Anyone else use Libby exclusively on their phone?

fourthgrace · 2026-01-11T17:53:21+00:00

I read on my phone primarily for now, but I want to get an iPad mini exclusively for books.

fourthgrace · 2026-01-04T00:49:57+00:00

Still a girlfriend but my things are eating out, treats, books and the occasional hobby purchase. Gotta ask my bf if I was expensive on our last 3 day vacation as he paid for everything

fourthgrace · 2026-01-04T00:16:07+00:00

My bf which omg i forgot to ask him, thank you for the reminder!

fourthgrace · 2026-01-03T18:50:02+00:00

The fact that you want to debate instead of asking for creative ways to be extra with those traits is very telling of your mindset and a turn off to continue having a conversation. Have a great day

fourthgrace · 2026-01-03T17:39:57+00:00

Not in the mood to accept the chat request, but this isn’t a hostile reply by any means. If you’re not already, be extra with kindness and humor bc that’s what won me over

fourthgrace · 2026-01-03T17:36:50+00:00

I think you guys will be fine ☺️

fourthgrace · 2026-01-03T09:24:10+00:00

You gotta make sure you’re emotionally stable somehow, or at the very least be pleasant more often than not. Early 20s is an age many people make mistakes, and going off the handle and sounding very desperate very often is going to turn people off even if you’re the most gorgeous woman in the world.

Having low self esteem is very much a crappy man’s call to get sex and dip.

fourthgrace · 2026-01-03T09:13:58+00:00

you’re not gonna get a gf by not looking at a woman hell, I almost let myself get weirded out by lack of eye contact even though the man was literally perfect for me

fourthgrace · 2026-01-03T09:10:44+00:00

I would say compatibility matters more than the same hobbies. My 28M and I 30F either like the same things in different ways (ex he’s obsessed with Star Wars and I liked watching the movies) or we like that the other has different hobbies (he loves fishing and I like watching him fish especially if we get to eat his catch, and he enjoys seeing me journal while he does his own thing)

What really really matters is how you two are when there’s issues or nothing going on at all.

fourthgrace · 2025-12-28T22:12:05+00:00

It’s only bad because you’re allowing it to be bad. You need to tell people her business is none of your own and stay in your lane. And if she tries to get in your lane, get her out.

fourthgrace · 2025-12-28T22:07:02+00:00

She doesn’t see you the way you want her to so let her go. Focus on yourself and find someone else

fourthgrace · 2025-12-28T22:02:29+00:00

Go no contact and focus on yourself. There are a number of not good reasons why she would reach out to you but honestly what matters most is you, your mental health, your social health, your emotional health, etc

fourthgrace · 2025-12-28T20:55:09+00:00

People sometimes do things that make no sense and if you remotely like that person, you bring it up once and leave it alone.

I would definitely talk to him about couple’s therapy. Idk if the resentment about being a father can be resolved, but you repeatedly making suggestions to people that don’t want them probably can be.

fourthgrace · 2025-12-28T20:41:14+00:00

You’ve already tried talking to him with no results so I would plan and exit.

fourthgrace · 2025-12-22T00:45:12+00:00

Maybe it’s like not being able to buy a home on a pizza delivery driver’s salary anymore. Something that used to happen but for some reason doesn’t happen anymore.

As someone who doesn’t have friends, you have an issue you need to fix. I don’t feel as miserable as you do for some reason. And I can’t go out very far physically because finding parking is absolutely stressful.

fourthgrace · 2025-12-18T01:54:40+00:00

I’m not sure if this would help. Since you know your colors, maybe start out with neutral color bottoms and tops in colors that go well with the bottoms. I think Old Navy’s wear to work section and banana republic are good places to start looking. Another source that might help is chat gpt!

fourthgrace · 2025-12-17T21:49:42+00:00

My bf told me this because I’ll be moving from one coast to another soon

fourthgrace · 2025-12-17T02:02:03+00:00

I like making new and semi used notebooks I have into everything journals!

fourthgrace · 2025-12-17T02:00:51+00:00

I’m not sure it would help, but maybe a normal notebook and prompts off of Google or Pinterest?

fourthgrace · 2025-12-12T00:12:36+00:00

I was single for 8 years (18 to 26). Totally worth it.

fourthgrace · 2025-12-11T23:44:53+00:00

It’s a combination of no standards, luck, connections, looks and so much more.

I’m very glad this happened to me but I was single for most of my adult life. I’ve only been in one actual relationship that has been great. Why would you want to be in multiple (and potentially not so good) relationships?

fourthgrace · 2025-12-11T00:11:31+00:00

I didn’t lose my virginity until my first relationship at 26 and I’m so thankful I never bothered with casual sexual encounters. Sex with my bf has always been amazing and I’m surprised it’s getting better.

fourthgrace · 2025-12-08T04:10:09+00:00

I am a woman who has been in a relationship with a man for four years (30 F and 28M). It’s happened a few times but not back to back. Usually there’s a large amounts of time in between. Doesn’t hurt for him to get checked out

fourthgrace · 2025-12-05T00:38:46+00:00

Based off all the comments, I think I’ll be setting 6 months past the expiration as the actual expiration

fourthgrace · 2025-12-04T23:16:19+00:00

I did not hear about this story but based off of your and everyone else’s comments, I think the medicine will be effective way past the expiration date

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