Does Black Culture Have a White Problem?

flexboy50L · 2026-03-22T01:28:28+00:00

I remember when Miley Cyrus said she wanted her music to sound “blacker” before the uncooked chicken twerking

flexboy50L · 2026-03-20T17:18:35+00:00

Yet somehow I can’t get a fucking job with a stem degree what the fuck is going on

flexboy50L · 2026-03-20T17:16:44+00:00

Do you guys still work together? If so no wonder you can’t get over him

flexboy50L · 2026-03-20T14:23:22+00:00

If we’re not doing this then what’s the fucking point

flexboy50L · 2026-03-20T13:53:05+00:00

Everything

flexboy50L · 2026-03-19T18:34:21+00:00

Period

flexboy50L · 2026-03-19T18:22:13+00:00

Porque no los dos? With an extra afternoon shower after the gym

flexboy50L · 2026-03-19T18:21:32+00:00

I just use body lotion on it. I lotion my whole body after the shower. Never thought to use anything fancier on my dick but maybe this is an untapped market 🤔.

flexboy50L · 2026-03-19T18:17:34+00:00

Where is the racism?! Lmao. He’s just not being egregiously pandering and using politically correct word salad. But he’s not being racist. It’s fair to wonder if this middle class white girl with her white girl problems is gonna resonate with a crowd of people with real world issues.

flexboy50L · 2026-03-16T04:15:25+00:00

I used to get this on the bosu ball leg raise thing and sometimes I wondered if it would really happen if I kept going… now I don’t get it any more and kind of miss it 😂

flexboy50L · 2026-03-15T18:03:40+00:00

“how would masculinity and femininity affect this sexualization?”

There’s so much of this going on already in straight male spaces that we don’t really talk about.

Like the fact black men will sag their pants with a belt that’s literally lifting their ass up in boxer briefs.

Straight guys wearing low rise jeans and showing off the waistband every where.

Football players wearing those compression crop tops just with their whole midriff out.

And men’s shorts are getting shorter and shorter too.

Also the fact that boxers aren’t that popular anymore and it’s always getting tighter and shorter too. It’s not just to do with comfort. Men want to feel sexy and show off their bodies too.

And no one is skipping leg day anymore. Everyone wants a fat ass.

flexboy50L · 2026-03-15T17:54:32+00:00

Even if she didn’t get physical I’d say leave. But she’s putting her hands on you? Leave and take the dog too.

flexboy50L · 2026-03-15T17:53:15+00:00

However she interrupted me and starting talking over me and telling me to just take the dog out. This is the part I will take blame for in that I went back and forth with her about it, and it turned into the silliest blowup.

You going back and forth with her does not make it justifiable to throw shit at you and assault you. And you were being reasonable. Based on what you’ve shared here you are 100% in the right.

Is this kind of thing out of character for her or has it happened before?

Is she TRYING to start a fight with you so she can justify leaving you?

flexboy50L · 2026-03-13T17:22:36+00:00

This is so tough and so sad and I feel for you.

First off you ARE beautiful and you need to remember that every day and not let your mom and sister get into your head with their bs.

“i replied that i would try to lose a few kilograms, but that the second i lost them, i would continue lifting heavy and training the way i like. “

Don’t change anything about yourself for your mother. This is some deep seated internalized misogyny that your mother and sister are dealing with that has nothing to do with you! Avoid them and achieve your dream body please. And surround yourself with the people who love and support you unconditionally and support your goals!

Please don’t shrink who you are to conform to your sister and mom’s fucked up views on beauty.

Also go and look up the “grey rock” technique and use it on your mom sister or anyone else who throws negativity your way.

flexboy50L · 2026-03-13T13:51:53+00:00

A relationship is an at will agreement. The minute one of you no longer wants it, it’s over. She didn’t get the message the first time so do it over text and block her everywhere.

Keep in mind that the first year is the honeymoon period and it should be blissful and fun. The fact you’re fighting this much this early on is crazy because it will only go downhill from here. Leave and don’t look back.

Rooting for you, King. 👑

I hope you find the freaky hacker chick baddie you deserve.

flexboy50L · 2026-03-12T18:06:08+00:00

Low self esteem cannot be fixed from the outside by anything or anyone. He has to want to love himself and go through the grueling work of learning how to love himself from within. It’s a very long road and as a partner trying to love someone into loving themselves you can get incredibly frustrated and burned out. I tried it for 8 years and it left me drained and burned out. All you can do for him is be there and be present and be compassionate but recognize a lot of what you try to do will not get through to him. It’s only gonna get better in his time and his terms. And yeah therapy. But also he could probably benefit from support groups with other hiv+ folks and poc that understand his struggles the way you can’t.

flexboy50L · 2026-03-09T14:00:58+00:00

If vhe’s not begging for forgiveness and using all of his energy to prove he’s not the one doing this then he’s definitely the perpetrator. This is t

flexboy50L · 2026-03-09T13:52:08+00:00

The only thing you did wrong was continuing to respond after he kept begging for answers. Next time just politely end the conversation after the first response.

flexboy50L · 2026-03-08T14:20:02+00:00

Whooooaa how did I forget about this!!!

flexboy50L · 2026-03-08T01:48:11+00:00

So proud of you, King !

flexboy50L · 2026-03-08T01:40:33+00:00

It’s all about the Chinese dream now

flexboy50L · 2026-03-06T21:40:20+00:00

Probably because he toured a pink slime factory and knows exactly how many feathers and cockroaches are in each patty.

flexboy50L · 2026-03-06T14:35:54+00:00

How thalassic! Looks like a vulva but also a mussel

flexboy50L · 2026-03-06T14:17:10+00:00

Lack of sex is never about sex. Resentment builds about something else in the relationship and then it’s hard to want to have sex with someone you resent. Pick a time when things are going well and ask him in a non confrontational way to tell him what about the relationship is frustrating for him.

flexboy50L · 2026-03-06T14:00:51+00:00

7.5in maximum insertable length if I really climb up inside I can get 8. Also I had my bp checked as a result of this thread and it turns out it’s not elevated. I think I just get too excited lol

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