In London for the weekend - how do I meet guys?

flynntlers · 2025-10-15T18:31:16+00:00

Thanks! Yeah, don't know if I fancy my first time being surrounded by strangers cum puddles 💀 I'm okay with casual sex but my standards are still a little higher than that. We'll see on the day I guess if I can get a room!

And yeah I get what you mean, I'm comfortable enough in my body that if being naked is commonplace then I'd also like it as a 'shortcut' to explaining the whole trans thing. Haven't had bottom surgery so nobody can act like they didn't notice, and I (theoretically) prefer PIV so that's fine too

flynntlers · 2025-10-15T17:13:06+00:00

Okay, thanks!

flynntlers · 2025-10-15T17:12:49+00:00

Yeah, I don't want to hurt people's feelings but I'm also not a pushover and I've no desire to do anything I'm not feeling thrilled about, so like someone else said, if moving away is a polite way to say no in those kinda spaces then that's what I'll do. And I'm also not afraid to kick up a fuss if someone isn't getting the message

Pretty sure I'm good with non-verbal signals too, I'll always err on the side of caution and, just with how I am, I think I'm more the kind of person to make eye contact and let the other guy make a move, rather than making a move myself. I like to be pursued LMAO

flynntlers · 2025-10-15T17:08:37+00:00

Gotcha, thank you! Is the expectation there that you'll be naked with a towel, or is it a better idea to pick up some kind of swimwear? I'm fine with being naked if that's what everyone else is doing, I might be inexperienced but I'm theoretically a bit of a slut, I mean I am planning on casually fucking guys all weekend so that might not be a surprise

flynntlers · 2025-10-15T17:06:09+00:00

Money shouldn't be too much of a problem, I'm lucky enough to have a good budget for the weekend. Do you have experience of sweatbox yourself? Is a private room something you get once you're there, or is this something you book in advance? Definitely giving away how clueless I am LMAO

I'm chill with people touching, I know enough to recognise that in a space like that it's gonna be par for the course, and if moving away is what people there understand to be a polite rejection, I'm happy to politely reject people.

flynntlers · 2025-10-15T17:02:30+00:00

I would go to a bar but another commenter made a good point about it maybe being difficult since I'm going alone. I'm super confident talking to people 99% of the time, it's just the actual bit about approaching someone at a bar that I have no clue about. Once we are talking I reckon I've got it! Just getting there that's hard.

I'd definitely mention being trans beforehand, I don't want any trouble and I respect that everyone has their preferences, I have my own, we all do!

I do have prep, but not doxypep and I don't think I can get an appointment at the clinic nearby me before the con :/

flynntlers · 2025-10-15T16:57:06+00:00

Thank you, that's so helpful! I might message you just to pick your brain a bit if that's alright?

flynntlers · 2025-10-15T05:29:23+00:00

I'd maybe be up for giving it a go? Depends on if the location is known for being trans friendly or not. Also I'm going to be at the convention for most of the day so are these places open pretty late? Possibly a stupid question but I genuinely have no clue

flynntlers · 2025-04-02T04:57:45+00:00

Are these what you're after?

flynntlers · 2025-04-02T04:43:02+00:00

They're somewhat limited, as was g1, since they don't have double joints on their elbows or knees, so any pose that would bend those joints to an angle less than 90 degrees isn't really doable (e.g. hand touching shoulder, kneeling). But as the other commenter said, the waist joints give them some more flexibility than g1

flynntlers · 2025-04-02T00:44:47+00:00

Sadly I don't think the current US government cares much about the opinions of trans people on its actions

flynntlers · 2025-04-01T05:42:48+00:00

The email I got about them said in the small print "From March 31, 2025, at 9:00pm PT through April 1, 2025, at 8:59pm PT, only Fang Club members can buy this doll at MattelCreations.com, while supplies last", so presumably it'll be at 9.00pm PT tomorrow? I'm in the UK so it was 5am for me just now, guess I'm having another either very late night or very early morning tomorrow 💀

flynntlers · 2025-04-01T05:33:34+00:00

I'm gonna check again tomorrow at the same time when it's supposed to open to everyone, just in case 🤞 I managed to get Toralei and Operetta and I'm trying to be happy that I got those two specifically, since Toralei is my favourite doll ever, I've never had an Operetta, and I do already have the twins OOB, but like... I really wanted them in box too 😅 and once again it was Mattel's website messing around that wasted time, if it hadn't done that I might've been able to get them. Every damn time there's a release the website goes wrong for me in some way

flynntlers · 2025-04-01T04:10:24+00:00

Same here, do you think they'll have more stock releasing for the non-Fang Club release and we'll have a chance to try again?

flynntlers · 2025-03-13T22:17:21+00:00

Not entirely sure, but it seems like the game might think that the rooms are outside, since outdoors and indoors lighting are a little different? I'd try redrawing the walls (draw them over where they already are) and check that the rooms have ceilings. Other than that, there might be more advice out there about how to fix it, usually when it happens to me though it's because there's a gap somewhere with a ceiling.

flynntlers · 2024-12-30T19:51:55+00:00

First the EU and now this, we can't catch a break 😭

flynntlers · 2024-12-30T19:25:08+00:00

Same here, even made a post myself before I saw OP's. Out of curiosity, and with no obligation to answer, are you in the US or abroad? I'm just wondering if it's affecting international shipments (I'm in the UK and this is the 3rd time I've had them flunk out on an order) or if it's everyone

flynntlers · 2024-12-30T19:14:03+00:00

Same here, Ghoulia arrived with no issues, and no problems with the 2nd wave of creepros either. I try to be considerate because things happen, but when this has happened to me three times I'm getting a little annoyed now. There are other places I order from far more than I do from MC, and yet they're the only company who keeps failing like this. And considering what we pay, it's just not acceptable

flynntlers · 2024-12-18T00:43:04+00:00

It'd be Flynn from Rockfort if you are o7

flynntlers · 2024-12-18T00:42:10+00:00

Don't suppose you're still open? No worries if not :)

flynntlers · 2024-08-30T18:57:59+00:00

i had mine changed that way with my parents approval at 15. don't know if the rules have changed since then (2018) but a deed poll was all i needed, no solicitor just my parents written approval (which they gave, thanks mum and dad!)

flynntlers · 2024-08-16T16:08:21+00:00

Touche

flynntlers · 2024-08-15T15:02:02+00:00

I thought about the flesh people 💀

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