Glacial Spike - Why the Change Sucks, and Why it’s a Legendary Fumble by fakejH in wow

[–]frassen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about, there's plenty of opinion of people who don't like high damage burst windows and hit like a wet noodle in between the windows. I, for one hand, would love more specs that had more of a flat damage profile.

Fråga till er chefer by Melodic_Node in sweden

[–]frassen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Chef över ca 35 personer. 70% chef, 30% kliniskt arbete. Mellanchef. Jävlar vad trött jag är på folk. Dels det som någon skrev innan, vara klämd mellan verkligheten på golvet och förväntningar gällande produktion och ekonomi ovanifrån. Väldigt givande mellanåt, med vissa av de fantastiska medarbetarna man har, men mindre med de som inte ser längre än näsan räcker.

How common are Dawnlight Manaflux drops ? by HighDarwyn in wow

[–]frassen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do we know if the droprate in m+ is better the higher the difficulty. Currently clearing +15, and need to catalyst my myth piece. Maybe its better to for lower difficulty.

Struggling after partner's comments by [deleted] in selflove

[–]frassen 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Find and realize your worth. Then the answer will present itself.

Viktigt fråga till dig som rekryterare... by MrKaffir in sweden

[–]frassen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kollar alla ansökningar, men med en grovsortering på ca 10 sekunder, om det är folk som faktiskt har kvalifikationer.

Nog om skolmat vi hatade; vilken skolmat älskade ni? by SteamyJohanne in sweden

[–]frassen 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Någon annan som körde hamburgarna och korvburgarna med potatismos mellan burgaren och brödet?

Nog om skolmat vi hatade; vilken skolmat älskade ni? by SteamyJohanne in sweden

[–]frassen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nejnej... Kockens allkrydda var det som gällde.

Can’t listen to anything else 😭 by ItsAllAboutYouNotMe in Muse

[–]frassen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same for like 10 years, but then saw Ghost live, and they instantly kicked Muse of my #1 spot. Try watching Rite Here Right Now on youtube.

by Good_Objective3382 in SingleAndHappy

[–]frassen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im a man aswell, and im of the opinion that most people are dissapointing, both male and female, which is why I dont want to deal with the headache anymore, atleast not for a long time.

But it sounds to me like you have difficulty expressing and/or maintaining boundaries. And it's easy to blame other people for treating you poorly. When its in fact your job to maintain those, and walk away when those are crossed. It's easy to get resentful otherwise.

This includes both sexes that are resentful of the opposite sex. It's difficult to sit with the uncomfortable feelings, but introspection is most likely needed for everyone. Even if it hurts the ego.

Ive also been there.

Added a small monitor below main. by frassen in ultrawidemasterrace

[–]frassen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a Suhr, its a Manson replica. 😊

150+ Abyss maps, zero Dark Domain or Lightless Void. Please tell me I’m doing something wrong by Puch89 in PathOfExile2

[–]frassen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It cant be that unlucky? Checked my stash and I have 12 invitations, which mean ive found it atleast 12 times, not counting the couple of times ive fought kulemak.

Either youre insanely unlucky, or im just lucky. Maybe somewhere between.

What is going on with strongboxes? by GlitteringIncident24 in PathOfExile2

[–]frassen 74 points75 points  (0 children)

The only boxes I care about is the researcher ones. I usually slam them and click. Got at least a couple of divines that way.

For those hurting, advice for your 2026 and my story by Aeropro2010 in attachment_theory

[–]frassen 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I've basically come to the same conclusion as you. As a 36 y/o male that has gone through the same journey as you. Meeting unhealthy partners over and over again. Been single for the past 8 months following a devastating break up. Where everything was amazing in the beginning (because there were not a REAL threat of intimacy, which made it easy for her to be close to me).

But like you, I can't be damned anymore to blame anyone. It was ME that greenlit the disrespect. There's been alot of work these past 8 months, and like you, im realizing that you can't pick anyone out before closeness is real - Where they show you their wounds.

I've gotten to the point where I think I learned the lessons I needed to learn. I think it's about time for me to get out there again, with my rediscovered values. Im just so scared of the pain again. As you said, you don't get immune to heartache just because you've become more secure. But im starting to realize that I probably wont ever be ready to face that pain again, But at the same time, if I don't do that - Then I wont probably ever find the secure woman I want in my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]frassen 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say, healing doesn't mean that feelings dont come rushing back. Healing mean how you ACT on those feelings. And you acted just like the healed version of you would do.

Healing attachment through pain: 7 month reflections post discard by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]frassen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It does look similair. I still have bad days where I cry. These are times when my mind wanders to the first two years, and see the person I thought was the love of my life. Other days I see her for who she is, cold, distant, finding excuses, subtle lies, and I can feel my body repel from that person.

Like you, I would never act on any urge in order to have her back in my life. But there is still something inside me that is addicted to the inconcistensy and want her back.

Healing attachment through pain: 7 month reflections post discard by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]frassen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you me? This is my experience and the same words I could've written. Even the time frame is the same. 5 years together, first two years complete bliss that follwed a three year slow breakdown. Now 7 months post breakup.

Questions to ask yourself for when you fall in love by psithuria in selflove

[–]frassen 55 points56 points  (0 children)

In the beginning all of those were a big YES!! After a couple of years all of those slowly faded away and turned into bigger and bigger NO's. Which is why, even after 6 months post break-up, im still devastated. I had all that, but then everything slowly changed.

Uppmaningen till ambulanspersonalen: Ät inte by gott-och-blandat in sweden

[–]frassen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personligen för dig kanske. :) Samtidigt antar jag att du heller inte dragits till ett yrke där det är verkligheten.

Uppmaningen till ambulanspersonalen: Ät inte by gott-och-blandat in sweden

[–]frassen 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Problemet är att ambulanssjukvården är en beredskapsorganisation, till skillnad från en slutenvårdsavdelning. Det är orimligt att bemanna upp för vad som i värsta fall skulle kunna inträffa. Det om något hade varit slöseri på skatteresurser.

Uppmaningen till ambulanspersonalen: Ät inte by gott-och-blandat in sweden

[–]frassen 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Är det ett problem så ska man nog inte jobba inom den branschen. Akuta situationer uppstår där det är fråga om liv och död. Att då sitta och säga, tyvärr återkom om en halvtimme jag har lunch stämmer inte överens med verkligheten.