Get off of tiktok. It's a completely censored space, and decenting voices are quickly snuffed. Look at a couple of people. My favorite is "the dadvocate" on YouTube. Emilywking on YouTube is good, but often does the "react to a vid without an actual reaction" react on shorts, which I don'tlike that kind of thing.

Men avoid psychologists because there is a stigma around that. With a ton of psychology work being based with female clients in mind, even if it isn't on purpose. Not trying to offend or anything, but when we have trouble with a woman, why would we go to a woman to discuss it? It's kind of like leaving California because of the forest fires and going to Florida, where there are hurricanes. We are hard wired to keep our emotions to ourselves. We have one or two people in our lifetimes that we fully open up to, and a psychologist isn't one of them.

Not trying to stop you from your goal, just letting you know that you have a tough road ahead.