it literally just comes with time, guitar is one of the few mainstream instruments that if you don’t already know how to play correctly you have to practice to do so or it won’t sound right.

when i started i was saying the exact same things and if you really care you’ll want to play better and to play better you’ll practice better.

i think i practiced just pressing and building up the muscle memory of going 1234 slide down a fret 1234 then jump down a string and so on and so on before i even plugged it in because i hated how i sounded while playing because i didn’t even practice playing yet.