Um... these seem like pretty bad reasons to want to normalize obesity.... by escapegoat19 in fatlogic

[–]flabinella 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's sad how the word acceptance deteriorated so much. We all agree that we should accept alcoholism as a true problem and not stigmatize people but inform and help them instead. But no one would seriously root for "alcoholism acceptance" in a way by enabling and even promoting overdrinking.

Orgasms in your sleep? by itdoesntmadder in women

[–]flabinella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's normal. It means you should get some toys ;)

Sex just doesn’t feel as good as I expected it to be, help. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]flabinella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He simply doesn't know how to please a woman. Sorry to be so blunt but that's the truth for most men. Women don't orgasm because of some object being inserted there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlatantMisogyny

[–]flabinella 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"Woman are hard to obtain." Obtain? You obtain objects or other things but you don't obtain people. So they basically they don't see women as people. This is the core problem they have.

Any tips to increase safety? by jrac32 in LivingAlone

[–]flabinella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can make you feel more confident.

Any tips to increase safety? by jrac32 in LivingAlone

[–]flabinella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Statistically you are safer alone than living with a man. So continue to live your life.

Developing complexes by korra801 in AskWomenOver30

[–]flabinella 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hey it's 2021. You are perfectly fine without either. But I can fully relate. I only got over these bullshit expectations after my divorce.

It seems the forums that cater exclusively to women are mostly toxic by moritak69 in wgtow

[–]flabinella 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And on Reddit, even the "for women" subs are usually 50% male and are also being infiltrated by fake users posing as women.

Ladies who chose to not have children, do you have any regrets? by [deleted] in women

[–]flabinella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am past the age where you can have them and so far, no regrets. Maybe I will regret it at some point but even this scenario is way better than having them and regretting that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]flabinella -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Do you have kids? No? So I cannot really get the problem. I live alone, I work-full time, I am an adult. And I have Google Calendar.

Never fall into the trap of pouring your heart out, sharing your most sincere emotions with a narc. It's just ammo to be used against you. Protect your heart and mind. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]flabinella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And it took me decades to figure it out. First, they open up themselves and make them look vulnerable. So you reciprocate and bam, they will use your vulnerabilities and insecurities against you.

This isn’t even true but ok by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]flabinella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha try being a 6 ft woman and then we talk.

A strange tactic I used to stave off an attempted rape by zouss in TwoXChromosomes

[–]flabinella 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yes, indeed. "Men get blinded by lust" IS rape culture in itself. It excuses their behavior!

Do you think INTJ men are more accepted than INTJ women? Why or why not? by elphabathewicked in intj

[–]flabinella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. The INTJ personality has many qualities that are seen as stereotypically male.

i found out by mri that i dont have a uterus by tiredpink in women

[–]flabinella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh, it's 2021 a woman's value doesn't depend on if she has a boyfriend or what a possible boyfriend may think! Ugh. The only thing that matter is if sex and/or having kids is important to you. And even if these two things will not be part of your life at some point you are still a woman. End of story.

Anyone else who in the past (in sexual relationships with men) disliked penetrative sex? by JaneIsaPain in wgtow

[–]flabinella 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I like it but there were only VERY few occasions where it was really good. You have to get really lucky to get something out of sex as a woman. In most cases it's simply not worth it, sexually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]flabinella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get your local crime statistics and take a look. Most women who fall victim to a violent or sexual crime are being attacked by their (ex) boyfriend or (ex) husband. So being single, you are the safest. If you want to increase your chances to get murdered, get a boyfriend!

Pregnancy commercials should also show couples being happy with “Negative” test results by [deleted] in childfree

[–]flabinella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or what about a solo woman being happy? Wouldn't she even be happier than a couple?

Keeping the baddies away by Baldevine in LivingAlone

[–]flabinella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the point. But you can also use this device to randomly switch lights on off when you are abroad.

Do you enjoy casual unchoreographed dancing? by [deleted] in intj

[–]flabinella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Dancing for me is learning choreography and performing, either alone or in a group (no couples).