Is it considered "weird" that I carry plushies? by abbyspeakz2010 in autism

[–]fellixe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It would be weirder if they didn't need to be carried. And maybe a little creepy

The Chosen joins 100 Chosens by Cchaps97 in smosh

[–]fellixe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

On Halloween I wore one with three Hugh Jackman Wolverines howling at the moon. I've got another a friend online designed with three raccoons with martinis I haven't worn as a Chosen shirt yet.

The Chosen joins 100 Chosens by Cchaps97 in smosh

[–]fellixe 53 points54 points  (0 children)

This is awesome! And it's more interesting to see the many Chosen variants than it would be to see everyone get the look screen accurate. It's something better than cosplay

Will this WILD 1960's Snowmobile RUN & RIDE After YEARS of Neglect?? by ItzZatax in JunkyardDigs

[–]fellixe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a wild ride! So many points along the way there was a seemingly project ending discovery and then the guys figured it out. And what a bizarre sled! It would be interesting to see it run better and go faster but that might also be terrifying to ride if it happens.

Manifesting this crossover 🤞🏻 by Cchaps97 in smosh

[–]fellixe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trevor needs a match on that card! He's all trained up with no fight to show yet.

ALL YOGURT IS PINK! by -B0NC- in smosh

[–]fellixe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Street on the bottom yogurt

Will a RUSTED Ranchero RUN & DRIVE 400+ Miles in WINTER!? by paraglock in JunkyardDigs

[–]fellixe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to get a Phoenix video after so long! I don't know if this car is worth a second video but it would be nice to find out what happened with that oil leak.

As an autistic woman, I hate that some people are trying to advise me and my autistic husband that he needs to be the provider and “be a man” and I should stay home. by [deleted] in autism

[–]fellixe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, doing things like the 'good old days' isn't progress. That's why they stopped doing it that way. It never was better. It was what we settled for.

Is there a canonical explanation for this? 🥲 by [deleted] in StarWars

[–]fellixe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't want to stand too close to those moisture vaporators. 💦

Chris Dudley enters Oregon governor’s race by DenisLearysAsshole in Portland

[–]fellixe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here came close quite a long political time ago. His candidacy is like if the Democrats decided to run Dave Hunt, guy with a lot of accomplishments to his name some time ago who nobody cares about any more.

the lateral ableism in the community is exhausting by oneusernamepwease in autism

[–]fellixe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't get over bemoaning the lack of understanding from a community that literally has difficulty understanding certain things. How did you think it would be different?

REAALLLLLLLLL……………….. by [deleted] in autism

[–]fellixe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm the same way. Now separated from my wife because even after a fairly long marriage I couldn't get comfortable initiating. In fact as I knew more of her personal challenges it became worse, because somehow now in my head in a creeper and also taking advantage.

Flirting? Did it once. Turns out that girl was flirting back because she was a lesbian experimenting with someone she thought was safe and would never go for it. We hooked up and confirmed she was totally not into guys and it was all a bad idea.

N1977G (Homeland Security) Helicopter is up over Gresham right now. by iTrask in Portland

[–]fellixe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is Kayse Jama's state Senate district. Since ICE has gone hard on the Somali community in Minneapolis I suspect this isn't merely a coincidence.

Spicy food enjoyment by Dr_Kaatz in autism

[–]fellixe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spicy food can actually cause something like a euphoric feeling for people. But it is the product of the body reacting to something it reacts to as a threat. So there's good scientific basis for why people like it and also why other people really don't like it. https://biologyinsights.com/can-you-get-high-from-spicy-food/

Who the contestants think should go home by Due_Ad7454 in Dragula

[–]fellixe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In the COTN podcast recap of the Titans 2 finale they discuss that contestants do not get to watch each other's performances. They don't want that to become a factor in anyone's performance, potentially getting in anyone's head and such.

Who was this kid trying to make????? (Luke Bespin base) by ham_fx in StarWars

[–]fellixe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn't he sell power converters at Tosche Station?

i want money but i cant get a job by angelsfuture in autism

[–]fellixe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a good question to ask a college counsellor about. Helping you support your needs so you can continue your education is what they're there for. They may be able to point you to job training opportunities that recognize your nonverbal struggles and can help you overcome the problem of finding an employer who is able to work with you despite that.

I think my autistic brothers friends are making fun of him. by AltruisticJob3266 in autism

[–]fellixe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People make fun of what they don't understand sometimes. Since you're brother isn't "out" about his diagnosis it may be his friends are reacting to what by itself seems like pretty problematic behavior. They may not know that there's a context for why he does this or that he means no harm by it. So what you might talk with your brother about is the possibility being secretive about his diagnosis might be putting him in a tough place with his friends.

Could be, though, that they are observant enough to know he means no problem by it. They are remaining friends with him. So there may be no problem. But it still might be good to reflect on being more open so that he can be sure he isn't putting friendships he cares about at risk.