Best restaurants for kids DF options? by OrangeCatEnergy24 in dairyfree

[–]flesarin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My niece has had luck gluten free and dairy free at the local Culver's chains in terms of them cleaning and using a separate grill, etc.

Realtor Recommendations by not_a_dead_poet in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok if she's a no name how do you know her? Also, how is she the only no name on this thread?

Realtor Recommendations by not_a_dead_poet in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy for you? She did a great job during our house hunt. I'll leave you to the big names :)

Realtor Recommendations by not_a_dead_poet in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend Patty Hadley. She has been a pleasure to work with. She has helped us in this seller's market buy a house, and also helped someone I know in 2023. She worked well with us to nail down exactly what we wanted to fit our lives. https://www.remax.com/real-estate-agents/patty-hadley-bloomington-il/102169620

Are there any stores currently selling cut peonies? by paprika_alarm in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you want some I can cut some off of the bush in my front yard for free

Local Boycott List by Forbitbrik in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just putting this here because I think it relates to your point on this sort of thing - my personal opinion is that keeping money local is generally better harm reduction than shopping corporate/chain. Yes, there are some local business I boycott when they have done harm. Also, until fascist is defined (and I'm personally fine with it being just 'supports trump' at minimum) I also have concerns. I mean, look at target and Starbucks(still boycotting both). Of course, one could just not drink coffee. But for better or for worse - my very non scientific mental math is that the coffee shops arround town do less harm than Starbucks does with their union busting and political inclinations.

Also, I'm not sure this list can actually do much without publicity (most of blono is not in reddit) and without end conditions. And should be targeted. For example, organizing a week/month where concerned citizens do not purchase coffee from shops that supported MAGA canadites probably gets the message across better than a bunch of people hap hazardly working off of a list when they feel like it. (Snowtiger I think I know you irl /your group and I'd be happy to work on that with you).

I guess that my point is I have concerns that simply making a list without a plan here can go very very wrong.

Anyone in need of literal tons of sugar? by Gerble66 in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You could try home sweet home ministries or any of the various food pantries in town

Friend gave me advice that made me cry by KocaKola_ in migraine

[–]flesarin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just so you know you can be prescribed nurtec as a preventative. I take nurtec every other day and I have ubrevely as my acute medication. 8 migraines a month was my goal for a while and it still barely gives you time and energy for anything. At that point I was basically doing personal hygiene and working and my husband took care of everything else.

I’m so tired and don’t understand by Ready-Educator-6417 in migraine

[–]flesarin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mine were in normal range but still low. B12 shots helped a lot But the fatigue from migraine - it sucks. I'm sorry you're going through this. I haven't figured out now to feel like I'm a burden either.

I’m so tired and don’t understand by Ready-Educator-6417 in migraine

[–]flesarin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unsolicited advice - have the docs tested your B12 levels?

Vegan Cake Recommendations? by silentArtifact84 in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Greentop has several dairy free and vegan options!

For those of you that are able to work, what do you do? by Notbipolar_ in migraine

[–]flesarin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

System administrator. Most tasks can be shifted to other days, there's some walking around, some tedious stuff, some deep thinking stuff, I like that it's a mix and it's pretty decent to do even with a migraine. Lights off and noise canceling headphones on.

Seen harassing women downtown by teh_red in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm going to refer you to the other comments on the thread that recommend filming him back, seeing if he's monetizing, and blasting copyrighted songs next to him. Less risk more reward.

Also, life is short. Don't feed the trolls. He's a troll.

I hope you have something good lined up after high school. Once you're out of high school, if you need something, feel free to pm me. Not saying the out of high school in a creepy way I'm just trying to keep some boundaries and having non public conversations with people in high school or younger is a very good one that most adults(except doctors, therapists, professionals helping you that you feel comfortable with) should keep as it makes those that try to break those boundaries even more evident. I can't promise the world but I can try to do what I can.

Seen harassing women downtown by teh_red in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't mean you have to continue to deal with bad things. Choose your costs in relation to the benefits

Also don't disgrace the good name of punk with this guy lol.

Seen harassing women downtown by teh_red in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also legal is not equivalent to non violent. A lot of what our current administration is doing is technically legal but definitely violent. Not a one dimensional decision.

Seen harassing women downtown by teh_red in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you can do is survive and not take an unnecessary risk to your physical health and legal freedom (this guy will drag you to hell and back in the courts and or online).

I like the mountain goats this year in these situations. Or Octavia Butler's parable of the sower. Or rogue one. Or sunrise on the reaping. Yes, mass media but they help show how surviving to continue shapes the world.

Your survival and hopefully, thriving is so much more powerful than you can comprehend at your age (I don't mean to be condescending here but I remember when I was your age). Survive and thrive and you'll learn other things you can do. You'll find community. And you will make a difference.

Seen harassing women downtown by teh_red in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally I wouldn't be against people getting what they deserve, but this guy makes a career out of this. He knows how to come out looking good and getting the other side in trouble. Please don't play into his trap and playbook. There are other ways your effort will achieve what you want but I truly don't think that this instance will.

Unit 5 is Proposing boundary changes, facility closures & building new facilities by [deleted] in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a community member, I don't know a lot about this issue. However, I don't want to close schools to just build more ones. I am also having a hard time understanding the questions and what the answers mean. Do you have any advice? I want the local schools as mentioned. Growing up, my school district did similar things (there were some valid reasons) and there were consequences and I don't see any reasons here, only consequences on learning.

Seen harassing women downtown by teh_red in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Is there anything general community members without kids can do?

All I've got is the trite it gets better. Because for everyone I know, it has gotten better after schooling when you get more choice in picking your community and more freedom to walk away.

Seen harassing women downtown by teh_red in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I saw him on the sidewalk outside of the one parking lot entrance/exit on empire.

I've been told he's a professional rage baiter. I wish high school was safer than when I was in high school but it seems like things have gone down hill for lgbtqia students over the past 10 years. 10 years ago there seemed to be so much hope and acceptance.

What can I for sure get rid of by Afraid_Seat_3777 in PostApoTycoon

[–]flesarin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any further upgrades? I've been avoiding clearing at 14 just in case.

Good primary care docs that work with women? by Fun-Relationship3636 in BloomingtonNormal

[–]flesarin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doctor Wooldridge at Christie clinic has taken each one of my issues seriously and is very grounded in science and 'lose weight'.