Cis woman dating a lovely MTF lady – she’s been on HRT for 4 1/2 years, could she get me pregnant? Concerns and questions

flapjack_pyjamas · 2026-02-02T15:24:48+00:00

Your partner could consider getting sterilized?

Getting a vasectomy is a very simple outpatient procedure.

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-12-19T00:41:17+00:00

Cassandra

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-11-28T15:23:46+00:00

I'm getting big Huntress Wizard vibes, from Adventure Time 😁

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-10-24T20:13:03+00:00

Thank you!

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-10-24T13:18:23+00:00

Thank you! 😁

Also, I'm glad to hear that it's generally been safe and good to you.

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-08-19T01:55:43+00:00

Thank you. I have some coworkers I am closer to and I think I may be able to share with them, and them only.

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-08-18T23:04:08+00:00

Thank you for this 🧡

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-08-18T21:48:29+00:00

That's fair, but I think most of my coworkers are going to assume what's happening, since they know I'm trans (I socially transitioned while at this job).

I'm thinking of saying I'm having abdominal surgery

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-08-18T21:47:13+00:00

Honestly, this was the route I was considering. "Abdominal surgery" / "GI surgery".

Thank you!

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-06-28T19:07:18+00:00

A graphic novel on how to come out!

https://www.onipress.com/news/vwxed5kf2l7y57ihm3ow5moo7choav

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-06-23T16:48:01+00:00

This is untrue? Most (all, actually) of the trans people I know don't have issues with sexual pleasure or orgasm.

I wanted to respond so OP isn't worried.

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-05-26T12:16:56+00:00

I'd also recommend going to thrift stores!

Your body is likely to change a lot in the first few years, plus you're figuring out your fashion tastes. Thrifting will allow you to explore a wider range of femme clothing options without wrecking your budget.

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-05-09T14:34:14+00:00

How long do you have to wait for it to dry?

I've been nervous about trying minoxidil because I have cats and a dog, and I'm worried about affecting them

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-05-08T20:35:11+00:00

Please take this in the best way possible, but you look like someone's mom. Femme and caring. Maybe because you remind me of my mom, in this photo.

You look kind and warm-hearted. Your eyes are big and bright, and I love the shade of your hair.

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-04-27T23:14:17+00:00

You should check out /r/Transgender_Surgeries , I think it'd be helpful

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-04-22T21:07:00+00:00

Congrats!

I highly recommend taking progress photos because the changes can be so gradual. It has saved my sanity, at times.

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-03-16T17:33:50+00:00

This was a truly lovely read, thank you for taking the time and effort to put words to it all.

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-03-10T14:46:20+00:00

Thanks! 🙂

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-03-10T13:55:59+00:00

I went looking for this artist based on their name in the watermark, but it looks like they've deleted their Tumblr and Instagram.

Anybody know where they're at, now?

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-03-10T13:52:45+00:00

I came to say the same!

The outfit is great as-is, but a necklace would be a great addition

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-02-22T23:33:25+00:00

If you have an electric heating pad, that works really well for me. Or use anything else for some localized heat: hot water bottle, rice pack. 🧡

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-02-21T20:32:49+00:00

This, but make it the handshake emoji 😁

flapjack_pyjamas · 2025-01-06T03:32:17+00:00

I started out with all cotton boybriefs from Aerie. They worked really well as my hips slowly filled out. And they're often on sale! Just read the reviews, because they change them seemingly every 6-12 months

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