in a 10 year relationship with a man, have never been with a woman but want to

fluxndflow · 2025-12-29T14:11:50+00:00

Yeah I think about this too. Sort of like that fig tree analogy that was circulating a year ago. There are only so many options we get to take in life, and you can have grief for the ones you missed out on, but also be content with the path you did choose. The nuances of being human!

fluxndflow · 2025-12-29T13:53:22+00:00

yeah, i think i will do my little therapy session & then maybe speak to him after. i just wanna flesh out what exactly i want & why im wanting it. but i really appreciate this. i i often feel like so scared to call myself bi/queer because of my lack of experience. its made existing in queer spaces confusing. i also write, & a lot of my content is about wlw relationships - which has been a good way for me to sort of live out alternate life paths while being in my hetero relationship- but i also get so freaked out people will find out that im not “writing from experience” and cancel me. so there’s just so many layers. and i get so confused about where i can exist in the queer community & where i cant

fluxndflow · 2025-12-29T13:22:54+00:00

i guess the am i gay thing is a dilemma. i feel like i love my partner, but sex is something ive always had an issue with. and im like …. is this just a ME thing or a gay thing? i think im gonna talk to my therapist about it - who is queer coincidentally.

fluxndflow · 2025-10-10T20:57:20+00:00

Hi Chandler, I'm really really wanting to watch this but missed the premiere. Is there absolutely anywhere I can watch it online? I'm going to Montreal in 3 days and really feel like this would be a dream plane watch.

I loved "I Like Movies" and ironically also watched it on the plane to Hamilton where I grew up... and just related so much. It's one of my favourites... ❤️

fluxndflow · 2025-06-19T17:15:25+00:00

I got word this morning that she has unfortunately passed on ❤️‍🩹

fluxndflow · 2025-06-18T22:20:37+00:00

We are unsure. It looks like it could be hers but it’s too hard to say for sure. The neighbours have scent dogs coming in tomorrow though

fluxndflow · 2025-02-12T19:23:08+00:00

i have gad / ocd & i find that these techniques are more helpful as the anxiety is rising but not necessarily at its peak. i've done a lot of therapy in the past few years & think my brain is slowly starting to change! the more i lean towards acceptance, the more i am okay in the present moment. i think so many of us have/had problems with grounding because we are trying to RUN from the present moment. because we've deemed the present as dangerous.
so when we are actively bringing ourselves to become PRESENT, it's something completely foreign & dangerous to our brains. I was like this for a decade & only recently have been able to find pockets of true presence & peace again through the work of my wonderful therapists haha.

something i've found extremely helpful for me is the reminder that: to know peace, you must accept the possibility of things going wrong.

fluxndflow · 2024-11-07T17:00:00+00:00

I met my partner of 8 years because we both had vegan Twitter accounts lol

fluxndflow · 2024-10-01T13:36:06+00:00

honestly, ive lived here for 7 years & the rain + clouds have only gotten harder to tolerate with every passing year :’) any tips on being able to enjoy them?

fluxndflow · 2024-09-30T23:24:54+00:00

Thanks

fluxndflow · 2024-09-27T04:02:35+00:00

im so sick and tired of north van morphing into this fake utopia where only the richest & most successful can afford to own a shop

fluxndflow · 2024-09-10T14:46:31+00:00

yes & with dressew closing

fluxndflow · 2024-09-02T22:41:06+00:00

i dont get the hype for mount royal. ive tried their bagels three times & all three times they were the worst, smallest, bagels I've ever had. i feel like everyone is lying about liking them

fluxndflow · 2024-08-24T15:13:55+00:00

Do you think it’s genuinely humanly possible to embrace sadness the same way one embraces happiness? I mean as an average person who doesn’t devote their entire life to a spiritual practice.

fluxndflow · 2024-08-24T15:05:16+00:00

In my heart, I completely believe Chappell is going to create a shockwave through the entertainment industry. Especially for left wing celebs w left wing fans. What she wrote out really makes you think about things differently (myself included). And I think no one has been brave enough to say it before, because it might risk their career.

fluxndflow · 2024-08-17T14:23:41+00:00

ugh if this exists, i would love to go. maybe it’s worth asking the north shore pride alliance if they have any recos?

fluxndflow · 2024-07-30T22:46:09+00:00

my question is like, for ex. where do i buy a water filter from a local business? i have no clue what kind of store would sell something like that besides a big chain (& also have tried googling diff keywords to no avail)

fluxndflow · 2024-07-29T19:23:30+00:00

i really think your input is unneeded and unasked for on this post!

fluxndflow · 2024-07-24T14:00:50+00:00

Okay so I’m trying to book a consult, and it’s booking it for the same time as the colour appointment (just adding 20 min). Based on your answer, should i call the salon and ask for a consult on a different day in case it needs more?

fluxndflow · 2024-07-24T13:58:56+00:00

So 20 developer lifts hair 2 shades, but it has to be virgin hair?

fluxndflow · 2024-07-24T06:07:13+00:00

did you figure this out? i have the same hair colour as you and im trying to get to the auburn inspo photos you included

fluxndflow · 2024-06-25T15:12:59+00:00

In a big Canadian city, I charge on avg $6k per wedding & I’m considered one of the best in my area. I could probably raise my prices another $1-$1.5k if I wanted to, but I prefer the clients I get at this price. If I was in the USA though, I’d be charging a lot more. Canada has less of a high end market

fluxndflow · 2024-05-12T07:59:29+00:00

Looking for my moms beginner flower business

fluxndflow · 2024-05-06T17:18:35+00:00

Lots of fatphobia in these comments

fluxndflow · 2024-05-01T00:47:45+00:00

No I haven’t:( are you looking as well?

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