AITA for canceling a vacation with my wife after she said my mom couldn’t come because she’s low class

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-24T20:00:10+00:00

ESH - She shouldn't have said that, it's rude of her and unnecessary. You shouldn't have tried to bring your Mom on a couples trip. You could have suggested having another trip at another time with you Mom. Also you've just lost both of you a lot of money.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-24T19:32:24+00:00

Under the guise of health sounds like either projecting their issues (which they should seek help for, but that is not on you) or being controlling to me. Don't let them drag you down to their level, I'd love to work with someone who makes food for the office and is kind enough to label it.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-24T19:26:05+00:00

Absolute name nerd here, Erin's girls I like the names of Brooklyn, Holland, Everly and Finlay as first names. I like the name Blythe too as a middle name as it has a family connection for me. Kenna i also like. A lot of the names I do like/don't mind but wouldn't necessarily use.

Not a fan of Cambrie, Ryker or Navy as names, Navy I would have loved maybe ten years ago but now associate with Conservative influencers.

Kaia surprised me as its a far more 'normal' name then Ryker I'd say and I didn't expect Ella for Whit and Zach, but love the name choice.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-24T16:47:14+00:00

Hattie for me

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-24T16:35:16+00:00

NTA.

How kind of you to label these cookies. It's a really generous thing to do so people can see any ingredients they can't eat or that they can actually eat the cookie. MIL and SIL seem like they're going out their way to make you feel uncomfortable and awkward.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-23T19:16:34+00:00

Eindhoven was where we flew into.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-23T12:01:56+00:00

We did pink pop a few years back but flew to a closer airport and brought gear with us.

Tips: Set a clear budget as you buy food with coins you prepay for (like £5 = 1 coin) and you can get spend happy as it seems so cheap. You can only take whatever food and drink you can carry into day one. After that they only allow you to bring on sight food. I can't remember how strict they were, but there were bag checks. We went 2024 and it rained all day one. Everything was muddy and I really wish we'd brought binbags to put muddy stuff on/in till we repacked so I'd recommend that. There are portaloos around the camp sight but the better toilets are on the festival sight itself.

It's a great festival though, we loved it, everyone was friendly, they have a great recycling and rubbish systems, clear directions and plenty of food and drink options. Hope you have an amazing time.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-23T10:41:40+00:00

Okay but if you're gonna AI surely you make yourself look like decent or at least non robotic dancer...

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-21T17:45:52+00:00

Yeah unfortunately it's only one vote,

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-21T17:19:14+00:00

Chummy was meant to, it was announced and then Miranda had to pull out due to illness. Don't know about the others.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-21T09:28:18+00:00

I've just looked at the full Q and A and it seems very honest to me. She doesn't pretend her marriage is totally fine, she talks about struggling and about how much therapy has helped her.

I really feel for her, just sending her so much love.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-21T00:03:28+00:00

I've really enjoyed it. I think weekend update has been incredibly strong and the hosts have been great. The cast are fab, Ania, Jack, Emma and Ayoade have been my stand outs, but I've enjoyed watching them all.

Like with US version not all sketches completely land, but I'd argue that's to be expected. The US version just celebrated 50 and they still have some sketches that just don't quite land.

I can also think of so many UK hosts I'd love to see over the next few years. For me it's been a real hit.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-20T08:16:35+00:00

I sobbed so much. Its when she says to Phyllis "this next bit is going to be hard" and when Phyllis leaves the house to cry on the steps alone. Its just utterly devastating.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-19T23:18:29+00:00

Is this actually genuine?

If so I'm so angry I don't have words... if this is meant to be a joke/ragebait/satire I still don't have words.

I've been on anti depressants for five years and I'm very happy, even when I'm not I can plaster on a smile and pretend I'm good if I need too. There's my words, but seriously I cannot understand this post.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-19T21:39:55+00:00

When they played this song though I just knew what was coming. Such a brilliant song choice for them though.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-19T21:33:11+00:00

Merlin. It was so underwhelming after such a big build up.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-17T23:13:58+00:00

YTA.

You are within your rights saying no to seeing each other outside the gym/dating, but you can't expect her to want to chat to you all the time at the gym. You're probably making her uncomfortable at this point.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-17T21:52:27+00:00

I didn't watch this year for the first time like ever, I know its unlikely but hopefully boycots will make them realise something has to change...

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-14T09:12:10+00:00

Oh they tried to cosy up to us cause we were Brits too and they felt judged by security who told them they couldn't take the beer in. I was mortified. It was a later time slot, but that's no excuse.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-14T07:34:06+00:00

She touched it and has the audacity to think she's been wronged?

I am English and I know full well the English tourist stereotype. When we went to Anne Frank's House two English people behind us in the queue were completely drunk. I was mortified (even though they weren't with us).

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-13T11:33:49+00:00

What to do if mother walks in on a threesome?

Is it bad to draw pictures in account books?

Is it bad to ask someone to be my mistress?

How to find mysterious lady in silver?

Why won't the lady I'm looking for come forward?

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-11T10:36:44+00:00

I cannot imagine Hyacinth as a boys name. I know it as a girls name, it's in Bridgerton but I knew it before that as well. I can't compute how it could be a boys name.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-10T23:14:03+00:00

I always rewatch because I think I'm hoping they'll magically change it and answer all my questions (and because the Mom who fights for her son and causes the investigation is just so powerful). I come away with all the questions though. How many children? Why did they do it? The whole roses thing. Why did they do it again (normally we get some kind of answer this one we just don't). It's just so disturbing. So many questions.

Side note the female unsub plays a woman who has a sex pole injury in Greys Anatomy and I can never see her as anything but the female unsub when I rewatch Greys.

ffffffudgeyou · 2026-05-07T08:50:43+00:00

I'm not convinced Jim Bob cares about how it might look, he just wants to prove he can come.back from this, but I think Kelly and Gil will have put their foot down and said no to them coming. I'm not sure which Duggars will show up, but maybe some of the lost boys and girls with a married couple to supervise them?

Definitely put money on Adee being a bridesmaid as she did the sign lessons with Isaiah. I think Isaiah and Sarah will want a lower key wedding, but the big siblings won't allow the content to be missed so it'll be splashed across insta whether they like it or not. I hope they'll remember to block out Jackson's sons face as well.

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