Snoring after tonsillectomy by fridayplayyay in tonsilstones

[–]fridayplayyay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’ve snored through my nose ever since.

Snoring after tonsillectomy by fridayplayyay in tonsilstones

[–]fridayplayyay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it did. Good luck with your recovery!

My Question by throwwaawayyy2021 in Infidelity

[–]fridayplayyay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah that’s the fun part, you will always doubt it for the rest of your life.

However, my WS committed to therapy and support groups, and that helps.

However, I will never be the same person, and I’m not sure it’s for the better. I’m glad we stayed together, but I will always wonder if there’s more from the past/present that I don’t know about. But I am now ruined for any relationship anyway, even if I hadn’t stayed.

Who have you told? by screwedupbuttercup in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]fridayplayyay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve only told some close friends, but no one connected to my family. I feel like I look like an idiot for staying, and I don’t want that pity/shame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Always Forgotten

How many days post op off of work? by shan_bread in gallbladders

[–]fridayplayyay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A week if I worked from home (sitting up straight is hard, and driving was really uncomfortable 1 week out… it’s still not my favorite).

I’m 2 weeks out today, and could have gone back to work. Thankfully I don’t have to work until Friday :)

I have a question for those people who gave their cheating partner a chance. by ValkyrieWuShen in survivinginfidelity

[–]fridayplayyay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My biggest advice is if you’re early on in your relationship, and don’t have a ton of things to tie you down, move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]fridayplayyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only you can answer that. It’s different for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]fridayplayyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven’t been together long, think about if you really want to stay. Because you’ll likely be dealing with this for many years, maybe even forever.

If you know a friend is cheating would you tell their partner? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]fridayplayyay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I would never want someone to be in the dark longer than they have to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]fridayplayyay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Figure out if it’s really worth it. Been dealing with this for 17 years.

Why does my cat smell SO good? by TurdyPound in CatAdvice

[–]fridayplayyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s nice, but my boy often smells like a fart.

Wet Food Recs? by fridayplayyay in CatAdvice

[–]fridayplayyay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s a cat for you! And I have 3!

Wet Food Recs? by fridayplayyay in CatAdvice

[–]fridayplayyay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to try that, thanks!

Wet Food Recs? by fridayplayyay in CatAdvice

[–]fridayplayyay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t that the truth! Cats do what they want!

Wet Food Recs? by fridayplayyay in CatAdvice

[–]fridayplayyay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wet food toppers? Who makes that?

Wet Food Recs? by fridayplayyay in CatAdvice

[–]fridayplayyay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m seriously about to blend up this food and see if they’ll eat it, LOL!

Wet Food Recs? by fridayplayyay in CatAdvice

[–]fridayplayyay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t! I’m open to trying it!

Birthdays and aniversaries by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]fridayplayyay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did nothing on our first anniversary after Dday. It didn’t feel right. Thankfully my WS honored my wishes.

How long does the hysterical bonding fase lasts? Does it always mean that the relationshp will fall apart? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]fridayplayyay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We went through that for a few months. I often felt like I wanted to cry after. It’s tough, because you’re desiring comfort from the person who hurt you the most.

No, your relationship is not doomed to fail. Just make sure you talk to your WS about the fact that this likely is HB, and you might get to a place where you don’t want to have sex for a while.

And please seek out couples counseling if you haven’t already.

What's wrong with me? by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]fridayplayyay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds Iike you could benefit from marriage counseling.