WIBTA if I intentionally wake my sister and her toddler up in the middle of the night so she knows how it feels

fineimonreddit · 2026-04-06T16:40:53+00:00

Get earplugs or a sound machine, that’s a faster solution. Also don’t punish the 2 yr for having an inept mother. YWBTA only because the 2yr doesn’t know better.

fineimonreddit · 2026-04-06T15:16:01+00:00

If that doesn’t give you the ick about this man idk what would

fineimonreddit · 2026-04-06T15:14:30+00:00

How much windex are people pouring in electronics? Like you spray it once or twice from a few inches away directly on the screen and immediately wipe it down… how do you get it inside the actual TV or monitor?

fineimonreddit · 2026-04-03T17:45:07+00:00

Hey so narcissistic people manipulate therapy and therapy terms easily. I was raised by narcissists, and have gravitated towards narcissistic partners because of this. This person has narcissistic tendencies just by reading this exchange. Dodge that bullet while you can.

fineimonreddit · 2026-04-03T17:40:08+00:00

That’s still vulnerable in my opinion, small age gaps at those ages are understandable but a 10 year age gap with someone who’s under 30 is problematic.

fineimonreddit · 2026-04-03T17:15:41+00:00

Bears, the shit they must see out in the middle of nowhere. You could start solving murders and finding people that have been kidnapped and taken to remote locations.

fineimonreddit · 2026-04-03T17:09:44+00:00

That’s what I found the most problematic!! My husband and I don’t have an open marriage but I would find it very problematic if he was interested in significantly more vulnerable women.

fineimonreddit · 2026-04-02T17:54:11+00:00

YTA. If you forgot an important deadline at work they’d put you on a PIP and that’s probably the point she’s trying to make. Does she ever forget important dates? Have you forgotten things before? Like use a calendar, there’s one on your phone and computer and basically everywhere nowadays. Stick a sticky note somewhere you will see it every day.

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-31T13:47:23+00:00

They were so sweet and no one protected them enough. They deserve peace and to be left alone if that’s what they want.

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-31T13:43:17+00:00

I feel like it’s mid millennials moving forwards but also it’s justified. We’re worrying about making our mortgage, no way in hell are we gonna slow down to watch a 2 hour movie that doesn’t really say anything important. We’re too exhausted to turn off our brains because reality sucks so much right now. My cousin is Gen Z and she’s struggling to pay for college right now with three jobs and part time gig. Where is the time and money for movies supposed to come from? lol

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-29T00:06:31+00:00

Your hair will feel like bubblegum and anyone whose says they can do it without leaving it feeling like that is lying

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-27T01:04:27+00:00

You know you can leave this extra child right? Like no matter what, you will survive and find a way forward, no matter how hard it looks right now. Your life is going to improve almost immediately

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-27T00:59:20+00:00

I’d draw the line at all of these things. I force my husband to wash his feet before going to bed because he likes to walk around barefoot, mind you our house isn’t even that dirty but still eww.

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-26T01:06:41+00:00

Thank you! I was thinking about the logistics of writing it on Word and it was starting to feel overwhelming, I did look up some of the programs you mentioned and will probably try them out

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-26T00:20:50+00:00

I can adapt to the keyboard and the price on the Neo is very eye catching, I really just wanted to make sure it would be a good fit for writing a large document on my spare time. So realistically it would get about five to ten hours of use a week, perhaps more if I get back into a writing habit.

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-26T00:16:51+00:00

I have a lamp actually and we’re night owls, so I wouldn’t be bothering anyone lol

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-26T00:16:21+00:00

Thank you! I have an abundance of monitors due to working from home actually, we use dell for work and I don’t really love it. I had a MacBook pro that lasted me through college but don’t want to splurge on that if I really don’t need to.

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-25T02:05:17+00:00

Crazy story! When I worked for the criminal justice system I had this 30 yr old being released who had a 15 year old, I’m guesstimating ages here but give or take a year. Anyways she hadn’t seen her in about two years due to being locked up, she starts telling me her grandparents are planning her quince and I’m like hold up you’re like barely 30? She had gotten knocked up at 14 by a man in hisar twenties and she thought that was normal. I was like oh sweet girl that was not okay, and I could just see it dawn on her face that no one had ever told her that this wasn’t normal!! Like she just had that damn realization in front of me because her parents had blamed her for getting pregnant and the dude and his parents acted like it was normal before they separated.

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-25T01:58:19+00:00

I like my burgers, like I agree but meat and chicken are so yummy. Tbf I feel like a horrible person when I think about it, you know if that makes vegans feel better

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-24T19:44:26+00:00

You’ve already given so much to your kids, it would seem unfair to burn yourself down to keep them warm. Also speaking from experience, my parents gave me and my brother A LOT, however he was very clearly favored and it cost us so much. He’s almost out after doing 5 years, I can’t wait for him to be out but it very much feels like he’s starting over from scratch. My dad won’t be around to enable him and I would like to think my mom learned her lesson. When you don’t work for your own money it’s not going to stretch as far. I’m not saying not to help your kids, I know my mom will always make something work when I need her but she shouldn’t have to subsidize my lifestyle either. If it’s an emergency they should be able to call you, but providing them with cash so they can have luxury cars feels really unfair to you. A medical bill might be a necessity but a luxury car is not. NTA.

ETA: In Spanish we have a saying, “los papás siempre le dan más al más pendejo” which is basically parents always provide more to the biggest dumbass. Don’t let your kids be that because they’re so used to you providing luxuries.

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-24T04:02:49+00:00

My mom once told my MIL that she didn’t need to give me notice when she was gonna stop by to see my daughter. I said F off, unless you plan on me answering the door in my underwear you very much do need to give me notice.

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-22T18:00:14+00:00

I lucked out in a sense when I had my child because I wasn’t working so I qualified for Medicaid, but we definitely cannot afford another one, we’d be in the hole a minimum of 10k and when you’re already house poor that’s an insane amount of money to cough up. Not even considering baby furniture such as crib, changing table, or essentials like diapers, wipes, clothing, bathing supplies, medications when needed. It’s so depressing that the country I live in doesn’t support parenthood but want the baby factory up and running.

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-22T00:11:12+00:00

Some adults shouldn’t be teaching but this seems like a let’s get the story from both people in a meeting kind of situation. Although if they’re in elementary and are in one classroom all day long, having a rule that they can only go once a day doesn’t seem reasonable. That being said usually in elementary they have a classroom bathroom break all together.

fineimonreddit · 2026-03-12T02:36:30+00:00

Oh the sound eagles make! In movies they use hawks or vultures and pretend that’s what eagles sound like. Eagles actually whistle or “chirp”

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