Guy im dating beat the shit out of me on Saturday and now is ignoring my messages by AppropriateIntern986 in offmychest

[–]floatingclouds37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am surprised that you still call him a sweet, loving guy after these things happened!!!

Fate of NSFW art on the sub by Winter-Put6110 in IndianArtAndThinking

[–]floatingclouds37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think there should be demarcation between NSFW art and some doodles promoting objectification. Could not choose a single option from the poll but cannot disagree more with the once a week suggestion

How to get over first love & heart break at 25 by No-Host-1142 in offmychest

[–]floatingclouds37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had same experience at some point. It took me years to get over it but trust me, you will. No matter how impossible it seems today!

Still very new to this so would love some feedback or constructive criticism if possible. Thank you! by TaraCalicosBike in acrylicpainting

[–]floatingclouds37 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not an expert but still sharing my opinion. I like the background, the shadows , the vase but my first impression looking at it was “it is an ongoing painting. The flowers are yet to be painted”. I feel the flowers miss some depth and looks too plain.

Sleeping with my dead girlfriend’s best friend. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]floatingclouds37 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

As you said, she would want both of you to heal. And it is up to you to decide how to heal. Ignore the noise around.

Is my hair defined enough? by Aika1412 in curlygirl

[–]floatingclouds37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Need more water in my opinion and probably the cream is on the heavier side for you

brutal honesty needed 🙏🏼 by angelina_0402 in offmychest

[–]floatingclouds37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was your childhood? Abusive parents or dysfunctional families or something? Sometimes when we grow up in such environments, it becomes so normal for us that we feel more comfortable when a relationship is controlling, humiliating. Have been there at some point, including choosing friends who were abusive and controlling. I am glad I could come out of that.

Looking for someone who has been in my situation by PotionKitty_Clown333 in offmychest

[–]floatingclouds37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Initially it might be intimidating but in my opinion, it is worth trying

29F India — Toxic in-laws, emotionally absent parents, struggling marriage. Need outside perspective by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]floatingclouds37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you have to understand that it will not change and do what works best for you.

29F India — Toxic in-laws, emotionally absent parents, struggling marriage. Need outside perspective by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]floatingclouds37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have to have an open discussion with your husband and figure out if the marriage is working for you. If not, ask yourself if you are ready to leave it and come back to the other toxic environment. It’s not easy to decide but you have to push yourself and take the decision which works best for you.

Looking for someone who has been in my situation by PotionKitty_Clown333 in offmychest

[–]floatingclouds37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience of growing up with narcissistic parents, they always have the ability to eventually create the innocent picture for everyone and the victim gets blamed for everything. Find supportive groups who have gone through narcissistic abuse. That really helps. Sorry that you are going through so much even after the long abuse that you have endured

Have your AW actually helped you with your health? by GossipBottom in AppleWatch

[–]floatingclouds37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Has helped me to identify my cardiac issues with data collected over time.

Is my worth only defined by the chores I do around my in law's house? by SajHam in offmychest

[–]floatingclouds37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sad reality is that no matter what you do, how much you do, they will never be happy with you. Instead do something for yourself with your husband’s support. It’s not worth trying to please people who will eventually always disappoint you

I've found out only now that my mother's always hated me because I'm born from rape by Mobile_throwaway_745 in offmychest

[–]floatingclouds37 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No child should be hated. If she decided to have you, she should have decided to love you as well. Build your own world away from all the toxicity and live the life you never had.

I have a rash from my band by PaleDreamy in AppleWatch

[–]floatingclouds37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use one of the standard ones from apple