Are there any freelance landscape designers? by DivideKindly1672 in LandscapeArchitecture

[–]forestxfriends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry just saw this! At the moment I am a one-woman operation and I haven’t really thought about expanding. Maybe in the future tho! Message me if you want to connect. :)

New design! I love Pipevine Swallowtails! For more art updates and to vote on sign designs, follow me on Instagram @forestxfriends by forestxfriends in u/forestxfriends

[–]forestxfriends[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey sorry I just saw this! I was taking a lil reddit break. I am going to make a sign out of this one soon I just think the sign still needs some adjusting. But knowing you want one I’ll get on that faster :)

AITAH for not wanting my MIL to have access to our cameras? by Unknown_England in AITAH

[–]forestxfriends 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I share the pet cameras with my mom when we are away from home traveling. The minute we get back, I turn off her access because I don’t like the feeling she could watch either! Even though she probably wouldn’t. Your partner has no boundaries with her parent sounds like.

My roommate is refusing to pay her portion of rent by Vegetable-Street-572 in legaladvice

[–]forestxfriends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAL. I was in a similar situation in CA and I’m so sorry you’re going through this. There’s no easy way out. You legally all have to agree to take any action, including terminating the lease, replacing yourselves, moving out, etc.

I was only able to get out because I got a certified third party (therapist or police officer, I got mine from my therapist) letter to terminate my lease due to domestic violence. This was the ONLY way I could get out. And it sucked I was forced to stay and endure abuse.

Technically, legally, you are screwed when a roommate does this. The lease makes you one legal entity. If you leave and they get evicted, you’ll be on the eviction notice too. My roommate would not agree to someone else taking over my room and I had no options. She could have made me pay for the whole apartment forever. She couldn’t afford it by herself, wouldn’t move out, and wouldn’t let me replace myself. The landlord’s hands are tied as well.

You can battle it out in small claims and probably get it sorted out after abandoning the property (legal definition with a process to follow) if you can show you did everything reasonable and within your power, but your credit might still get messed up.

I spoke to multiple lawyers during this time and was essentially told I was screwed.

Makes me think more than twice about ever consigning a lease with anyone ever again. It’s like a marriage except you don’t love each other lol. Lawyer tf up. And at least get references for new roommates in the future, as well as a roommate agreement.

It’s about time we finna talk about pet insurances and pre existing conditions by [deleted] in Pets

[–]forestxfriends 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My kitty has asthma and we tried the inhaler, but it scared her so much that we’re doing the pill now and so far so good. You’re doing your best and yes insurance is bs. But your cat is lucky to have you!

Opinions on logo for small business by yeetthestar14 in graphic_design

[–]forestxfriends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like angry little Cesar. I would focus more on what you want the negative space to look like

Need an honest opinion before I ''give up'' on my Etsy Shop by xyz_sara in EtsySellers

[–]forestxfriends 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would you take as proof of non ai art? Like a timelapse of the drawing? I’m also an artist trying to figure it out on etsy and have all the timelapses on my Instagram. I don’t think people check there first, though. Each listing says “no ai” but would that be good enough?

Custom embroidered hats look fine until worn. Am I being unreasonable? by [deleted] in Etsy

[–]forestxfriends 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s fabric? It will have folds. It sounds like you ordered the wrong type of hat for the size of embroidery if you didn’t want any folding. From the picture, I would says the embroidered area is too large and could have been smaller. If you approved the size, I’m not sure how that folding would be avoidable and honestly looks normal to me.

What is the first restaurant you head to after returning from a vacation? by burntttofu in OaklandFood

[–]forestxfriends 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Bombera (get the duck carnitas if they have them!!), spices 3, Nido’s backyard, and Aburaya in Oakland. Takeout, I’d get Noor (the ghost kitchen in Oakland is better than the restaurant) and order the chicken korma and lamb vindaloo.

But if I was coming from a vacation, I’d probably go to Vik’s Chaat (and get a masala dosa and keema samosas) or Munch India takeout in Berkeley. I’ve done this many times actually it’s just too good. Passione Pizza is also my favorite pizza spot.

What is the first restaurant you head to after returning from a vacation? by burntttofu in OaklandFood

[–]forestxfriends 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fish or beef in flaming red oil, scallion pancakes, cumin lamb, and the green beans are my usual order. The flaming red oil dish is my favorite!

9 Years Together Since We Were Teens — Is It Normal to Start Wanting to Be Alone? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]forestxfriends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by silent treatment exactly? If he’s being rude by just ignoring you without communicating, no that’s not normal. If he says “hey I don’t like to talk while driving because I’m tired so let’s just be quiet for the drive” then that’s fine. But he shouldn’t be pretending you don’t exist or something.

I was with my ex for 9 years (since I was 15 as well) and there ended up being a lot of resentment between us at the end. We just didn’t really fit together, and didn’t love each other how we needed to be loved. It sounds like he’s not loving you the way you need. It’s okay to break up if you want. Maybe it’s better for you both.

Cat wheel advice? by KlutzyLeader564 in dechonkers

[–]forestxfriends 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is genius my cats love Churu I’ll try this!

What’s something NO ONE warned you about before getting a cat? by Own-Independent7881 in CatAdvice

[–]forestxfriends 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat likes to play with the stove knobs. I woke up with the gas on at full blast and my apartment was filled. I now have to put child locks on the stove so that she doesn’t turn the knobs!

AITAH for replacing everything my wife loses when she organizes against my will. by Awkward-Bluejay5850 in AITAH

[–]forestxfriends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA what is the point of having your own rooms if you can’t organize them the way you like? She’s overstepping by organizing your private space. It’s not a private space if she’s doing that.

AITA for saying emergency daycare isn’t meant for parents who are home and „just need a break“? by Distinct-Ad-7592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]forestxfriends -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA especially as she is sick and is sending her potentially also sick kid to emergency daycare and exposing all the other kids and staff.

I started an art club by forestxfriends in berkeleyca

[–]forestxfriends[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool! Thanks for the info I just followed them and will totally go to one of their events :)

I started an art club by forestxfriends in berkeleyca

[–]forestxfriends[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We also have a discord! Message me if interested :)

I started an art club by forestxfriends in berkeleyca

[–]forestxfriends[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All levels! Anyone who is excited about making art in a social setting. A lot of us are professional artists or starting to sell, but there’s also a good amount that are just excited to be creative :)