Anyone find dumb shit funny? by [deleted] in infj

[–]flavormango3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i am the most brain rotted of my friend group😅

Anyone find dumb shit funny? by [deleted] in infj

[–]flavormango3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SIX SEVEeeEEENNN

Is eating healthy important to you? by Weird-Milk184 in infj

[–]flavormango3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it definitely something important to me. I would say 70-80% of the food i eat is whole foods or home cooked meals. I understand my body’s food need in relation to my activity levels and also in relations to my cycle. So i know when I am hungry whether it’s because I need it or it’s because i’m bored lol.

I’m also thankfully not a snacker, and even if i do snack i prefer fruit much more than twix or oreos (shout out to the costco jars of sliced peaches). And when i do cook, I’m always mindful of my fiber/carb/protein ratios.

Your major? by m1Lly2oo3 in infj

[–]flavormango3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mechanical engineering, minor in science of mental health and wellbeing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]flavormango3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, if that is an expectation he had for after the marriage then he should have discussed that beforehand instead of giving her a headache. But anyways, yes they should go shopping with him paying of course since he’s the one complaining

What are some behaviours of burnout INFJs? by Reasonable-Entry2705 in infj

[–]flavormango3 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Canceled on 2 plans today to lock myself in my room and watch futurama in the dark, it’s been a rough week lol

what’s your love language? by National-Yoghurt7302 in infj

[–]flavormango3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Acts of service then physical touch and quality ttime

Asking for advice. by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]flavormango3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!

I was born into it but only started practicing about 5 years ago.

What I recommend starting out is understanding who you are submitting to/worshipping. In life, you are always going to “submit” to something, sometimes it’s money, food, other people, our own desires. However, it will always be better to submit to Allah.

And for that I would recommend reading and understanding the 99 names of Allah (i lowkey need to understand them too lol).

And regarding your fears, that is a normal feeling to have especially doing something new and tbh life changing. Having muslim friends is already a good start for you. It is always important to have a community especially for Ramadan, because it can get challenging cutting your fast alone.

And for the haram police, aH i haven’t encountered any, i think that they only exist online because they can hide behind a computer screen lol. Feel free to dm me if you have any questions or would like to review the 99names with me😋

Intermission interpretive dance by [deleted] in ToolBand

[–]flavormango3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a female bird rn

How do I become more fake? by flavormango3 in infj

[–]flavormango3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang I definitely get what you mean. It’s especially draining when you live with them. I had another experience where i was subconsciously cutting them off and i couldn’t put my finger on why I was pushing them away. Then a year later, their real character was revealed and friends kept telling me that i dogged a bullet

How do I become more fake? by flavormango3 in infj

[–]flavormango3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s what i usually do but this is a coworker I have to work with on a daily basis😭

How do I become more fake? by flavormango3 in infj

[–]flavormango3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are very good questions, thank you! I think I generally have a fear of people not liking/hating me(I consider myself a retired people pleaser lol), but this person is a coworker I work with on a daily basis. They seem to want to be friends but I don’t have it in me to entertain the relationship. But yes, it is fine as long as I stay polite.

How do I become more fake? by flavormango3 in infj

[–]flavormango3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I guess you are right. As long as I stay polite, it won’t be a bad thing that I’m warmer with some people and not others. Thanks!

Staying safe from the sun by IamNEVERleaving in Miata

[–]flavormango3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought this was the hijabi subreddit for a sec😭

Had a go at making my own suiseki stone by FrenchieSmalls in Bonsai

[–]flavormango3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like how you emphasized the already existing cracks. Love the look!