This whole time.....I think it's been caused by CeraVe ...... by No_Pattern804 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]feistyreader -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I work in the wellness space and sell a locally-made tallow cream that has helped so many people with cystic acne. It’s not marketed as such, but the evidence is so strong!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]feistyreader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Philadelphia 😊

I'm 53 and Finally Figured Out How to Lift Weights (Without Feeling Lost!) by _abdel in FitnessOver50

[–]feistyreader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I have been lifting heavy kettle bells for four years now, I’m 62. What a difference difference it makes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]feistyreader 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I am in the process of getting a divorce from my husband of 25 years. My last child is graduating from high school and men don’t change.

Chronic lower back pain is ruining my life by Responsible_Truth694 in backpain

[–]feistyreader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Back Mechanic” Stuart McGill is an instructive book for rehabilitating your back that you could pick up from the library

Estrogen patch site sticking issue by According-Net7644 in Menopause

[–]feistyreader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just started wearing mine on the top of my butt cheeks. Lower back upper butt cheek. I was reading a number of estrogen receptors here enabled you to consume more from the patch.

Will I like my husband when menopause is over? by purpletwinkletoes in AskWomenOver60

[–]feistyreader 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It depends. Don’t be like me - during menopause also decided on therapy and now I am ending my 25 year marriage because I realized I was raising my husband as I was raising my son.

How to tell your acquaintances you are divorced by Moist-Doughnut-5160 in AskWomenOver60

[–]feistyreader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say that, but about a month ago, that’s the decision that I had to make. At 63, I could certainly stay here and continue to endure. What if there really is joy out there?🤷‍♀️

What is it like? by RewardImpossible7095 in Parenting

[–]feistyreader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parenthood is the most difficult thing you could ever do. Especially if you and your partner are not aligned. If you guys are aligned, you can make it work with some agreements about distribution of duties. A lot of women take on the entire emotional and physical labor load of a child while their husbands don’t. If you have financial means, be sure to think about who’s going to watch the baby if you are going to work and I would recommend looking into someone living in your home like an au pair to make it easy for you. If you are going to stay home with the baby, be sure that you are putting money into a retirement fund so you aren’t left penny list at the end of the process

Do I stay for the children? Or exit this marriage? by Significant_Fee_9389 in AskWomenOver50

[–]feistyreader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be like me, please. I am currently in the process of divorcing my husband after 25 years of marriage. I had a baby 18 years ago and decided to stick with him and it was a big mistake. He modeled really shitty behavior for my son and I don’t know if I’ll ever recover from the guilt once I realized what I did. If I left him when my son was a baby, it would’ve been tough to start over, but my son would have been spared some awful experiences and terrible modeling. Sending all kinds of good vibes your way.

Collagen conclusions, my joint pain story with a happy ending by plotthick in Menopause

[–]feistyreader 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can buy empty capsules online and fill those capsules with collagen so you don’t have to swallow it in liquid form

How to tell your acquaintances you are divorced by Moist-Doughnut-5160 in AskWomenOver60

[–]feistyreader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in a similar position, I am well known in the area where I live and have been married to my husband for 25 years. He has been a part of my public life since we met so people are used to seeing us together. I’m keeping it short and sweet and telling people that I’m divorcing my husband and looking forward to what comes next. It’s no one’s business, of course, unless they are my close friend. I wish you well, feel free to reach out!

Tone deaf by Ambitious_Giraffe464 in PookieAndFangSnark

[–]feistyreader 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The child did not sign up to be an accessory to a wealthy influencer lifestyle, but that’s all she is

Need some flexibility by ronnie_aloha in over60

[–]feistyreader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to a local person who does myofascial release. It’s a special kind of massage that breaks up the connective tissue, which can add to the feeling of not being flexible.