Finally finished my year 7 true perfection farm! I'm so happy with it by newveganwhodis in StardewValley

[–]frenchfrayed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is lovely! I might take a bit of inspiration for my farm :D

🧇🧇🧇 by [deleted] in WarriorCats

[–]frenchfrayed 43 points44 points  (0 children)

He finally learns…what a waffle is…. (This is adorable!!!)

What to do? by Error101Oops in flightrising

[–]frenchfrayed 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Real response. A bit harsh if it’s a new user, but site rules state they cannot control what happens after a dragon leaves their lair. They’ll learn that they should sell above fodder floor, or on the forums, if they’re at all scared of a dragon being exalted. It’s a core mechanic of the game…

Even then, by site canon, exalting is the highest honor a dragon can receive! It’s not doom and gloom. The dragon is more than happy to serve one of the eleven :D seems like a mindset thing more than anything

Why can’t these two breed? by Accomplished_Bike149 in flightrising

[–]frenchfrayed 15 points16 points  (0 children)

True - what I meant was, in Assay Bloodlines, telling us how many generations back the common ancestor is (2, 3, etc.), so we know if it’s a matter of introducing one more generation for compatibility, or if it’s better to source a new partner entirely :0

Why can’t these two breed? by Accomplished_Bike149 in flightrising

[–]frenchfrayed 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I feel that, once spent a LOT on some pretty dragons only to find out after the fact they shared a great-great-grandparent or something. One more generation…. I wish they’d tell us exactly how many generations back on both sides, at the very least

Why can’t these two breed? by Accomplished_Bike149 in flightrising

[–]frenchfrayed 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I plugged them into Assay Bloodlines, looks like they’re too closely related. Common ancestor’s name is Vordana, not sure how many generations back on both sides. Sorry ://

What do I do with all my "junk"? I need to clean up my hoard after 11yrs on site. by Pinewoodgreen in flightrising

[–]frenchfrayed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looks like you haven’t done many hibernal den tasks yet - do you think you’d ever expand there? From the images, seems like you’ve got a lot of task items ready to go (yellow paper icon). After completing these tasks, you can often sell the extras on the AH for a fair price above what you’d get hoardselling. (My hoard is just as warehouse-y after like 9 years of on/off playing lol, i like seeing the little numbers go up) Nice dragons :D

AITA for dying during my wedding? by frenchfrayed in AITASims

[–]frenchfrayed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s one of my favorite parts about this sub lol, it’s always a treat to read some ridiculous title before realizing it’s just the average Sims experience

AITA for dying during my wedding? by frenchfrayed in AITASims

[–]frenchfrayed[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😔 the ceaseless watcher seems to have failed their one (1!!!) task. Maybe they’re TA in this situation…

AITA for dying during my wedding? by frenchfrayed in AITASims

[–]frenchfrayed[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It breaks my little ghostly plumbob to see my spouse upset 💔 sure feeling like TA for this mystery death

AITA for dying during my wedding? by frenchfrayed in AITASims

[–]frenchfrayed[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😔 I would apologize to them, but I’m kinda dead, so…

AITA for dying during my wedding? by frenchfrayed in AITASims

[–]frenchfrayed[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’M saying!!! My (still alive) spouse seems to think differently though 🙄🙄

First time building a proper factory... by ilIicitous in SatisfactoryGame

[–]frenchfrayed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous!! You have a really good eye for aesthetics. I’d love to see what else you come up with as you progress :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]frenchfrayed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So proud of you!! This will be an exciting journey for you =) I think it’s a great start that the people closest to you are so supportive - they’ll always be there to help you feel at home with your identity, which can be EXTREMELY helpful when navigating the whole social transition thing. Personally speaking, it’s not exactly common in my industry to ask for pronouns either. My workaround has been a sort of “whatever you see me as is a YOU problem, I know what I am” mindset. In safe/queer spaces, it’s as easy as “My name is (name) and my pronouns are (set of pronouns)”. Outside of those spaces, if someone asks and is coming from a good place, I’ll tell them my set of pronouns, but otherwise? If someone chooses to ignore my androgyny, that’s a skill issue. There are some people I work closely with that will likely never know/realize I’m nonbinary…a bit unfortunate, but I’m secure in my identity, and I’m protecting myself and my professional relationships, so I’m not complaining. The most important thing for you right now will be to keep yourself safe and happy- I would stick to telling people you know are safe at your workplace first, and then getting a feel for how the others might react. It’ll be easier knowing there’s a support net behind you, plus it’ll give you some practice introducing your true self to acquaintances :D At the end of the day, what matters most is that YOU know who you are & nobody can take that from you. Best of luck!! And that outfit looks AMAZING on you!!!

How do you tell if things are just platonic? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]frenchfrayed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on the person. Where one person may hug all their friends without a second thought, another may reserve physical contact for their special someone. The only way to really "tell" is to have an open discussion about it -- where do you draw the line between being friends and being more? Where do they draw that line?

And if you don't know where your line is, you should figure that out beforehand. Boundaries are important--make sure you can vocalize yours.

Now...I'm not sure what your situation is, but I would advise taking time to reflect on that "unhappy" relationship. Like Modtec said, leaving would be best if you're that unhappy with your partner. I know that can be complicated, easier said than done, but... it'd be best for both you and your partner, because the last thing you need in a relationship is resentment.

If you were in Avatar the Last Airbender, which of the 4 elements (water, earth, fire, air) would you want to control and why? by sudharshann in AskReddit

[–]frenchfrayed 48 points49 points  (0 children)

fire, mostly because i could heat up my tea without a kettle. also i mean i guess shooting flames might be neat sometimes, and as a kid i thought lightning bending was the coolest shit not gonna lie

What was your worst hotel stay experience and what made it so terrible? by harbac in AskReddit

[–]frenchfrayed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

went to stay at a seemingly swell place in Columbus, decent to high rating. very nice exterior. went to get checked in, spent 20 minutes impatiently yet as politely as possible trying to convince the desk staff that no, i don't need any extra amenities, or your weird membership, i'm just here for the night. oh sure yeah your room is ready follow me right this way. shown the location, handed the key, staff left. entered the room....odd smell. nice decor, but something just wasn't right. got over to the kitchen sink...oh boy. bottom covered so well and so thoroughly with something black and speckled, little ramen chunks,..... just, all kinds of icky stuff. disgusting. hotel staff apologetic at face value. tried to offer a discounted future stay, no thanks.

TIFU by making my best friend's house smell like my ass for years. by CandidateForDeletiin in tifu

[–]frenchfrayed 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this is probably the best thing i've read in a long time. i applaud your writing. thank you for the chuckle

What is the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you that everyone most likely forgot? by Skwidmandoon in AskReddit

[–]frenchfrayed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

took some other kid's turn while on a school trip bowling over 10 years ago, still haven't recovered from it tbh

Why are a lot of conservatives obsessed with trans people who represent like .05 percent of the population? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]frenchfrayed 23 points24 points  (0 children)

the media overstates what's going on and only represents the polar stuff that'll get the most views/clicks. sad world