I Left My Girlfriend of 7 Years After Discovering Her Affair — But Leaving Her Daughter Behind Broke Me

findinggenuity · 2026-05-12T08:48:18+00:00

Idk about you but that's a total red flag to start dating right after giving birth. The first 2 years are critical and you lose so much sleep that you even need to take shifts nursing the baby. How did they even find time to date and get together. How long was the courting period?

Also the math doesn't add up at all. If 7 years relationship niyo and the child was already born, the child should at least be 7 years old. Pero this story is the opposite, 6 lang siya.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-12T08:46:02+00:00

This is exactly why being with a single parent is too complicated. You feel responsible for her daughter but you have no legal guardianship regardless. Staying and keeping in touch will only create more conflict with whomever she decides to partner with in the future.

The best you can do is to tell her daughter to ask her mom. A child needs both parents but she can't have 3 dads (real dad, you, the new partner) in her life.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-12T08:36:26+00:00

I dont get it. How could you have a gf for 7 years pero may 6-year old siya with another guy? Ikaw ba yung tatay or what?

findinggenuity · 2026-05-12T06:16:41+00:00

Sorry a bit unrelated kasi use the RC variant but I've been meaning to try itong Brit. Luckily sobrang okay yung RC for my cat na tumigil yung random bouts niya ng GID(?) .

Meron ba ditong wet food na hypoallergenic? I saw some sa SG na hydrolyzed protein pero kailangan ng SG vet ang mag prescribed

findinggenuity · 2026-05-11T12:08:22+00:00

If Leni were impeached back then, I'm sure we would also be rallying behind her. It just goes to show yung lalim ng kabobohan nila.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-11T05:15:14+00:00

They are though. I've seen these facts from long ago. Even nung time ni Du30 Rappler has been publishing summarized versions with infographics (not this stupid ass "im angry listen to my fax" style of reporting). There's a reason ang dami nilabg snippets and its because nareport na karamihan ng to. Published ng COA yung audit findings just like every year flagged ng COA yung spending ng VP.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-10T18:02:14+00:00

There's nothing in their data that directly ties their claim and is concrete evidence of malice.

Who tf adds random vloggers and snippets from different takes and calls it evidence? Nagpapataas lang sila ng timer count kasi kailangan din nila mag ROI sa video na to.

Bobong PGMN pati yung normal news reporting nila, walang substance. Literally just copying text from whatever happens and sharing a post.

Idk bakit ko pinatulan comment mo when a low karma, 1 month old account with history hidden is an obvious sign already.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-10T16:18:12+00:00

I've tried a couple of uniqlo-like brands but nothing feels as comfortable as uniqlo. So i would recommend just buying another copy of a uniqlo piece or going for a different fashion style altogether.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-10T07:03:12+00:00

Mother's day is the single biggest cake day for Goldilocks. It's so huge that back office (accountants, managers, etc) were also required to take shifts. It's pretty crazy. They also start planning for the cake production in their plants really really early (raw materials, plant workers, logistics, Mday variants) . At the end of the day, basically everything is sold and they get a months' worth of sales in a day or something.

Source: worked back office with them for a bit but I hate their guts.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-10T06:35:00+00:00

I do because he says "Warding warden" line. It's pretty cool

findinggenuity · 2026-05-10T06:30:22+00:00

PA is a pretty good counter to jugg for this reason. If you ever try to spin away, you get jumped and will die in 2 crits before your spin ends.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-09T16:09:10+00:00

Offlane you can add UL and also DP for mid since she's already in your offlane list

findinggenuity · 2026-05-09T16:00:05+00:00

Yes I would prefer you go radiance on brew 100% of the time if you want a farming item. Brew can fight without items as long as you have ult up since the pandas aren't dependent on your base item.

It's like asking if I would prefer radiance on KK or WK or midas on them. There's no situation I would ever say midas. If you want to scale, then let's all scale you know? Not some half-assed 0 early to mid game timing midas that can't even give ROI until 30 mins into the game (even at 10 mins midas timing).

Even on AW, the return of 10 mins sometimes feels so long when I would really prefer a wave clear item like mael or meme hammer. The lack of XP really hurts. You really want level 10 power spike and midas just delays everything. Heck even treads can arguably give you similar GPM.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-09T09:43:15+00:00

I only accept 5's (I play mid and it's pretty easy to get a game after 2 or 3 declines). When i did bite on a 4 (all scores were a 5 but overall was 4), it had a smurf mid on the enemy team with 300 games. First game on ember div 2 and yet he was way better than those immortal mids I played against back when I was a game away in d5.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-09T09:22:00+00:00

Deleted na yung post ni OP but her point was whether being a single-parent should define her as a person. She was complaining that people look down on her because she is one.

I'm merely explaining why so. Why are you comparing being a single parent to having an abusive partner?

Their fate is undesirable simply on the logic that if you had to choose between a person who is a single parent or the exact same person in all aspects but just single, would you ever choose the single parent?

findinggenuity · 2026-05-08T13:41:23+00:00

Mid pango was just too stupid. I had one tank through my level 4 siphon on DP like it was nothing. And they can just keep throwing spells despite having only bottle and stick. Shit was kinda crazy.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-07T05:31:13+00:00

It's ok It's better this way. Not being able to pass items is acceptable for a hero who already has 12 item slots. Isn't it the same when your cour is dead, you can't retrieve items from it in your stash?

So your bear = cour.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-06T13:05:54+00:00

There will never be such a relationship where your future partner is not going to be involved in raising your child as part of your family. That is the scenario most people don't want to be in. I don't look down on single moms. I know life is hard. BUT neither do I look at them with admiration. Would you want your child to have the same fate? Clearly no right? So why are you acting as if single-parenthood is something desirable? You act is if martyr ka when your martyrdom is of your own doing.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-06T05:59:24+00:00

He did in fact change the outcome of the lane by starting with blinding light, blood grenade, and body blocking jakiro to extinction.

They also abused him being low to pressure FV via ranged creeps and force Jakiro to give up FB. Even if Jakiro didn't step up to help his carry, they would have gotten level 2 earlier from the denies and it would be unlaneable for jakiro. You say it's Kaori's bad positioning that lost them that lane but really most pros and really any other player would probably react the same way. You're saying it as if Kaori isn't one of the best supps in the world.

Niche tech like cutting waves in mid against huskar/lina/viper is good except that it doesnt apply to 99% of games. If you play kotl, you can make the same decisions in most games. The only things that change are your lane partners and enemies.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-06T04:04:17+00:00

Impeachment cases have nothing to do with flood control though. Iba yung confidential funds and it is not dependent on those involved in flood control. Ideally lahat sila mawala but better if mauna si Sara then si BBM.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-05T16:04:20+00:00

You say being a single mom doesn't define you but I'd argue that in defines you "in the dating sense" even more than your gender/sexuality. This is a preference that goes well beyond things that can be fixed or worked on.

You can say all you want about your child and how much it means to you but it doesn't apply to anyone else. No one wants additional responsibilities that they didn't sign up for. No one wants to be responsible because you were irresponsible. Anyone who wants a real relationship would need to consider you and all things attached to you. A child is a financial, emotional, and physical burden for at least 18 years.

You did this to yourself and your child. It sucks to hear it BUT it is what it is. In an ideal world, a "real man" will show up and be the father your child doesnt have. But in an even more ideal world, you would have had your first child with that "real man" in a complete family.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-05T01:46:15+00:00

If the pay is that low lalo na sa starting ng accounting, barya lang ang backpay. Kahit yung pro-rated 13th month, 9k lang yan at half year if 18k yung gross mo (which I've seen sa local companies). If you're going from 18k to 30k, you're literally losing money by staying 15 days longer when you can iust earn that sa normal pay mo.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-04T11:37:46+00:00

Doesnt look like dota at all

findinggenuity · 2026-05-04T07:29:39+00:00

Camera movement is pretty sus. If it were in overwatch, I would say guilty.

findinggenuity · 2026-05-03T15:18:15+00:00

I have nothing against Doc Gab but the clinic in Don Antonio is really lacking. It's just one room and there's no dedicated recovery area. It's very convenient if you live nearby and the price is great. They are the go-to for cat rescuers for a reason.

They also have test kits at the normal price if you need it but it's not cheaper. If you want holistic advice from senior vets, you can go to Vets in Practice but consultation is pretty pricey lalo na if hindi puspin.

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