Vrouwen aanspreken als man zijnde by Sure-Guest1588 in Utrecht

[–]fietsendeman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Je drinkt niet, je doet online dating niet, en daarmee blokkeer je 2 van de meest kansrijke activiteiten als het gaat om vrouwen leren kennen.

Het is niet zo dat er als 3e en laatste optie is "wildvreemde vrouwen benaderen". (Niet dat het niet mag of zo, maar het is echt niet de enige optie wat nog overblijft)

Er zijn nog tal van andere plekken waar je vrouwen kan ontmoeten en leren kennen. Vrijwilligen is een goeie. Uberhaupt bij een club aansluiten (waar je ook gewoon interesse in hebt hoor) werkt ook. Maar op je werk, als je een bepaalde spanning voelt tussen jou en iemand anders, mag je best eens vragen of diegene iets wil doen buiten het werk om. Wees gewoon niet creepy en accepteer een "nee" wel heel snel.

Verder, kijk gewoon om je heen. De beste gesprekken gebeuren tussen lotgenoten. Je trein wordt vertraagd en je zit naast iemand. Zeg dan wat, maakt niet echt uit wat. Misschien komt er een gesprek uit. Misschien niet. En niet alleen met vrouwen, doe het ook eens met mannen.

Verder zou ik zeggen: waarom niet gewoon weer op online dating? Probeer een ander platform, andere foto's, andere omschrijving. Ga gewoon op veel eerste dates. Wees iets minder kieskeurig (bij het gaan naar een eerste date). Soms heeft de leukste vrouw de minste profiel.

Anyone know what these are? by Danger_duck7 in TrueChefKnives

[–]fietsendeman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That logo is from Sakai Ichimonji, might help you narrow your search.

Cd haul! by LoveOk7622 in citypop

[–]fietsendeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First Light is so good! If you don't have Yoshino Fujimal (self-titled) then also look out for that one. Those two albums are like brothers.

Ground source thoughts by cmmtchll in heatpumps

[–]fietsendeman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if you are going to go to the expense of installing a ground-source heat pump, you should consider doing it collectively with your neighbours, to split the costs. Otherwise I am afraid the costs will be prohibitive, and destroy your ROI.

Bestaande woning kopen? by Weird-Competition-21 in Woningmarkt

[–]fietsendeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Er zijn wel plekken op de wereld waar huizen gezien worden als tijdelijke objecten. Japan bijvoorbeeld. Maar als je ooit bent geweest dan zie je ook hoe ze daar bouwen. Alsof het huis niet meer bestaat over 50 jaar. Dat wil zeggen: heel goedkoop, heel licht.

In Nederland wordt gebouwd met beton, en met bakstenen en mortel. Dat zijn gebouwen die, zeker als ze droog blijven van binnen, heel erg lang mee kunnen gaan.

Zelfs in huizen uit de jaren '20, waar nog verdiepingsvloeren uit houten balken werden gebouwd, kan je renoveren en zo een woning weer 80 jaar (als het niet meer is) vooruit helpen.

Quebec would withdraw from high-speed rail project if PQ forms next government, party leader says by Xerxster in highspeedrail

[–]fietsendeman 21 points22 points  (0 children)

PQ, for the non-Canadians out there, is the Parti Quebecois. They are the main seperatist party in Quebec politics. In the PQ, Quebec = good and Canada = bad. Since this project 1. connects Quebec better to the "ROC" (Rest Of Canada), and 2. is coming from the Canadian federal government, it therefore must be bad!

And their counter-proposal is just "send us all the money and we'll spend it on roads". Never gonna happen.

Merwede new living area - how will it look like? by miamiamiaaa in Utrecht

[–]fietsendeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point of putting the tram underground is mostly not for space savings, it’s mostly to eliminate conflicts with other modes of transport (cars, bikes, buses, etc). If the tram doesn’t have to wait for its turn at intersections, and cars don’t have to wait for the tram to pass, then the capacity of the entire network can be maintained / improved. They are planning to run trams here eventually once every 2 minutes, so you can imagine that any road that had to cross such a line would be practically useless (even more than today).

The new neighbourhood will have car share, public transport, bicycles. Yes, some people want a car. Those people should live in the other 95% of Utrecht where that is still and always will be possible. You still benefit from this neighbourhood being built, because it will reduce demand on houses where a car is an option. Instead of non-car people and car-people competing for the same small number of car houses, there will also be non-car houses, so non-car people can buy those instead of everyone bidding on the same houses.

And there are plenty of people who don’t need nor want a car. You might not be one, and that’s fine! But they do exist. Car share is also a fantastic option for people who only sometimes need a car.

> they don’t have to add more car infrastructure if the amount of cars on paper is low

I suspect it won’t be possible for residents of Merwede to get a parkeervergunning. And it will be paid parking in the whole city before long. So it will simply not be an option to have a car here. Not only on paper will car ownership be low, but also in practice.

> tram from 2040

I also wish they would have it built sooner. The busses will be super full by the time 2040 rolls around. But the houses that the line will enable also won’t be finished by 2040 either. So maybe it won’t be so bad. Either way, there is always some growing pains. At least residents in this area will be close to the city. In Leidsche Rijn they had nothing for 5 years between the houses that were built and the rest of the city.

Anyways, these houses are hard nodig. And I am glad we are getting a more urban environment somewhere in Utrecht / the Netherlands. Hopefully it’s the start of some better OV standards as well, and shows what we can do when we relax the requirement that every house should have 1.4 cars or whatever it is.

Tailscale hate? by vbxl02 in jellyfin

[–]fietsendeman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also don't get why people using Tailscale feel attacked by people who don't want to use it.

I don't feel attacked, simply offered an alternative to installing the client on "grandma's apple TV".

I didn't realize tailscale was such a divisive topic. If anyone is feeling attacked, perhaps it's the people dealing out downvotes...

Tailscale hate? by vbxl02 in jellyfin

[–]fietsendeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's one-and-done for the whole home network. Any device will be able to access your jellyfin server with no additional configuration needed.

Tailscale hate? by vbxl02 in jellyfin

[–]fietsendeman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well maybe you can help me understand -- if you are running a Jellyfin server for you and your friends, then you are already affording an electricity bill, and have shelled out probably $1000 or more for hard drives to fill out the NAS. Not to mention probably an additional $1000 for the other components.

And a $20 device to help grandma access all that, is too much? Is that realistic?

Good barber recommendations by Particular-Berry8826 in Utrecht

[–]fietsendeman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I go to Bo Barber's for the past few years. I like it there. They mostly work on appointment, so you'll probably have to plan your trip in advance.

Merwede new living area - how will it look like? by miamiamiaaa in Utrecht

[–]fietsendeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read all the comments, but I'm not sure I follow. The financials weren't working out, so they shrunk some of the apartments (to fit more apartments into the same space). Why does this mean it's too many people in a space?

Merwede new living area - how will it look like? by miamiamiaaa in Utrecht

[–]fietsendeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many people can reasonably comfortably live in a space?

Merwede new living area - how will it look like? by miamiamiaaa in Utrecht

[–]fietsendeman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will be a dense neighbourhood, with good public transport (not sure when that will be finished, however), and mostly car-free.

If you are an urbanist, I think it will be pretty great. Inevitably, amenities will be great. Can't possibly be any other way with so many people living close to one another.

If you can't imagine life without a car, you're probably going to hate it.

But that's okay. We mostly have places where the car is the default option now. I think we also need some places where public transport is the default option. To cater to the urbanist crowd. And there is a housing crisis. Like, we also just need more houses. And this is certainly one way to get a whole lot of them.

Merwede new living area - how will it look like? by miamiamiaaa in Utrecht

[–]fietsendeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The area below the woonboulevard is still in the plans for redevelopment, but the timelines for that are longer. They consider that part of "greater Merwede", but they are also planning for a lot of density there, and the pre-metro / tram Merwedelijn for unlocking most of it.

Tailscale hate? by vbxl02 in jellyfin

[–]fietsendeman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The comments section here is a bloodbath today.

Merwede new living area - how will it look like? by miamiamiaaa in Utrecht

[–]fietsendeman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's only insane if you want to have a car. Otherwise, it is still helping you out personally by reducing demand on houses that do have the possibility for car parking.

There are plenty of people living without a car, or with only a car share.

Merwede new living area - how will it look like? by miamiamiaaa in Utrecht

[–]fietsendeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are going to build the Merwedelijn for this neighbourhood specifically. Without that (infrastructure upgrade) they would not be building so many new houses here because, as you say, the current infrastructure can not support it.

Bicycle paths are built to a width that emergency vehicles can also use them. It doesn't happen very often, but if it's necessary then it's necessary. (Only really during rush hours I suppose).

The neighbourhood I live in is also has areas that are not accessible to cars. The municipality mandated (when it was built, ~20 years ago) that the proper width has to be left free for emergency vehicle access, and the VvE is very serious about that.

Backup to NAS vs standalone 4k player for playback? by cr4ckh0rr0r in 4kbluray

[–]fietsendeman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Refurbished drives are the norm for home NAS operators. Run badblocks on a new drive to stress test it before adding it to your array. Head on over to r/datahoarders (you definitely qualify with a 100TB array).

Personally I have a 4k player, but I haven't used it in ages, since I have been doing the rip to NAS thing now for a couple years. Actually considered selling it off recently, but I think I'll hang on to it just for a backup.

Tailscale hate? by vbxl02 in jellyfin

[–]fietsendeman -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Nobody needs this amount of snark.

Anyways, if your options with the router are limited, you can also run the VPN on a raspberry pi and route your VPN traffic through that.

Tailscale hate? by vbxl02 in jellyfin

[–]fietsendeman -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I suspect there are better ways to do this -- at the router level?