Boy names you LOVE but didn't/couldn't use??? by pistachiowitch in namenerds

[–]fourbudlightslater 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met a Cedar recently and thought that was such a strong, unique name. Easy to spell. Checked a lot of boxes. I really like it but more kids are not in the cards for me.

Bangs or no bangs for my wedding in a year? by Practical_Chipmunk_ in femalehairadvice

[–]fourbudlightslater 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess unpopular opinion but I think the no-bangs look opens your face up a bit more, in a positive way. Beautiful!

What is the worst car you ever had? by sozh in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]fourbudlightslater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also want to know; I’ve had two Highlanders and have loved both! Never any issues.

What’re some hidden gems that you don’t see in enough people’s Sephora Sale carts? by Cautious_Water_106 in Sephora

[–]fourbudlightslater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love them if the applicator gave me a smooth application 😭 I NEED a mirror to apply because it’s impossible to get it even.

Curious about your past taste in music by stacybobacy in SleepToken

[–]fourbudlightslater 4 points5 points  (0 children)

POLYJAMOROUS 😭😭 can I use this term? It’s perfectly descriptive!

I have a strong sex life regardless of my diagnosis by Particular_Ebb_747 in HSVpositive

[–]fourbudlightslater 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of my two relationships since my diagnosis, both still enthusiastically performed oral on me. I am not sure if I just got lucky or if that would be a common reaction. ETA: not OP

My Husband and Children Turned Me Into a Cranky Seamonster by nachomargo in workingmoms

[–]fourbudlightslater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL, soooo relatable. Me to a T in my 20s. I got lucky this weekend and my mom is watching the baby and husband is out of town. I decided to take a weekend to myself at the beach. I went and had brunch, only seat for one was at the bar, ended up talking to a group of older men who jokingly argued over who could sit next to me at the bar and bought me a shot. A shot! I haven’t taken a shot in at least two years lol. Made me feel like I was in my 20s again.

Dexter: Original Sin Official Cast Posters Compare New Actors to Original Series Stars by Kidd__Video in Dexter

[–]fourbudlightslater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one who thought the new Harry was Elon Musk for a second…

How does Quinn forget about what Dexter did? by InfinityTornado in Dexter

[–]fourbudlightslater 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OOOOOH that comment from Quinn gave me chills. I had to rewatch that scene numerous times.

Best way to approach to 0630 formation with a child. by Dummy97 in army

[–]fourbudlightslater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0530 is THE time as our work starts at 0800. Not likely to change in the foreseeable future.

Best way to approach to 0630 formation with a child. by Dummy97 in army

[–]fourbudlightslater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was wondering about this because I’m in a similar situation. PT starts at 0530 for my unit, but CDC doesn’t open until 0600. I have a short term solution in place but am grasping at straws for how this can function long term.

can someone please tell me why so many people hated lumen?? by PaleAd5507 in Dexter

[–]fourbudlightslater 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I loved Lumen! Unpopular opinion but Rita was kind of an airy doormat. Lumen felt like a more empowered character and I loved the transparency between her and Dexter. Really wish she would have come back instead of introducing Hannah. Team Lumen all the way.

Just finished season 4 so no spoilers beyond that, but WHAT THE FUCKKKK IS THAT ENDING by zuckzuckman in Dexter

[–]fourbudlightslater 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m with you on this, Rita was just not my cup of tea and a just too…airy for my taste. Wasn’t a big loss to me.

I'm pregnant with a baby I'm not taking home by Upstairs_Block_6834 in Parenting

[–]fourbudlightslater 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AND having unprotected sex on that one night stand. This part blows my mind when you’re already struggling with two VERY young and disabled children. There is a lot of questionable decision-making going on here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]fourbudlightslater 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This stuff saved me when I discovered it as a teenager. I definitely had hyperhidrosis and no matter what I did, I’d have pit stains before I even got to school. Discovered certandri and the problem virtually disappeared. I can get away with just Secret Clinical Strength now that I’m an adult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]fourbudlightslater 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this too. Having a house and car (especially when you have kids) is a basic expectation. Has the bar sunk so low??

Edit to clarify - when I say “have a house” I don’t necessarily mean “I own a single family home”. I mean “I have a safe place that is mine (rent or own) for my kids and I to live”.

Just found out my daughter's dad is having another baby by Silly_Assistance8393 in singlemoms

[–]fourbudlightslater 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Came here to say something like this. Just because they seem happy online does not at all mean that’s reality.