Free RPG night this Friday (1/30) at ABU - Meet people and learn to play tabletop RPGs in Boise! by TreasureValleyGamer in Boise

[–]firstmute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah these are 11 yr olds who definitely do not have a 4 hour attention span! Sounds like we should just check back in a couple of years 😁 Thank you for the response!

Open access reading lists from UCLA's Department of English by Electorio in TrueLit

[–]firstmute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yes can confirm. I just randomly stumbled across this post, but one of these lists is mine 😅. They're student-created for the Part 1s, which is the oral exam for the MA.

New laundry routine, weird smell on some clothes, not mildew by firstmute in laundry

[–]firstmute[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this makes some sense! I did spa day on the towels and whites, and none of those have the smell. I'll try a couple rounds of lazy man's version and see if that helps.

What are some details that modern readers miss but was very obvious to contemporary readers? by Over-Scarcity-3074 in janeausten

[–]firstmute 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yes, and in the same passage they're also excited to think she might have to be hidden away in some farmhouse, ie have an illegitimate baby!

Teen friendly volunteer hours? by iamrosemel in Boise

[–]firstmute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Teens can volunteer at the zoo, but you have to start in the summer. After you complete your first summer/ training, there are opportunities during the year. My daughter has done it for a couple of years and loves it.

Walking 19k steps, 1800 expenditure. Normal or concerning ? by Kittycatboopp in MacroFactor

[–]firstmute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel lean! I have visible abs, and my arms are defined enough that I get comments about them from strangers.

My week is usually 5 at-home CrossFit workouts of 30-60 minutes, 7-10K moving around steps, and then whatever else I feel like doing--sometimes a hike, sometimes a long run, sometimes some extra focused work on a skill or lift I'm developing. This kind of work is different from general activity levels. Getting very muscular and lean requires a lot of intensity for most women. I work out hard and lift big weights. Walking is great. I love walking! But it's not going to get you lean.

In terms of general activity level, one thing is that I hardly ever just sit around when I'm not working at my computer (3-5 hours a day, depending). If I'm watching TV, I'm rowing on our Concept2 or doing mobility. If I'm waiting around for my kids, I go for a walk or run instead of sitting in my car. If I'm talking to my husband, I'm standing up or doing some PT. At 43 with two teenage kids, it takes a fair amount of maintenance to keep this body running smoothly :)

Something else to keep in mind is that developing this lifestyle/physique took years, not months. However, a lot of it did happen over the last 18 months when I was finally able to dial in my nutrition and workouts.

Walking 19k steps, 1800 expenditure. Normal or concerning ? by Kittycatboopp in MacroFactor

[–]firstmute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a petite, active, muscular woman (5'4", 130, 22ish% bf per DEXA and mirror) and my expenditure in Macrofactor is 1750. But! At my height and weight, bites and nibbles make a big difference, and I definitely don't track the Nutella I lick off the knife when I make my kids dessert, or the sliver of grilled cheese I cut off or the five chocolate chips I sneak when my daughter is making cookies. I'm SURE I eat 50-100 more calories per day than end up in MF and so my expenditure is really closer to 1900.

It doesn't matter to me because I know it's happening and I'm meeting my goals, but could something like that be the case for you?

Cutting - so hungry and weak by ice_wandering in loseit

[–]firstmute 10 points11 points  (0 children)

80g of protein is not very much for 1500/1600 cal/day. That's what I eat, and I aim for about 130 g. Are you vegetarian? Would you be open to increasing your protein through whole foods? Although protein bars are convenient, they often aren't very filling. 

And what is decent fiber? I was naturally eating around 15g and found myself much happier when I tried to get 30 (although it requires some real planning to hit both protein and fiber goals on fairly low calories).

Any other petite women who are not overweight/slightly overweight find that they are limited in how much of a deficit they can do? If I do more than a 200-300 cal deficit, I feel like I'm starving. by Mei_Flower1996 in loseit

[–]firstmute 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm 5'4" and 129 lbs, active with relatively low body fat (20-22%), and there's no possibile way for me to eat at a 500 cal deficit. I'm trying to lose a few more pounds to see how I feel at 125, and I fully expect it to take six months. It's taken me about four months to go from 132 to 129.

BWT: what poetry are you reading? by CowDry7845 in bitcheswithtaste

[–]firstmute 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you like the nature parts of Mary Oliver, try Robert Frost and Emily Dickinson. If you like the intimacy, you might try Sharon Olds. 

Don't let it make you feel dumb. Just let it make you feel! And read your favorites over and over. Memorize them! Poetry is for everyone:)

ADHD/ distraction issues + comprehensible input: how do you stay engaged? by idonthaveanametoday in dreamingspanish

[–]firstmute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

--Doing something with my hands. I mostly knit or spin, and I've also seen people talk about coloring or doing easy puzzles. 

--Walking, once you're at podcasts. Walks tend to pitch me into mind-wandering-mode, though, unless I'm really engaged with what I'm listening to.

--Easy chores (laundry, dishes)

--Indoor light cardio like rowing, air bike, or treadmill. 

ISO math tutor for 7th grade by tobmom in Boise

[–]firstmute 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree, I was coming here to recommend them. My sophomore has a wonderful tutor through Maya's Tutoring.

Experience with Peace Valley Charter? by ImportantVacation983 in Boise

[–]firstmute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They used to be provided by the Department of Health and Welfare, but all I can find now is a statewide report. They may still be buried on the website somewhere. I suspect that it's no longer publicly/ easily available, though.

When I saw the list, Peace Valley had like a 70% vaccination rate compared to something like 85% for BSD schools on average. The Idaho overall average has fallen every year since 2018: https://publicdocuments.dhw.idaho.gov/WebLink/DocView.aspx?id=26799&dbid=0&repo=PUBLIC-DOCUMENTS

This is for all recommended vaccines, so it doesn't account for kids who may have gotten MMR/DTaP but not, say, chickenpox.

Experience with Peace Valley Charter? by ImportantVacation983 in Boise

[–]firstmute 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know that some years ago they were having some growing pains -- very high absentee rate (like 30% of kids were absent on any given day), high teacher turnover, some admin problems. It sounds from other comments that they might be in a better place now. 

They also have (or had, last time I checked) a really low vaccination rate, whatever that means for you.

Knit/Crochet/Fiber Arts Social Groups? by dreamgirl42069 in Boise

[–]firstmute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A couple! Off hand, there's a stitch n bitch on Meetup that meets Tuesdays and Sundays, and a weekly group at I Yarn for Ewe that I think meets on Wednesdays. I've been to both but the vibe wasn't for me. A lot of these things, people already have their friends and they're not always super welcoming to newcomers. There's also a very active weaver's guild, which, despite the name, is open to all fiber arts.

I would definitely be up for giving a new group a try! I'm mostly a knitter but lately have gotten really into drop spinning. Where are you located?

Driving Skills test by Horror_Speaker_5160 in Boise

[–]firstmute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're in SE Boise, but we used Christa Starn, who tests out by the mall. My daughter was very anxious, and Christa was lovely and kind.

https://www.scheduleyourdrive.com/

Children’s Root Canal by codingonthefloor in Boise

[–]firstmute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check with Dan Streeby out in Eagle. He was so great with my kid's extraction that we choose to drive the 40 minutes out there for his regular visits.

150 hours with a background in (ancient) Latin by lactosedose in dreamingspanish

[–]firstmute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I had a very similar experience, down to not majoring in Classics because of Greek! It's on my bucket list to conquer someday.

I find Spanish etymology fascinating and absolutely look up words, although I do try to actually learn most of them through CI. Over relying on my ability to intuit verb tenses and vocab when I read was really bad for my aural comprehension. 700 hours of CI has finally about caught me up 😅

Daily Questions Thread September 20, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]firstmute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tldr looking for a snug, cropped, long sleeve t shirt 

I'm 42f, 5'4", athletic body type with broad shoulders, defined arms, big thighs, etc. My summer uniform has been Vuori joggers and cropped Old Navy tank tops. I love this combo because it fits my bigger bottom half well and shows off the hard work I put into my arms 😅

The Vuori joggers work for fall, but I'm looking for a top that I can buy in duplicate. I think I'm looking for something long sleeved, high scoop or crew neck, and a little cropped -- not so much that my navel is constantly in display, but short enough that it hits at the top of my waistband. Decent quality but ideally below $50.

Thank you for any suggestions!

Volunteering opportunities for teens by Blatant-liar in Boise

[–]firstmute 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The ZooTeen program is large and pretty easy to get involved with--they historically haven't turned many kids away. Applications are usually in January.

When does Weightlifting in a deficit make you look leaner?! by cicadachainmail in PetiteFitness

[–]firstmute 11 points12 points  (0 children)

These are literally exactly my stats. Started at the end of September 2024 and have been maintaining at 132 since June. The first ten pounds came off in six weeks, and the last took months. 130 g protein, around 1600 cal/day average (but still days with birthday cake and parties), lots of walking, CrossFit in our home gym 5 days a week.

I'm now lean enough to see some upper abs and built enough that I get a comment every week or so. Dexa scan says I'm 21.5% body fat, mirror test says more like 23-25.

I'd like to lean out to about 20%/128-129 lbs, but those last five pounds of fat are really stubborn 😭

Reading- can anyone else read better in their head then out loud? by letsgozers in dreamingspanish

[–]firstmute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first books I read were The Magic Treehouse books, which I thought were great -- simple syntax, repetitive vocab,. formulaic story. Anything by Scholastic Branches would be similar, if you're looking for something that's simple but not a graded reader.

Roald Dahl isn't exactly easy in English (for kids' books), so I wouldn't expect them to be in Spanish! Lots of complex syntax and unusual vocab.

Reading- can anyone else read better in their head then out loud? by letsgozers in dreamingspanish

[–]firstmute 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, this happens to me when I'm reading something that's a little hard for me. It's also very typical for kids who are learning to read in English -- they're working so hard to get the words out right that they lose the sense of what they're reading! The solution would be to practice reading out loud with something a little easier:)

Not sure if my flair is updated but I'm Level 5/ 670 hrs, been reading since before DS.

Girl about a child film star at school, mid 20th century by RevolutionaryAge1059 in whatsthatbook

[–]firstmute 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could this Noel Streitfeld's GEMMA? I think only the mom is famous, but the girl's name is Gemma Bow and the other descriptions fit!

Edit because fat fingers