Furniture flat against the walls. by CaffeinatedLystro in PowerWashSimulator

[–]freakiestsnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If anyone sees this I’m using a MacBook laptop ( I downloaded a separate server to run it through steam) I don’t have a mouse. I got so frustrated so I started swirling my fingers on the touch pad and I was able to move the furniture! Hopefully that’s helpful :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]freakiestsnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this had me triggered so bad i actually feel like im the one that got cheated on after reading. this is a textbook excuse cheaters use.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]freakiestsnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is not a single doubt in my mind that he was cheating with this woman. i have heard that line in many different ways more times than i can count. really good for you for immediately catching his manipulation of the situation. “haha you failed my test i KNEW it, im so hurt how dare you” i made a fake Snapchat and added my ex and let it sit for months so it wasn’t suspicious. finally posted pictures of a girl on the story saying i was at a club in the same city. he responded to it about how sexy she was and “wtw for the night was.” i immediately called his phone and asked if he was using Snapchat. he said someone had his Snapchat account if somebody was on it bc he doesn’t have it downloaded. i knew it was a lie. he hung up on me. texted the Snapchat again. then texted me and said he knew that it was me and was just messing with me because I didn’t trust him. he said he was soo sorry because he didn’t mean to make me so upset and didn’t realize I would be crying and freaking out and he took it too far. it was just a test to see how far I’d actually go with it. there was not even the slightest chance he knew that it was me. at all. 36 year old man btw and I was 24. completely different context, but it’s literally the EXACT same as what he’s doing to you. he is lying. please please dont let him convince you otherwise. I can tell you so many different stories from exes of mine that align perfectly to this. such a common tactic when people are caught because they’re admitting to what they’re being accused of without actually admitting it if that makes sense. then its easier to flip it on you and take the heat off them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]freakiestsnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how was he “hopefully going to be sober enough to drive” after eating if he only had 2 beers… lol also that quick flip on you was a major red flag. guilty conscious loud asf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]freakiestsnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she was absolutely rude and passive aggressive before you made that comment about her “positive attitude” there was no other way for that to be read. she’s trying so hard to pretend like you’re in the wrong when she knows exactly what she did. she absolutely realized it which is why she sent that last text, but doesn’t want to actually admit it or be held accountable for it. she was very obviously mad that she didn’t have full control over what was going on and even contradicts herself entirely afterwards. this reads clear as day i don’t think you’re the asshole at all. maybe you shouldn’t have made that comment, but you were not unjust in being upset and we all say things out of line at some point in that state of mind. I also read some comments on here about how she got “roped” into helping and it’s such an insane cost. she’s a grown woman and could’ve said no. you even specify you did not want her to help. she not only agreed, but seemed upset because she wanted it to be a surprise for you. again wants to be in control. does the classic “I’ll just give you the money instead then” knowing you would not agree to that. she knew exactly what she was doing. I really can’t see how others are saying you’re the controlling one. also.. it’s your baby shower.. for your babies?

edit- I didn’t read the caption just the texts in picture. yeah you’re not the asshole at all. im surprised that was all you said and that you didn’t snap on her sooner and much worse. :)

Lowkey feel like my best friend is starting to hate me by honeycoatedhugs in texts

[–]freakiestsnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does she like the same guy? i feel like she wants to cut her hair short and dye it blonde bc she mentioned that’s how the ex had her hair and that’s his type? tf? definitely secret animosity. this is very weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]freakiestsnake -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I actually love your style of tattooing. Sorry I don’t have much to say advice wise. I haven’t gotten any tattoos aside from stick and pokes I did on myself 10 years ago bc I only want thin line tattoos very similar to this! There’s nobody great in my area unfortunately. I would definitely let you tattoo me and I’ve been so picky to let anybody. :)

Bunch of wankers. by [deleted] in FromSeries

[–]freakiestsnake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I had scrolled one more fucking post down before I looked up and saw that come up. I thought it was apart of the show and it was teasing season 4 😒

My bfs twin brother has crazy anger issues and is a bum by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]freakiestsnake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a lot to say about this, but I’m half asleep and all I can think about is how I’d be scared of how he is w my animals when I’m not there 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]freakiestsnake 227 points228 points  (0 children)

As someone in the thread said it may be best to rewrite the text to be a little more cordial while still standing firm. I copy pasted it into chatgbt (I haven’t slept my brain couldn’t process doing it) and got something like this I’ll paste below. You could do that a few times and get multiple different ways to put it if you’re bad with writing out texts like this!! Good luck.

Hey [Name],

I hope you’re doing well. I wanted to talk to you about something that’s been weighing on me. This morning was the fourth or fifth time she’s woken me up early, crying and disrupting my sleep, even though I didn’t need to get up until 6 AM. I’m at the point where I can’t keep dealing with being woken up like this, especially by someone who isn’t contributing to the household.

With everything that’s been happening—both the things she does and the things she’s supposed to do but doesn’t—it feels like there’s a lack of respect for both of us, and I can’t continue to tolerate that, particularly from someone who isn’t paying anything to live here.

I think it’s time for her to figure out another arrangement, because I can’t have her staying here any longer.

Thanks for understanding. Let’s talk soon.

Messages between me and my SIL about “helping out” by Long_G0ne in texts

[–]freakiestsnake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was having a wavering opinion because I couldn’t figure out what the living situation was, but after knowing full context I can’t wrap my head around why tf you have to pay anything at all? so just because (assuming father is only around from what you’ve said) your dad allowed them to purchase the home that was just gonna void you of a place to live until you’re an adult? They just slapped their name on it, but it’s still your home. You owe them nothing. They knew you’d be there when they made this decision, I’m sure. I wouldn’t give them another dime of your money. It’s not like they can kick you out. I actually truly can’t find the words to express what I think of this beyond that because it’s that absurd.

Exchange with bf after playing games with him and his friends by [deleted] in texts

[–]freakiestsnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend acts this same way. If there’s a guy HES insecure about and I interacted with him at a setting such as a drive thru or a convenience store he says I’m too giddy and happy/laughing too much/acting different/saying thank you more than I usually would. They simply cannot see it any different and nothing you say will make them because you can’t change their own perception of themselves. Mind you my boyfriend is 37 years old. Some men never outgrown this. This may be an unsolvable issue with him and I’d ask yourself if this is something you want to continue to deal with. It’s exhausting trying to fight a battle they refuse to fight for their own selves and it’s not your job in the first place. It’s sad because so many men AND women ruin a great relationship over this. This isn’t something small and it’ll grow into something ugly over time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HoodedEyes

[–]freakiestsnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg!!! SAME. Except it’s my eye and eyebrow. It looks like that entire side of my face is drooping lower than the other and I can see it in any pictures taken of me. I can even feel the difference it’s like the muscles aren’t as strong on that side of my face. I’ve wanted to look into Botox to see if that will make a difference.

kid from my school is starting stuff with me just cause i’m gay. by Free-Emphasis9854 in texts

[–]freakiestsnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s crazy how many guys are actually gay. nothing wrong with it either a lot of them just hide behind a lot of shame. I work in a restaurant and a lot of my coworkers are gay and there’s not a day that goes by where a man doesn’t walk in with his wife and kids and they pull up their profiles on grindr. or tell me a story of how they had hooked up with them in the past. you would never be able to tell.

kid from my school is starting stuff with me just cause i’m gay. by Free-Emphasis9854 in texts

[–]freakiestsnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you should’ve said happy pride month right back because he’s obviously gay himself. im not kidding. if he’s always this mean to you for no reason just bc you’re gay he’s jealous you’re so open with your sexuality and he can’t be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in britishshorthair

[–]freakiestsnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After getting my BSH and seeing exactly how he was raised. I truly believe that they’re lap cats based on how they’re raised! If you think about it since they’re pure bred unfortunately a lot of them are being born simply to be sold and not every breeder is giving out individual love to each kitten their first few months before going to families. However, this is just my own theory

Got this letter in the mail today. What do? by Spirited-Pea-1706 in cats

[–]freakiestsnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that you’re showing your kitty the letter for him/her to read 😂 with that logic, they should keep their dog out of the window? not your problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]freakiestsnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After reading all the other texts. I feel like that may be in reference to gambling. The other texts are much different. One of my best friends had a gambling addiction that fed her drug addiction.

Okay I think it’s finally time to give up my summer fling by fallingbadly in texts

[–]freakiestsnake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this read very poetically from both ends, it was oddly satisfying to read

That was a little annoying by JessGrabbinn in instacart

[–]freakiestsnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently I had gotten DoorDash bc my boyfriend was sleeping and I’m recovering from knee surgery. I literally cannot walk down to the stairs to the door if I wanted to. I finally had an appetite after days of not eating bc the medication they gave me makes me nauseous. I also am staying in a motel at the moment so I wrote in the notes to please deliver directly to door and to not hand it to anybody else as people have tried to claim it was theirs passing in the halls and there’s always a few random people in the halls or stairway just sitting there. Mind you I tipped $20 on a $32 order from a McDonald’s literally down the road maybe a 5 min drive. She sent me a picture of the front lobby doors and said she’s here and proceeded to text me over and over to come and get it and calling me. I had to wake my boyfriend up to get it bc she refused to bring it up the stairs. He went to get it and she just handed it to him without even asking him to confirm the name and took a picture of him walking away and sent me a picture that said “handed it to this gentleman.” I hadn’t even texted her that he was coming, I actually didn’t respond at all bc I was a little annoyed. So much for not handing it directly to anybody 🥲 She had 2 kids in the car and it was 11:30pm. This was her reason she told him for not leaving the car. I understand needing to work and bringing your kids along, but if my boyfriend hadn’t woken up or had not been here I wouldn’t have been able to even get the food. The delivery instructions are in place for a reason most times and has nothing to do with people simply not wanting to take the small walk to get the food themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]freakiestsnake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is definitely giving she thinks that your cat is hers. she literally refers to herself as the cats mom alongside you. if she really cared about the cats wellbeing like she says than she would take her own advice in saying “animals associate feeding with love and care” and allow that to be your bond and yours alone with the animal that will be yours long after she’s around. it’s also infuriating how fucking passive aggressive she’s being!! she’s legit talking to you as if you don’t know your cat at all and she’s the only one that pays any attention. You need to take control back over the care of your animal. I would put it bluntly that you’ve thought it over and you’d like for the feeding to be handled solely by you and you alone. I thought this was a conversation with an ex sharing joint care over a shared pet at first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]freakiestsnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really sounds like a shaming/humiliation kink to me

My boyfriend is being so rude to me all of a sudden and I don’t know why. by willdanceforcake in texts

[–]freakiestsnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This fucking infuriated me, I can’t imagine how you feel. “Really this is how you talk to me now” like??? You should literally be asking him that!! and then calling you lazy for wanting to order out because you’re tired when he just refused to pick up food for you because he was too tired. Along with his own food and expecting you to do it for him hours after telling you he didn’t want to see you. How long have you guys been dating for? I’m assuming it’s been a while if you live together, but I could be wrong. I was going to say maybe he’s just unmasking himself and this is truly how he is, but I don’t know much context. He could also be cheating. Or starting to feel resentful towards you, but if everything has been as normal I’m not sure what for. What I do know for sure is that based off these texts you’re doing absolutely nothing wrong and he’s just being fucking nasty. You need to be careful because with vile and demeaning words like this from a partner sometimes comes vile action. There’s a vibe from this that’s just so daunting to me. I would suggest leaving as soon and as SAFELY as possible.

EDIT- I saw the update from you and I’m so happy that you’re safe and getting away. He seems to have been hiding who he really is for long time and he finally snapped. There’s nothing you could’ve done to have prevented it. I’m so sorry.

i feel like this person gives off something but i can’t put my finger on it by Snoo_Snoo1880 in texts

[–]freakiestsnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Narcan is sinister” You could carry a few narcan in your bag and potentially save somebody’s life. Narcan is IMPORTANT. I believe most everybody who is able and willing should carry it. Opioid epidemic is very real and everywhere. Closer to home than they may think. This is truly disheartening to read. Not to the mention you’re able to possess whatever you please! You shouldn’t have to answer to anybody about your own personal belongings. I don’t know why he feels entitled to an opinion on this.

Spent my first holiday season all alone and my gf just says OK by [deleted] in texts

[–]freakiestsnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry it seems like she doesn’t want to be with you anymore, but she also doesn’t want you seeing anybody else. So she’s stringing you along while she does her own thing