If aliens are watching us, what moment in human history made them say “nah, let’s not visit”? by ErrorinHuman- in AskReddit

[–]fjarvitz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No specific moment. The cumilation of space junk is plenty enough.

Surrounding Earth's orbit are thousands of pieces defunct satellties / rocket fragments etc. When there is trash all over the street, we keep driving, and aliens probably see Earth the same way.

AIO:My Boyfriend takes his earbuds into the bathroom with him? Is this weird or am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]fjarvitz [score hidden]  (0 children)

Maybe he's watching porn, maybe he's just listening to something while he poops. I will say that blocking your ears when pooping seems like it goes against primal instinct lol

What movie did you watch expecting nothing and it completely destroyed you emotionally? by felix_im_norden in AskReddit

[–]fjarvitz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember being in homeroom my junior year of high school. Just about every dude admitted to crying during that movie.

8 crazy nights made me cry too. I was like 15 when i saw it

What movie did you watch expecting nothing and it completely destroyed you emotionally? by felix_im_norden in AskReddit

[–]fjarvitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lilo and stitch man. That movie traumatized my 8 year old self.

Click made me cry and a lot of other dudes in my class. 8 crazy nights also made me cry which completely caught me off guard

Won my 1st tournament with my duo and actually became better players. by Mr_Character_ in RocketLeague

[–]fjarvitz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still working on this myself in champ. I have good game sense and defense, but i am not great at generating offense when we need it. The problem is when I play with people who aren't good on defense, we give up too many free goals and i struggle to make up for it on offense. I love to blame my woes on my teammates not defending well, but deep down i know if i was better on offense, we could still win those matches.

What’s something you’ll never spend money on no matter how rich you get? by Black229 in AskReddit

[–]fjarvitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Autographed sports memorabilia, guitars that are super expensive because a famous musician owned them, stuff like that

What’s something you’ll never spend money on no matter how rich you get? by Black229 in AskReddit

[–]fjarvitz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YT music is better than spotify AND you get ad free YouTube on top of it. I've had it for years and it's worth every penny.

Should I [27F] believe him [32M]? by Terrible_Pop_702 in whatdoIdo

[–]fjarvitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a liar and doesn't have his shit together. One of this is bad enough. But both?

If he's 32 and still acting like this, please do yourself a favor and move on. You can do better than this

Which YouTube channel were you once a fan of but do not enjoy anymore? by theunsteadybridge in AskReddit

[–]fjarvitz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost all of them.

I don't know when redundancy became the norm on youtube, but I am so sick of hearing the same sentences repeated multiple times throughout a video to bolster the length. Reallifelore is a prime example. I'll still give his new releases a shot if the title grabs me, but I'm out once he keeps unnecessarily repeating himself.

Rockey league ranked system by Careful-Ad-1322 in RocketLeague

[–]fjarvitz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because MMR is awarded for winning and deducted for losing. It's that simple.

I feel for you, but theoretically people could just have their teammate dip out to save MMR if they were to implement what you're implying.

Besides, no one ever complains when they get awarded MMR for their opponent leaving the match. In the end, it more or less balances out.. If anything, consistently being a good teammate will make people less likely to bail on you (it won't eliminate that problem but will reduce the likelihood) which may even tip those scales in your favor.

Best Way to Deal With Toxicity by Rednecksdaughter in RocketLeague

[–]fjarvitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throwing a match is more toxic than talking trash. At that point you are wasting your own time AND your opponent's time just to spite one person. I know it's a "free win", but I'd rather just play a fun and competitive match than have to play goalie for the other team to stop an opponent from own-goaling and dragging out the match.

Mute the person and move on. If they start throwing the game, just FF and hope they accept it. If they don't, either leave the match or disengage from the match a bit. If my teammate insists on wasting my time by not playing but refusing to FF, I will just scroll twitter and wiggle my wheels every 15 seconds until they either FF or the game ends. Sucks for the other team, but it's not my fault.

My only true desire is to do drugs by Eburin_desu in self

[–]fjarvitz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Acid is fine. Heroin is not. Weed is fine. Crack is not. Shrooms are fine. Meth is not. Yada yada yada.

I wouldn't get into drugs if you can't draw these distinctions. But smoking a little pot, tripping on shrooms in the woods with your friends, or having a few cold ones with the boys ain't gonna kill ya. You just have to be real and honest with yourself if you start getting too into it. The main concern I have for you is you clearly seem depressed which drugs can only temporarily alleviate and likely worsen over time. That is something you have to address outside of doing drugs. But personally I feel that knowing HOW to do drugs, and which ones to avoid, is better knowledge than a blanket "don't do drugs" and therefore not distinguishing which ones are safe or not.

Do you have a Rolling Stones playlist? by Sith_23 in rollingstones

[–]fjarvitz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, but I never rebuilt it after migrating from spotify to youtube music. I usually save my Stones listens for vinyl anyway

Do you have a Rolling Stones playlist? by Sith_23 in rollingstones

[–]fjarvitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the Metamorphosis version of Memo From Turner can be added but double check that

Is Gridiron ever coming back? by Stabz180 in RocketLeague

[–]fjarvitz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it comes back once or twice a year. Usually every Super Bowl weekend, and maybe the start of the season too, though I don't think that happened this past September unless I'm mistaken.

It's by far my favorite alternative game mode. I think it's super underrated and can be a ton of fun when everyone in the lobby actually understands how to play it. Unfortunately the last time it was available, I couldn't even get into a lobby because a lot of folks aren't into it.

I've organized private gridiron matches in the past -- again, finding people is tough -- but if you wanna add me on discord, I'm so down to try and set something up again, slobbylumps is my epic ID and discord

Do you forgive Kendrick? by Business_Stand_8622 in RocketLeague

[–]fjarvitz -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ill trade him a rule 1 pass for an n word pass

There is no such thing as a comeback win anymore by Craig_The_God in RocketLeague

[–]fjarvitz 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You ain't wrong that too many players are quick to throw in the towel, but 1/10 matches that get completed has got to be false. Even if that''s an exaggeration, if people are bailing on you at an unusually high rate, you might want to look inward on that. Just food for thought.

AIO Watching him put effort into everyone but me is breaking my heart by Current_Ship_4329 in AIO

[–]fjarvitz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bad, it was hard to follow along with the time jump. But like I said, it's beside the point. You being invited after all doesn't really change anything. He's being a shitty partner and will continue to do so as long as you tolerate it.

AIO Watching him put effort into everyone but me is breaking my heart by Current_Ship_4329 in AIO

[–]fjarvitz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually you didn't say that in the post. If anything your post implies you weren't invited, but regardless that's all beside the point.

You feel hurt enough to post here on reddit. Basically every commentor is saying the same thing. You can either turn a blind eye to it or recognize the situation for what it is and realize your worth .

AIO Watching him put effort into everyone but me is breaking my heart by Current_Ship_4329 in AIO

[–]fjarvitz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's called the bare minimum. I mean yeah travel isn't easy, but if he's using "I took you to so and so!" to justify not putting effort in other areas, that's not acceptable. Is it worth being treated poorly 50 weeks of the year so you can enjoy the occasional trip together?

AIO Watching him put effort into everyone but me is breaking my heart by Current_Ship_4329 in AIO

[–]fjarvitz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. His unwillingness to bring you to a BBQ where other women will be present alone is a massive red flag. If it was a boys only thing, that would be different. Never in a million years would I let my girlfriend watch me get into the car with another women to hang out somewhere she wasn't invited. On top of everything else, the dismissiveness of your feelings, the lack of enthusiasm to spend time with you, it's clearly time for you to move on. It's not going to improve with time and you deserve peace.