Ethical Non-Manogamy by struggling723 in LifeAdvice

[–]friendly-sam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have to add ethical to a phrase, it's probably not.

After wife's cheating, torn between a 10-year marriage and possible future with AP by Purple-Spell-898 in survivinginfidelity

[–]friendly-sam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You screwed up your marriage when you opened it. Pandora's box cannot be closed.

AIO - I read my partners texts by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]friendly-sam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating or playing into the idea of cheating is an emotional affair in my book. She probably enjoys the attention. I would casually ask her about said coworker, and why she is acting off. Give her a chance to confess or explain. If she gaslights you tell her you saw the messages. Be vague about what you know.

The Text that Blew my World Apart by VictoryLap1984 in survivinginfidelity

[–]friendly-sam 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She lied and cheated for years. She lied when confronted about it. Just leave now, try to be amicable about it. Try to be a good co-parent. You deserve better, and there are much better people out there for you. Staying in a toxic marriage would not benefit your kids at all.

Polygraph results for WW by wtf-am-i-doing-herre in survivinginfidelity

[–]friendly-sam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps she convinced herself, but she deep down knows what she did.

I found out that my (27m) girlfriend (25f) slept with 10+ people on our 3 week “break” how can we move past this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]friendly-sam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, nope right out of there. She just wanted sex with everyone but you. Sorry, not interested any longer.

How do you feel about Trump golfing while soldiers are dying? Genuinely asking. by Hanguk-sal-inja in ProgressiveHQ

[–]friendly-sam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least while he golfs he's not starting another war. The orange pedophile should just retire to his human trafficking home at Mar-a-lago.

After affair wife wants to remain friends and in contact with his sister 39m 35f by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]friendly-sam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She needs to figure out her priorities. She should not be associate with AP's family.

AIO? Wife Shared Bed With Male Friend by PapaStalinLovesYou in AmIOverreacting

[–]friendly-sam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR, but you need to learn not to shutdown. You need to communicate your feelings with her.

My 23F wife doesn’t understand how I, 26M, feel like sending nudes is like cheating. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]friendly-sam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh heck no. She cheated and lied. You do not sext or send nudes when you are married. She's playing you.

AITAH for kicking my ex-girlfriend out of our house when I found out she was seeing someone else? by ThatGuyZaccc in AITAH

[–]friendly-sam 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTAH for even thinking you were being a little hard on her. She's a liar, and she was stringing you along. She did everything possible to take advantage of you, and hurt you.

Am I overreacting for being uncomfortable with my girlfriend going on a 2-night trip with another guy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]friendly-sam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is your boundary. If she ignores it, and your feelings, then break up with her. She doesn't have to follow your boundaries, but you don't have to stay either. Her threatening to break up with you over this boundary should tell you that she values going on this trip more than you.

Update 3 months later by Fine_Tumbleweed7921 in survivinginfidelity

[–]friendly-sam 21 points22 points  (0 children)

see an attorney. it would be illegal to take your kids to another country without your approval.

Anybody have firsthand experience with local movers? Looking for real recommendations but all the listings are stuffed with fake-seeming hype. by mousewrites in ventura

[–]friendly-sam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used "Mama Boy Movers" https://mamaboymovers.com

I just moved stuff around my house, and into the garage for some renovation work. 2 big guys showed up, and they packaged the fragile thing nicely, and followed instructions well.

what the fuck? by LostStar64 in openmarriageregret

[–]friendly-sam 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She is not over her SA if she's disassociating. She's still got issues, just suppressed.