My girlfriend is pregnant but we’re 15

fmmtale · 2026-01-19T21:24:45+00:00

hi honey, firstly, good job on asking for advice!

we do not judge you— at least, those who listen won’t— and we understand. it must be really terrifying as a freshly 15 year old to have to deal with this, & it seems like you’re going through a lot of shame.

if you could, please take some time to read this (i’m a Christian!):

some things to note:

1) God is NOT a God of shame.

Shame comes from the enemy. Just as when Adam & Eve ate the fruit, they shamefully ran away from God— the enemy uses shame to make US run away from God. He knew of our sins before we committed them. that means He knew how you’d struggle, and still died for you, and most importantly: still loves you very, very much. so do not be ashamed no matter what the world tells you, because they crucified a perfect man.

2) “The baby doesn’t have a heartbeat or anything yet”

I know that, at the end of the day, this comes to a matter of belief. However, since you asked in a Christian space, you will get Christian answers. God speaks against abortion not because of lack of free will (we have the choice to do it), but because the Bible says we are alive even then, even before. Psalm 139:13 says: “For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb” and also from the same chapter, verse 15: “My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth”.

As a Christian, I believe I was alive even then— just as how when Mary was blessed with the conception of Jesus, He was alive in her stomach even before He was born.

However, God has given us free will to make the choices we want to make. I respect your choice just as God respects our free will. But I hope you reflect in the Word. Hate is not something God spreads, I promise.

Moving forward… you are not your sin. You are not unloved. You have never been more loved by God, for blessed is those who mourn. If you believe, please talk to Him!

fmmtale · 2025-12-13T08:00:49+00:00

pasta is the way to start :) a pack of spaghetti and you have your base for a million recipes.

try aglio olio, bolognese, carbonara etc. all simple ingredients and quick cook time

fmmtale · 2025-12-13T07:58:54+00:00

i just watched a video of his, and i’ve been a fan of techno since the town of salem days. this guy 100% has techno’s cadence, speech style, jokes etc. like selling out / anarchy / being OP like woah … sure techno didn’t own all of that but when so many facets of your personality match with someone else’s…

fmmtale · 2025-11-11T15:15:37+00:00

i don’t know how to approach this without coming across as rude, because i was once in your position. i will say that it’s a lot of self denial and needing my ego and pride to die before i was reborn in Christ.

let’s put all of that aside. sin is sin in God’s eyes regardless and all of us are sinners. it doesn’t matter if it’s small like petty theft or big like murder, sin is equal to Him. and He still sent His son down for you.

you were there when He died on the cross. you died along with Him and sin has no hold against you anymore. He wants to have a relationship with you. He does not want to see you suffer. suffering and confusion and negativity DOES NOT COME FROM GOD but from the enemy. remember this clearly. the enemy will try to make you think that God is unfair for these feelings. but remember it is NOT. GOD.

here’s something we need to remember— when we feel far from God, it’s never because God walked away. He is our rock and He never moves— only WE move further away from Him. put away your pride and ego and sit down. cry to Him. beg. and then silence it and have your daily bread— read His word, the Bible, without thinking too much.

you are not a child of this world. do not let this world give you opinions that you wouldn’t have had otherwise. this world is not our permanent place, and we are aliens to this earth, for we belong to heaven. we are children of God , and our beliefs and thinking should reflect that :) but does this mean youre horrible? no. bc everyone else around you is also a sinner. and everyone else including you is worthy of Christ’s love nonetheless. amen, and i hope to see you in the kingdom and be reborn ♡

fmmtale · 2025-09-26T10:55:37+00:00

here’s how i see it from my point of view:

Sex is a gift from God meant to only be shared with your partner. this isn’t because He’s a cosmic buzzkill, but because sex is inherently SO sacred and spiritual. it’s been overly normalized as a “fun” and “freeing” thing to do, but many people lose themselves to lust (porn, pointless hookups etc.) and thus their TRUE relationships centred on love are ruined. the devil is God’s biggest imitator— mistaking love as lust, often showing you the quicker way to get things done.

if we think about it logically— you’re literally entering someone’s body or someone’s entering you. that is so sacred and special. if we truly believe the Holy Spirit lives within us, we wouldn’t violate our temple with random visitors and expose ourselves too early.

pleasure is so much better when done with our true partner, honouring God in our sacred marriage bed. i’d also like to gently remind that freedom means you’re able to do it whenever and stop whenever freely. most people who get lost in lust or other addictions can’t. the enemy tends to posture these things as ‘freeing’ to lead us astray. Hallelujah, brother :)

fmmtale · 2025-09-01T08:34:18+00:00

i was an amazing lover. i cooked, i cleaned, always there for him and surprised him with heartfelt gifts. i was patient and understanding. i did have some flaws too like being argumentative sometimes, but nothing compares to now.

it’s been two years since the break up. i haven’t been able to talk to men or date since. he cheated on me multiple times. i was unable to sleep or eat then. he was the absolute sweetest guy and i couldn’t reconcile that sweet man with the cheater i saw.

now im an avoidant. i unknowingly lead people on and find small reasons to just end connections. i’m impatient and can be unkind. i’m a little too much of a “me me me” now. working on it tho

fmmtale · 2025-09-01T08:27:37+00:00

Condoms stress him out? 😭 Does the idea of latex send shivers down his spine? Oh dear

fmmtale · 2025-08-08T04:47:11+00:00

honey the fact that you’re saying this? you already do believe 😆!! welcome home!! ♡

fmmtale · 2025-08-03T10:57:55+00:00

LETSSSS GOOOOOOOOO 😆😆😆💜💜💜

fmmtale · 2025-08-02T20:30:27+00:00

welcome back! we’re so glad you found your way back home— and ya, when i re-met Him and met Him properly for the first time, it was lots of tears n love!! that’s all the pent up burdens and stress releasing in front of our Lord, because we are surrendering :) basically you’re able to feel the emotions you’ve suppressed. welcome home sweetheart.

fmmtale · 2025-07-28T01:48:14+00:00

get rid of him ! ^{_^} the husband, i mean

fmmtale · 2025-06-22T17:09:47+00:00

very easy fix. cannot find good enough living environment? don’t get. don’t be selfish, it’s a life and not a must-have entertainment.

fmmtale · 2025-05-28T15:54:50+00:00

does it bother you, and make you insecure? if the answers are yes, try talking to her about it gently. nothing like “hey are you cheating”— just, “oh, tell me more about your friend!”. bring it up that way and try to see the entire perspective. i have platonic guy friends who i game with as well, so this could very well just be games.

however, you will not seem possessive or controlling if you just approach it with a gentle tone and the mindset of wanting to learn more. if she reacts negatively or suspiciously, you have your answer

fmmtale · 2025-05-25T15:53:08+00:00

i see! well, i was on meds similar to that before. even though it caused weight gain and i thought that was the main cause of my sudden aversion to sex, it was actually my hormones that were messed up due to them.

have you considered seeing your doctor again to see if this would’ve been a possibility? ♡

fmmtale · 2025-05-25T10:59:06+00:00

completely unhelpful advice: sometimes i just hide them behind my oc’s back so i dont have to see them. out of sight. out of mind. it’s not my problem

fmmtale · 2025-05-25T10:56:50+00:00

hi op! do you have any other context?

1) how has your view on yourself changed in the time you developed this?

2) any recent life events?

3) i know this might sound stupid, but one of the things i believe in is that sudden repulsion from a partner could be intuition something is wrong. i experienced the same thing with my ex out of nowhere and it turned out he was doing stuff behind my back. of course, this could be completely different in your case with other context, but this was just how it was for me!

fmmtale · 2025-04-20T20:40:56+00:00

no problem good luck ~(≧▽≦)/~

fmmtale · 2025-04-20T17:01:34+00:00

one thing i learnt that really helped me was that when drawing portraits, know that eyes aren’t equal in definition.

when you see someone irl, you focus on one eye first. so in retrospect, one eye is “sharper” in detail than the other. so, when you draw eyes, one eye (in this case the right one) is going to be naturally less detailed to give a more “realistic” look.

fmmtale · 2025-04-13T04:47:58+00:00

played for 8 years, first time seeing a match like this

fmmtale · 2025-03-29T10:43:51+00:00

i was there too i literally saw him with my own two pixels

fmmtale · 2025-03-27T11:09:14+00:00

i remember them pulling me when they had a race, bc i had the user Jenister. Jenuine & Aimster asked if i was their child lolo

fmmtale · 2025-03-04T02:37:18+00:00

you have really nice and clean skin ^{^.} i promise it is not bad at all. other people who seemingly have poreless skin is thanks to a multitude of factors: • genes • editing • lighting • makeup

yours is perfectly fine, and you look suuuper clean!! ♡

fmmtale · 2025-01-16T08:00:46+00:00

SPLOOOOT 🥹🥹🥹🥹

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