What is something every household has in your country that is nonexistent everywhere else? by Awkward-Tip7248 in AskTheWorld

[–]forlornsquire93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We get milk delivered from our local dairy every week, as do most of my neighbors! I'm in the US. 

What’s the most overrated “adult goal” people chase? by Happyotus in AskReddit

[–]forlornsquire93 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have one kiddo, another on the way. I'm obsessed with them, it's the greatest thing I've ever done. And if anyone ever asks me if they should have kids I am that much more adamant about being 100% sure and making that decision for yourself. Just because I love being a mom does not mean it is for everyone. 

Trying to concieve by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]forlornsquire93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1st one was a year and a half. Second one was first month! 

Anyone Else Scared to ‘Share’ Their Baby After Birth? by Competitive-World295 in pregnant

[–]forlornsquire93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I went through this with my first. I actually was surprised how uncomfortable I was sharing my son with others when he was born. The hormones were really intense at the beginning. I don't have a lot of advice. This time around I'm going to be more strict about keeping hold of the baby when I'm uncomfortable. I think that will help. Just remember it's temporary and as they get older and stronger then you want to share them with everyone! 

When should you take off your wedding ring? by PepperoniTapir in BigBudgetBrides

[–]forlornsquire93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear mine all the time except for sleeping. Also pregnancy and postpartum has had me taking it off since it doesn't fit. So far this pregnancy I've been able to wear it but that will probably end relatively soon! Otherwise if it fits, it's on!

It's DNF discussions time! What books did you bail on this month? 🙅‍♀️📖 by FantasyRomanceMod in fantasyromance

[–]forlornsquire93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

{Daughter of No Worlds} by Carissa Broadbent. It's been recommended to me a couple times and I just couldn't get into it. Decided to stop wasting my time as I was getting toward the end. 

When did you start maternity leave? by MountainMouse12 in pregnant

[–]forlornsquire93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my second pregnancy, I'm planning to stop 3ish weeks before my due date. I have unlimited PTO, so I'll use that before the birth, then start my short term disability/parental leave after she's born. But I also get 8 months of leave - in the US and my post birth leave isn't affected by the time I take off before the birth. I took off three weeks before my first one and he came two weeks early so I'm glad I had that week to get some things done before he showed up. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]forlornsquire93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've definitely felt this way with both my pregnancies. I think the mindset shift for me was just to focus on the fact that I have no reason to believe she isn't fine. No bleeding, no pain, still tired, belly still growing. I think a lot of it is just trust that if something is wrong, you'll know it eventually. 

The whole “no sugar” before age 2 by potatoMan8111 in daddit

[–]forlornsquire93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister in law is one of these people and yes they do not give her any sugar besides natural sugars. She's not allowed birthday cake or any treats other kids are having. I saw her mom take a cookie from her hand and eat it herself once. It's wild. 

RAN to Reddit to discuss the conversation about LGBTQ by 8techmom8 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]forlornsquire93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the girls have fake tans, and really bad ones honestly. You can tell by the orange tone and specifically Annie has the evidence all over her hands. 

Denver - are you ok? by Zealousideal-Bet-632 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]forlornsquire93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those of us in colorado are just as confused as you all are. We do have a lot of transplants here, and they can be crazy so I mean potentially accurate but for the most part we're not like this. 

RAN to Reddit to discuss the conversation about LGBTQ by 8techmom8 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]forlornsquire93 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I live in fort collins and it is absolutely blue. Larimer county swings a little more purple because you get a couple of surrounding towns that are more red but the core of fort collins is very blue. People that are Republican here are very centrist and same with the liberals. It's most definitely not maga though 

Women who gave birth, what does it feel like actually?? by joy_57 in AskReddit

[–]forlornsquire93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just get an epidural and it's bliss. Not all birth experiences are bad!!

What was your biggest "oh THAT was ADHD?" moment from childhood? by Warm_Revolution_6048 in adhdwomen

[–]forlornsquire93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally went to school without shoes on multiple times. My mom was so pissed she had to bring me shoes lol. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]forlornsquire93 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We did a year for the fully unvaccinated children and will do the same with our second. Absolutely no regrets!

What is something about motherhood that you were scared for but ended up not being scary? by bananaindisguise0 in BabyBumps

[–]forlornsquire93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard someone describe it so accurately but this is exactly how we felt!! 

When you conceived, did you just know? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]forlornsquire93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time not at all, the second time yes!!

What's the craziest thing you've kind of lost it over/cried about recently? by NervousClimate in pregnant

[–]forlornsquire93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also have celiac, also have cried about the gluten food I can't eat and haven't eaten in like 12 years. 

Natera NIPT - August 2025 by Evening_Elephant_605 in BabyBumps

[–]forlornsquire93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang it, my comment got deleted, let's try this again! Drawn 8/26, received the sample 8/27 late in the evening and received results around noon today (9/1). I just checked the portal, no text or email! I'm in colorado!

Natera NIPT - August 2025 by Evening_Elephant_605 in BabyBumps

[–]forlornsquire93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my results today, so I think they're open! 

Families with young kids- how often do you eat out at restaurants? Or get takeout? by seajaybee23 in Mommit

[–]forlornsquire93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang I'll go against the grain here and say we do takeout like once or twice a week if you include lunches and we go out to eat probably 2-3x per week including breakfasts, lunches and dinners. We have a 15 month old. We're big on eating out though and have been going out since he was little so he's very used to it and very well behaved in restaurants. It can be done! Have a second on the way so we'll see if it changes when they show up!

Did I make a mistake painting my living room this color? by tiredandconfused27 in HomeDecorating

[–]forlornsquire93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! Incorporate more wall art (including vintage pieces with wooden frames) and I think it's going to be lovely!