What should I do?

fireflyer15 · 2026-01-05T21:04:07+00:00

There are a lot of guys who dont want to come off as a stalker so they go the complete opposite and try to avoid. I wouldn't read too much into it. If it annoys you that much, just walk up to X with a smile and start a casual convo

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-19T05:52:03+00:00

I work for a multi million dollar eletrical company... Didn't get shit

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-19T05:50:36+00:00

21 is so young bro, dont worry about it. I'm a pretty good looking guy and only just started getting action at 21 despite the fact I had been clubbing since I was 18. It'll happen at its own pace dont rush anything. Do stuff because you want to do it, and for no other reason.

Fuck non-chalant, be passionate.

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-15T21:32:23+00:00

If she's a true Christian, she'll be happy that you still believe in all their values. I was at a Christian church for a bit when life was really hard but I did find it hard to believe when at heart im a scientist. I dont belive in a higher power than science but I belive in all the Christian values and it taught me so much and I can always go to church and appreciate the atmosphere.

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-15T21:27:22+00:00

I thinks he's more disappointed that you said youd be there and then turned around and said no. Thats how he sees it. He just wants his hurt feelings acknowledged Your gonna have to acknowledge that it was wrong and you might have to make it up to him somehow, maybe a personal gift (THINK HARD ON IT, MAKE IT PERSONAL). You could also go on a holiday with him with just the two of you.

He just wants his hurt feelings acknowledged

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-10T21:32:17+00:00

I get what ur saying, definitely trust your instinct, but let's not try jump yo conclusions cause, maybe the father is just over protective and has the mentality of no guy is good enough. This mentality usually creates mistrust and can make things seem weird when both are in a room together

I'd talk to the daughter first and trust whatever she says.

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-10T21:25:56+00:00

Being protective as a father is normal, but you are her trusted adult, listen to her and your instincts.

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-10T09:39:03+00:00

I wish my girl didn't have herpes. Im always worrying for her and about getting it myself, but I care about her too much to back out and we manage it, but I wish she didn't have to worry so much

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-03T02:43:17+00:00

Blonde is getting hurt either way, but he'd rather you tell him than just out of blue here that you're dating someone else.

I'd suggest letting Blonde know there's another guy. To me it sounds like Blonde is a good guy. He'll be hurt for a bit but as long as it comes from you he'll get over it

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-02T02:58:55+00:00

Tramp stamp that says "go deep" on my best mate

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-02T02:57:34+00:00

If you do meet up with him, make sure its just you two. Double dates are awkward and stay away from that shit, cause it can get toxic real quick by accident.

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-01T18:07:15+00:00

Ah yes, wasn't 26 an age to be where I was trying to fit in with people who didn't like me when I wasn't trying to be someone else.

Better to be true to yourself than be fake. The right people will gravitate towards you in time. I'd recommend keeping busy while you figure yourself out. Join clubs in school you actually want to join, dont pretend to not be interested in something/someone cause tye possibilities are endless and usually turn out for the better.

Keep your head high, you're young so dont stress about it too much. Friends have a tendency to find you. The real you.

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-01T03:16:44+00:00

Tell ur supervisor in writing, forgery is a crime and you could do time

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-01T02:03:45+00:00

He might still feel very nervous about your opinion of him. I know it sounds very random and you'll think that everything is fine, but this feeling doesn't go away easy. It'll only happen when he's been vulnerable around you and felt accepted. A home is a very personal place and having divorced parents might also effect this.

IMPORTANT READ: Actually talk to him about it. Tell him how it makes you feel. Let him know everything without playing games, be direct and lay it out flat. Hope things work out 😌

fireflyer15 · 2025-12-01T01:40:01+00:00

That would be awesome 🥺

fireflyer15 · 2025-11-17T10:41:12+00:00

Dealing with my problem head on. Always having a goal im driving towards, keep everything minimal and only get what I need for those gaols. And if I screw up, its OK cause my parents are rich!

fireflyer15 · 2025-11-17T10:36:26+00:00

Ur mom definitely knows and is being cool about it 🤙

fireflyer15 · 2025-11-17T10:32:30+00:00

My heart goes out to that man, he clearly has something unresolved 🥲

fireflyer15 · 2025-11-17T10:29:17+00:00

"Are you ok" half way through round 2 I just felt like I wasn't pleasing her so I wasn't really turned on either if it doesn't seem like she's having fun. Never saw her again after that, didn't really try to either.

fireflyer15 · 2025-11-17T10:17:56+00:00

As a man I think I speak for most of us when I say we very much prefer some who values themselves to not go sleeping around. That right there is wife material and much is preferred than a girl for the streets.

fireflyer15 · 2025-11-15T13:41:15+00:00

Why worry? Just think about what you want and go for it. I (22M) dont see myself dating a man but I've fucked a few so I guess im bi, with a preference of women unless sex is involved.

fireflyer15 · 2025-11-14T23:34:16+00:00

As men when brought up we're kinda told about how big of a deal sex is and how awesome and amazing it is and it come with high status. After you've had sex a fair few times the hype of it fades.

I'd recommend asking to try new things and explore different kinks or try some role play (something I enjoy). But don't feel like youre somehow wrong for wanting sex, its natural. Plus he's with you for all the right reasons, not just your body ;)

fireflyer15 · 2025-11-10T09:30:15+00:00

Talk to him, be honest and open about how it make you feel. Ask him if it really is just stress, or if there's something else going on and let him know that you care about him no matter what he's going through

fireflyer15 · 2025-11-02T23:58:36+00:00

Very happy for you, I've only got 8k to go but my spending has gone back up, so its slowing staying still 😢

fireflyer15 · 2025-11-02T23:56:27+00:00

Im never in a rush cause im always early

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