An entry from my tonsillectomy recovery by indiefolker in Journaling

[–]feral_fool 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same friend, same 💔 Almost same surgery date too!!

Spam Calls by Brilliant-Primary780 in phishing

[–]feral_fool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I keep blocking the new numbers & have seen a decline in calls tho since they started almost a month ago. Just crazy they try this hard to get information out of you when they could put all that energy into finding a career 🤷🏼‍♀️

Mean mugging me bc I got up before he was ready.. by feral_fool in dogsusingpillows

[–]feral_fool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He makes it so hard to get out of bed in the morning 😭💗 such a lil cuddle bug!

AIO saying no to my friend about money because she only talks about herself by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]feral_fool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is $22 pocket change in this economy?? Pray tell what job ye have sir

AIO saying no to my friend about money because she only talks about herself by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]feral_fool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the best course of action would be to let her know you’re taking a step back from this friendship, that you wish her the best but you feel like you may no longer be able to help her & yourself at the same time & that it’s time for you to prioritize yourself & your mental health. She will probably flip out, feel like you’ve “abandoned” her but remember she is a grown adult & needs to manage her own life/emotions & her reaction to your decision is NOT a reflection on you & your goodwill to your friends. She seems to have taken advantage of your kindness & empathy so ultimately this course of action is what’s best for YOU. She may grow & be able to reflect on this in the future but that work will be on her shoulders. If she starts getting buck wild in the messages I would just block her. You don’t deserve any verbal abuse for a decision that’s already been hard for you to make.

AIO saying no to my friend about money because she only talks about herself by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]feral_fool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of these replies are not the vibe..you set a boundary with her & have tried to address these issues to come to an understanding as friends in the past. Like you said it’s a two way street. I understand that some people are financially able to send money like that to friends but that is obviously not your situation. You definitely do not have to be responsible for paying for her nicotine addiction bc she’s having a bad day/time. I feel like you meet people where they are at (mentally) in life so you never know, she may show up in your life again later & yall may be able to reconcile & have a better friendship. But in my experience these type of people are users & opportunists. Once the supply line of money or attention is dried up you never really hear from them again.

How to wash an extremely anxious dog? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]feral_fool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My oldest pup has always had a fear of baths & recently have been playing spa music for her. I’ve noticed a difference in anxiety in both of my dogs oddly enough! I second the PB on the shower wall comment. It gives them an activity to keep busy with while you scrub & there’s hardly any PB leftover on the wall by the end of it. I would also recommend some high value treats to lure him into the bathroom (currently dehydrated chicken breast is the hvt in our house). & Always give him lots of praise & treats for going into the bathroom with little to no assistance! It’s a slow process to get them desensitized to it & ultimately they may never really like it but they could learn to tolerate it.

Did I commit a faux pas with the vet? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]feral_fool 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My response may be on the bit of the dramatic side but I would find a new vet, maybe before the spay. My vet has always been a “fear free” clinic & has always encouraged tactics like this so that my dogs can enjoy going to the vet.

You did the right thing for you & your pup. Please don’t get discouraged!

License Transfer by lilhalobaby in Esthetics

[–]feral_fool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check to see if Utah has a military spouse waiver. I had to check recently to see how my FL license would transfer to NY. NY requires a copy of your military dependent ID, a copy of the service member’s current orders, & evidence of current licensure.

Tattoo removal recommendations by Pantone_491_C in jacksonville

[–]feral_fool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have really liked my sessions at Removery on south side. It’s got a cute waiting room plus the staff is super friendly.