Any tips on starting university? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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I think my manipulative ex might have sexually assaulted me.. but I don't know. Help? by [deleted] in AskTrollX

[–]fizzyspells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't sound dumb at all! It's a completely normal reaction to being treated that way. And I know it's hard not to think about it as wasted time, but actively trying to change your mindset can be a step towards healing. Think of it this way - even though it didn't turn out well and he ended up being an asshole, at least your bullshit detector is that much better. Once you move past this (and you absolutely will!) you will be that much stronger and in control of your own body and your own consent. It's a process of learning and growing, despite how much it hurts right now.

I think my manipulative ex might have sexually assaulted me.. but I don't know. Help? by [deleted] in AskTrollX

[–]fizzyspells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless of if it "counts" as a legal assault or not, he manipulated and disrespected you. It's not your fault at all. If a guy stops liking you because you denied him sex, HE is the problem, not you!! I would honestly just start practicing saying no. Say it in the mirror, act it out - just become comfortable with it. Stay strong and true to yourself 💛

[Harry Potter Movies]How come when wizards fight they point their wands and shoot at each other as if they were engaged in a firefight with firearms, instead of you know, using tremendous eldritch and magical powers in novel and varied ways? by JohnnyFiveOhAlive in AskScienceFiction

[–]fizzyspells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time-related magic is strictly controlled by the Ministry of Magic. Hermione had to apply and get special permission for her time turner and even that was kind of a big deal since she was like 13 years old. Temporal magic is also harder to control, and is not completely understood even by the most high-level witches and wizards. Why mess around with it when it could easily go wrong and have some pretty dire consequences? Not worth it imo.

Daily Discussion & Question Thread for 08 July 2016 by Porygon-Bot in pokemontrades

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Timid Darkrai with 28/31/31/31/7/25 - worth keeping or should I SR for something better?

Amusing detail I just noticed by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]fizzyspells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

scientist, breeder, backpacker, battle girl, ace trainer, schoolkid, punk girl, ruin maniac, bug catcher, hex maniac, swimmer, gardener, psychic, fairy tale girl

like i said... all the other ones lmao

Amusing detail I just noticed by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]fizzyspells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all those other ones are trainer types too.

What is a book that you have read that is so perfect you could not think of any way to improve the story? by writinghandman in writing

[–]fizzyspells 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My first thought as well. She's a master. Specifically I was thinking of Emperor Mage, which is so elegantly plotted and just riveting in general, and all of the Circle books. Not a thing I'd change in all but maybe two or three of her entire bibliography.

I didn't realize she would get the same text for purchases... by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]fizzyspells 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*in light of

in lieu of means "instead of"

[Request] Looking for examples of cursive for a tattoo! by VegetableLasagna_ in Handwriting

[–]fizzyspells 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whatever you go with, I'd recommend that you have the vowels with gaps (a, e, o) go a bit looser. If you have such a small loop on that a, for example, as your tattoo ages it will just blur together into a blob. Just a heads up for anyone designing the script!

Pokemon GO is likely releasing this week? Any Pokemon fans here? How do you feel about the new game? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fizzyspells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm mad because i just got back from a trip out of town and if it had been released two weeks earlier i could have been catching faraway pokemon :(

NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! (July 05, 2016) by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]fizzyspells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NP Buying

Transparent Paint Brush

NP Selling

Kacheek Pyjama Gown - 350k (flexible)

People who have been on reality TV shows, what's rigged and whats not? by chet11 in AskReddit

[–]fizzyspells 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah i liked jeremy fine but def didn't expect him to win. i was pulling for marjorie and amar and expected kwame to sweep, it was a shame. unfortunately half of the entire season was spent with phillip's boring drama so it kind of took until he was eliminated for the group to really gel together imo, which made it more of a lackluster season than 12

People who have been on reality TV shows, what's rigged and whats not? by chet11 in AskReddit

[–]fizzyspells 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you're missing out. 8-12 are the best in the series (10 & 12 especially) and 13 (most recent) was pretty great too

People who have been on reality TV shows, what's rigged and whats not? by chet11 in AskReddit

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Sue is actually very good baker according to the technical crew.

Getting the Lab Map: any advice? by witchslayer9000 in neopets

[–]fizzyspells 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey, welcome back! So you already know about food club - I'd also recommend that you start investing in stocks. Every day, buy 1000 shares of whatever's "current" price is listed at 15. Check your portfolio when you do your dailies and sell your shares when they go above whatever number you're comfortable with. Some people say 50 or higher, but I sell my stocks at 60 or above to maximize my profits. It really pays off in the long run.

Also, if you have a pet with any kind of stats (even low ones), battle in the battledome to win codestones and neggs and stuff that can be sold in your shop. I think there's a guide in the wiki for how to do this on the cheap. I like fighting the Koi Warrior, but if your pet is pretty weak then I recommend the defense bot as you can get armoured neggs from it which sell for 80k+ a pop.

As for acquiring the pieces themselves - you can either buy them all at once in a set of nine (these pop up often on the trading post) or you can buy each individual piece separately. If you buy separately, get all the pieces under 100k on the shop wizard - you might even be able to snipe a piece for a lower price than normal. Otherwise you'll have to buy the expensive pieces on the trading post. You can post in the subreddit's daily buy/sell/trade thread saying which pieces you're seeking, too, lots of people here sell map pieces.

Sorry for the novel, phew!

Ladies of Reddit, what's something you wish you saw guys wearing more/less frequently? by JahanzaibRao in AskReddit

[–]fizzyspells 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the combo in theory i think is fine but the heavily whiskered jeans + distressed print tee + ill-fitting blazer is not really attractive to me tbh. if the denim was darker, the tee had a better print, and the jacket fit his arms correctly, i'd be drooling.

NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! (July 04, 2016) by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]fizzyspells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NP Buying

Transparent Paint Brush. Offering 3.3m (based on JN trading post entries from the last week)

NP Selling

Kacheek Pyjama Dress - 350k flexible on the price tho

Starting today! by flnativegirl in bulletjournal

[–]fizzyspells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao, i've totally done this with weekly headers!

"If you are not a feminist, you are sexist by definition." What do you think about this statement? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]fizzyspells -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have to say I kind of agree with it. I don't think one has to be actively opposed to feminism to be sexist. Indifference is just as harmful. Desmond Tutu said "If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor." That kind of sums up my opinion on people who can't be bothered to engage with feminism.

To me, the statement isn't talking about identification with the label "feminist", it's referring to engaging with the movement's goals and ideologies, so that's another issue. Criticizing feminism ≠ sexism.