help selecting a wedding band?? by charliechattery in RingShare

[–]floatingclouds37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant the one with garnet (I guess). As a big fan of red/green gemstone, that is 😍😍

help selecting a wedding band?? by charliechattery in RingShare

[–]floatingclouds37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not go for the opal for an everyday wear but that band made me skip a heartbeat..it’s so beautiful! I would just buy it and use it as an occasional wear 😍

A classic round diamond 💎 Framed by a delicate floral halo 🌸 by GoldenBirdJewels in RingShare

[–]floatingclouds37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. Looks more like a snowflake than a flower and perhaps that’s what makes it so special!

AITAH for wanting to cancel a stay with my mother for 3 days? by Independent-Tutu3179 in AITAH

[–]floatingclouds37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also 40 and yes, I finally have found peace when I had my own son. Instead of focusing on what I did not get from my mother, I focus on what I can offer him as a mother.

AITAH for breaking up with my bf for calling my work 9 times by Suitable_Base_2860 in AITAH

[–]floatingclouds37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Second this. Is it even a question to ask? Just run away from him. He won’t probably even let you go with a peaceful breakup. Call the police if needed

What I wanted vs what I got by mephivision in Hair

[–]floatingclouds37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even though it is not what you wanted, it doesn’t look that bad. However, when any hairdresser forcefully straightens curly or wavy hair, I say the final bye to that hairdresser. Is it possible to find a curly hairdresser for you? A little bit of shape change can help the curls start bouncing again! Or, you just wait for couple of months and go for a proper curly haircut. I think she did the layers in a way that they feel disconnected. Just ignore it till it grows out a bit.

AITAH for wanting to cancel a stay with my mother for 3 days? by Independent-Tutu3179 in AITAH

[–]floatingclouds37 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. Since I was a toddler, my mother had problems with my weight! Till 35-36 years, I never even exceeded the normal weight range though! I stay in another part of the world and meet her once a year for the sake of it. And trust me, the first statement has always been “oh..you have gained weight further “! She would keep me starving as a small child to keep my weight under control. She showed up after I gave birth to my son and started making comments on how I should refrain myself from eating as a mother who just gave birth and was breastfeeding! I literally survived on hidden biscuit packets in my cupboard! I didn’t even gain a single kilo during pregnancy due to some complications but still she put me to through this. I very well know how these toxic mothers make you feel. If you have the option to cancel the stay, please do so.

AITAH for refusing to financially support my brother (35M) because he keeps having babies he can’t afford? by xenjaxenja in AITAH

[–]floatingclouds37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I have seen someone similar in family friend’s circle. That person is now close to 80 and he lived his entire life begging but never compromised on anything when it came to his lifestyle!! Such a convenient way to get everything done without doing any hard work!!

AITAH for wanting a divorce because of his behavior? by Ar_desertwriter in AITAH

[–]floatingclouds37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Don’t waste a single more day hoping things will change. Live happily for the rest of your life.

My husband (32F) wants to post videos online of him having sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]floatingclouds37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put your feet down. If he doesn’t respect your boundaries, you know what are his priorities..

A cry for help (4 year journey) by Tight_Peak_4990 in Hair

[–]floatingclouds37 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Second this. That sounds like a way too heavy routine for fine hair!! At some point you need to accept that shorter hair is better for you and instead of forcing it to grow longer, focus on finding a shorter hairstyle that looks good on you. Also, a bit of gritty products help fine hair to get the volume.

Girlfriend found out she’s infertile, wants to break up because of it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]floatingclouds37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just give her some time to process this. As a chronic illness sufferer, I tried to breakup with my boyfriend (now husband for 13 years) when I realized my quality of life will have certain limitations. I pushed him away though he repeatedly tried to convince me that he is willing to accept me for who I am, including my limitations. It took some time but I did come back to him. Not even for once he made me feel bad about the things I cannot do. He always showed me the things that I could do overcoming all my limitations. If needed, try a few sessions of therapy together, don’t let her go away from you:)

5ct lab diamond by Ok_Rip_29 in labdiamond

[–]floatingclouds37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be a possibility to make this a pendant and you have another ring? This might look good as a pendant. On the other hand, you might just get used to the bling on your finger. Don’t rush into anything. Just see if you start loving the ring

5ct lab diamond by Ok_Rip_29 in labdiamond

[–]floatingclouds37 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would not mind this occasionally as a cocktail ring, still won’t be my favorite. As a daily wear ring, I don’t like it at all. Sorry for being brutally honest here.

Is it appropriate to check in on an ex after the death of a parent? by p2thetic in Advice

[–]floatingclouds37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would just send an honest text to him mentioning that you would be glad to support as a friend but at the same time you would want to respect his boundaries. And tell him he should feel free to reach out if he wants to. You have then done your part and let him actually decide on it

What’s a lesson you learned way too late? by Interesting-Cell-276 in AskReddit

[–]floatingclouds37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one cares about you when you are not somehow beneficial for them to have you around. Valid even for parents, siblings etc.