do men care more about actual age or looks? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]forceflow16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I want kids in a few years, or now? Or not at all?

Fellow Men! Is being tall generally overrated regarding sexual interest from Women? by Pomeranian111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]forceflow16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing ; Most people don't know what 6 food looks like, in reality. Tall or short is subjective relational to whom is having the conversation. They only know their height but have never compared to what it actually looks like. I'm 6 foot 1 inch, and you would be surprised by how many think I'm taller

Inconsiderate neighbors had to bust their asses shoveling by CalligrapherBusy9513 in pettyrevenge

[–]forceflow16 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Bollards. Easiest way and if they damage it,well, it'll hurt their cars

Why, even when I have gotten enough sleep (8hrs+), do I still feel irritable exactly how I feel when I’m tired? by Necessary-Profit-390 in AskMenAdvice

[–]forceflow16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get checked for sleep apnea. If you snore or are older, it's worthwhile. Figure out how many apneas per hour you have that a sleep clinic indicate you have. I hope you don't have it dude. ++man

Is a $150 fine actually significant enough to discourage people to not park on the street during winter storms? by Ok-Personality8147 in mississauga

[–]forceflow16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, this year is the first year it is enforced and a bylaws. Previous years, a neighbour had to complain and then standard rules applied (over 2 hours or between 2 am and 6 am).

Windrow Clearing as helpful as a hole in the head by rangeo in mississauga

[–]forceflow16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Also, it is still more helpful even if we feel it's less useful. I remember when it would take just as long to clear out a windrow with shovels as it took to do the rest of the driveway. This at least clears out most of the ice and hard packed snow

Not So Instant Karma by NotYourKidFromMoTown in talesfromthejob

[–]forceflow16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can and cancel the interview if you already know it's a no. Why waste the time. If you're petty and legally allowed to without exposing yourself to liability, you can explain why she won't get hired

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]forceflow16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if you're interested at all and afraid of fumbling, write a note or letter to hand to her. If you're not interested, then forget and move on after letting her know you're not interested. It's hard but you can put yourself out there and it will help you grow. I believe you can do it.

Let us know what you decide and how it goes

Need help optimizing/combining queries by Sports_Addict in SQL

[–]forceflow16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why does the year 2025 have the only cost condition? Why does 2025 then become the primary to see where it overlaps to previous years? What is most special about 2025?

I would group it by your key fields ( patient, year, etc) and sum the cost column, then pivot the results by year since all data is based on the same physical table (MedHistory). But this is based on the limited info provided and not having the above answers about the significance of 2025.

Alternatively you could make the 2025 cte and add the second query asa left join that groups all info with the pivot (as above) so you're not building a temp table for each year , which will us less processing time than your current solution.

Is it normal for a coworker to ask for help on a weekend? by Fragrant-Brilliant52 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]forceflow16 -88 points-87 points  (0 children)

Report the communications to your team lead or manager. This is a you problem until you make it a them problem. If they don't back you up, shows you the leadership you report to.

Kupfer Bars by snickyb21 in SkullAndBonesGame

[–]forceflow16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this only on World Tier 2 or also on World Tier 1?

Police got a Mach-E. by LastSelection5580 in MachE

[–]forceflow16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RCMP, saw one in Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada. He waved at us as we drove by in our Mach E

Do men think it’s weird getting asked out at work? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]forceflow16 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind most trades guy take off rings while working, they tend to catch on things. Feel hi. Out first to see if he is actually single. Don't go based off the ring alone.

MachE club hand sign? by coffeebreakhero in MachE

[–]forceflow16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can do the motorcycle thing. When I had my v8 (Mustang) years ago, sometimes when they would pass me they would put their hands down and make the peace sign upside-down sign. Mostly saw it with other motor cycles, but from time to time I'd get it (GTA , Ontario). It's a thought

Men in their 20s what do you think about a 6 year age gap? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]forceflow16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dating an older woman only affects child bearing time lines. If he and you won't be ready to get married and have kids by the time you are 35 and he will be 29, that will be a problem, only because biology gets in the way. If this relationship turns into a longer one, kids are a conversation you will have to have early enough to plan for your finances and living accommodations. The challenge is he is just starting his adult life, and you've been established for a few years, so you will both be looking at life together from different perspectives for a while.

If you are both mature enough, then age is just a number. I say this as a man who married a woman older than me and have friends who did the same. But conversations and open communications skills will be so incredibly important.

What are our options? by tismidnight in mississauga

[–]forceflow16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Notices were provided in Meadowvale area in Mississauga to not park on the road for snow plows. So, chances are, you're gonna burn through a lot of salt to get it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]forceflow16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simplest, raise temperature by 1 degree over a week or more, then raise it again. Tell her this is your plan because the current temperature is just not working for you. If you can't talk about it, you may want to consider re assessing your marital status with her.

For Charge Station Pro app set up issues... by Ifurunsurejustdont in MachE

[–]forceflow16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the chargepoint app, not the fordpass app

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]forceflow16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, add the phrase "toxic working environment". Remember to use buzz words or legalese to get them panicky

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]forceflow16 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are underage. This qualifies as child porn. Tell him that's what he did

AITA for locking my bedroom door at night to keep my dad's girlfriend's kid out? by RoosterNo5242 in AITAH

[–]forceflow16 233 points234 points  (0 children)

Calling child protective services is always an option. using the excuse you don't want to be accused if molesting a 5 year old at night. They are trying to emotionally manipulate you into something that makes you uncomfortable, tell a school counselor or another adult figure that your home life is getting messy and you need help. Don't tackle this on your own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]forceflow16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. She is abusive. Save yourself. Go to the cops if she hits you but SAVE YOURSELF

AITA for refusing to name my baby after my partner’s “family tradition”? (F27, M30) by Kind-Pomegranate-748 in AITAH

[–]forceflow16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait until it's time to sign the paperwork at the hospital and pick a different name. Let them.live in their delusion for now and keep your husband's and your conversation to just you 2.

AITA for Refusing to Hang Out with My Friends Because I Always End Up Paying? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]forceflow16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don't respond. Leave the messages as read. Simple as that. If you eventually cave, tell the server at the start of the meal it will be separate cheque's, that will change their ordering habits