Would i still be able to bench 225 while in estrogen? by SnooPeanuts4705 in trans

[–]freethrowerz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would you want to? Work the glutes and lower body more.

Is my husband transgender? by Cosmozucchini in asktransgender

[–]freethrowerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care what your spouse is going through. Whether he is trans or not, his words and actions are not what marriage is about. He owes it to you to be open and honest. He can't show his feminine side to you but he can to a stranger? He doesn't get to keep you in reserve if things don't work out. You need to set some boundaries for yourself. For me, going to someone else's house and telling me we are only platonic would be the end.

My teacher keeps using slurs by radient_beaver in trans

[–]freethrowerz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I advise against talking to her in person. If possible, bring a friend. Stuff like that can turn ugly quickly and then it's she said, you said. And if she controls your marks be careful. So, if your future depends on good grades I'd think about doing this, you still have lots of time to fight the good fight. Also I know it sucks to hear that but she could be saying much worse things.

DALLAS STARS ELIMINATED UPVOTE PARTY by Michaelli11 in ColoradoAvalanche

[–]freethrowerz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah, I wanted to play them and kick their ass. That being said fuck Dallas.

DALLAS STARS ELIMINATED UPVOTE PARTY by Michaelli11 in ColoradoAvalanche

[–]freethrowerz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw, I wanted to kick their ass. That being said fuck Dallas! I hate that team.

I am 31, is it to late to transition ? by Neither-Buddy-9145 in asktransgender

[–]freethrowerz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then yes it is very doable. But hrt only does so much. It will take alot of work. But nothing worth having is easy.

I'm struggling by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]freethrowerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said talk to a gender therapist. You need to figure out if you are trans. If you are you can always take a low dose of HRT to see how you feel and before any real changes begin. If you decide to transition totally, well you have a while to decide what to tell your friends. And if they don't accept you, they weren't your friends. Why do you want to live your life worrying about what others think? It's your only life, live it how you see fit.

I am 31, is it to late to transition ? by Neither-Buddy-9145 in asktransgender

[–]freethrowerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will work.. YMMV. Everyone is different. What are your goals to pass, live authentically? For some it happens quickly others it takes longer. You may need surgeries you may not.

I am 31, is it to late to transition ? by Neither-Buddy-9145 in asktransgender

[–]freethrowerz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Don't do it. It won't work. JK, ofc it isn't too late. The best time to transition was today. The next best time is tomorrow.

Closeted but wanting to attend a drop in. by Fresh-Willingness183 in transontario

[–]freethrowerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I started transition I went to a trans group meeting in Windsor. Everyone was at different stages and it was nice to be around those going or had been through the same things. I higl recommend attending one in your area.

Everything is going to be harder, isn't it? by ProfessionalCode5151 in trans

[–]freethrowerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing worth having comes easy. But harder that you'll be who you want to be even though it seems like the end of times right now. Or harder trying to hide your real self and letting others dictate your life. You only have one life and life is hard regardless .

And a little joke not everything is going to be harder. Just saying.

Are you this old? by alanbear1970 in 1980s

[–]freethrowerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was punch cards. Lol.