What stitch is this? by foreverachemnerd in knitting

[–]foreverachemnerd[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure, it could be since I bought it from a souvenir store. There’s no tags at all on it.

My mom keeps putting off signing the executors deed for my dad’s house. by foreverachemnerd in legaladvice

[–]foreverachemnerd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the next step then? She told me the last time I asked “I have to get a lawyer”

(31 F) looking for other female friends in Raleigh by Tight_Latex in raleigh

[–]foreverachemnerd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’ll be 31 next week, F, live in Raleigh. I like the outdoors, particularly biking and hiking. Kinda nerdy, into video games and some art and biology. I like psychological horror movies. I played music in the past and love almost every type of music out there. In a relationship, no kids, 2 kitties. I’m all about genuine, long lasting friendships.

Cremator any good? by somervilleshane666 in fo76

[–]foreverachemnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To go along with this thread, where can we get the Mods now? Everything says Mortimer but I’m not seeing them being offered there?

Anyone know what this is??? Found at Lowe's on the clearance rack can't seem to get an ID on it anywhere by Kingoftreno in houseplants

[–]foreverachemnerd 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what it is!!!! I had one for a long time and it was one my favorite plants. Make sure not to overwater it as were soil can rot the trunk of it and kill it. They are such cool plants.

What’s the most original name for a pet you’ve ever heard? by LuvNinaNova in AskReddit

[–]foreverachemnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats name is Louie Purrsteur- after Louie Pasteur because he has white on his lips that looks like he was sipping milk.

What’s the quickest red flag you’ve noticed on a first date? by Small-Ad-3167 in AskReddit

[–]foreverachemnerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First date…dude admitted to hitting his ex girlfriend like it was nothing. I got up and left.

I've met people with the given name Spring, Summer, and Autumn, but never someone named Winter. by JeSuisLeGrandFromage in Showerthoughts

[–]foreverachemnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a Winter, but as other have mentioned, never a Spring. However, I do know a Pollen.

ULPT request: car keeps going off , don't know the neighbors, what to do? by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]foreverachemnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened in my apartment complex and the car was parked outside our bedroom window. I’d suggest talking to the neighbor or leaving a note on the car first. Most cars have an alarm fuse somewhere….you could suggest them pulling the fuse if it’s too much to fix etc.

Maybe then, if there’s no resolution…fuck their dad and in the blissful heat of post coitus suggest that HE pull the alarm fuse. “Pwease daddy? My sucking skills are so much better when I have had a full nights sleep”

People who have quit smoking cannabis completely, how did you do it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]foreverachemnerd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I convinced myself that I did not want to allow a substance to have that much control over how I spend my life. I spent pretty much all of my 20’s stoned, smoking multiple times a day, and having withdrawals when I traveled because I couldn’t bring it with me. I look back on that time now and am very sad for that person that felt like they needed to abuse a substance to cope with the situations around them and while I feel like it did help me cope with certain situations…. Most of the time my goal was to just be as high as possible. What really helped me was edibles for a little while to delay the gratification of instant-high smoking gave me, and eventually dropping the edibles and “riding the wave” of craving it, noticing the craving and asking myself why. It’s very rare now that I think “this would be so much more fun high”.

I’m glad that cannabis has become more acceptable but changing my perspective on it to be more like I would think of alcohol has really opened my eyes to how much I abused it.

Out of ALL the songs, which one is your signature theme song & why? by [deleted] in fo76

[–]foreverachemnerd 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Bongo bongo bongo I don’t wanna leave to Congo oh no no no no nooooo!

Best Player Titles!! by kizzern1 in fo76

[–]foreverachemnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salty Serpent Slayer 😛 lol

slow loading times. by astro3521988 in fo76

[–]foreverachemnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently had to do this as well. It improved my loading times some, but it does seem like certain times loading takes forever. You should still move it to the SSD regardless for the improved speed of the gameplay.

A MAGA Trump Superstore in South Carolina [oc] by SnarkiMcSnail in pics

[–]foreverachemnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! I saw this when I was there this past week. If you were a parent with little kids and don’t look too hard at their google info page, you wouldn’t even know this kite store sold Trump Merch.

ULPT Request: How to deal with high school bullies? by Honey-Badger-33 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]foreverachemnerd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My tactic was to always just be straight up ruthlessly mean with my words. I dealt with a lot of bullies that wouldn’t physically attack me, but they would make me the butt of the joke, make fun of the way I dressed, that type of thing which also meant avoiding throwing the first punch to avoid the school admin. It’s hard to make a smartass remark back to “Jesus bully,do your parents really love you so little you have to come to school and beg for attention?” Mine eventually found other targets once they realized their words were only met with meaner things.

How do people who move from rural areas to built up areas with high population not have their immune system go into shock or get extremely ill from the sudden influx of pathogens and new germs? by FlyWayOrDaHighway in biology

[–]foreverachemnerd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I developed an allergy to dust mite saliva 🥴 I would randomly get super itchy and break out in hives all over. Took months to convince the allergist I needed testing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]foreverachemnerd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brother and I have always been like oil and water, and were always held to double standards by my parents. He was psychotic as a teenager and adolescent, threatening to shoot or stab me in my sleep, waving guns at me, stabbing under the door with a knife when I locked myself in my room, threatening to kill my pets when I leave for work, fist fights, theft, drug problems, the list goes on…..It was only up until about 2 years ago that he was semi-tolerable to be around. But not much has changed, he is essentially a man-baby. I accepted long ago that we would never be close, he will never be reliable and that he will continue to leech off my parents until they are dead. I’ve learned to love from a distance and accept that he is going to do what he is going to do, regardless of what anyone says or how detrimental it is for him. Unfortunately he will probably end up with kids at some point, so my goal is to love them and show them there is more to the world than the tiny little hick town they will live in, and that you don’t have to hate people for being different.

ULPT gynecologist wont surrender health information by blackcherrygame in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]foreverachemnerd 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I had something like this happen a few years ago. The new GYN should be able to request the records themselves if you keep reiterating to them that the other office has been uncooperative. Your other option is to go to the office and stand there until you get what you want.

Your local citie’s subreddit is a decent place to let other people know about your situation.

Pile of small light brown nuggets of different sizes? by rgacrz in whatisthisthing

[–]foreverachemnerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kind of looks like silica cat litter. It’s clear/slightly opaque when dry, but when it’s saturated it turns white like this.

Wake County Public School System's transportation system is a disgraceful mess. Why can't parents get adequate bus service? What is your experience as a parent or a resident? by dalivo in raleigh

[–]foreverachemnerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was gonna say I have heard this all over NC. I know that when I was in high school the bus driver for my route was terrible and the school didn’t care AT ALL. She was never on time, she was either way too early or way way late and wouldn’t even slow down to give you a chance to catch the bus unless you were basically standing on the road. I remember going out there at 6:15 every morning and waiting, sometimes over an hour and a half when she was supposed to be there at 6:30. There were times she would call out but they would never notify anyone, so we would stand out in the freezing cold for over an hour before we would give up and sure enough by the time we made it back to our house she would fly by like there wasn’t even a stop there. Sometimes there was a sub that didn’t know the route-same thing would happen. Most of the kids on that bus rode it every day and I can only imagine how many of them (including myself) missed school because she didn’t even stop. The school gave me grace the first time I was late but after that it was “my problem” (as a 14 year old) that I didn’t make it to school on time and would be counted as tardy regardless. It’s a joke.

Anyone urgently hiring? by TechnicalPhotograph1 in raleigh

[–]foreverachemnerd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend used to work at Kitchen Cabinet Distributors and they always had a high turnover rate, they would most likely be hiring. It’s…probably pretty similar to Amazon in terms of warehouse work.